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  1. This isn't even changing himself. Taking the time to care for a partner isn't a core of who you are, it's an action you take. If this is a core change, than there are much bigger issues at play here.

  2. this is the second post you have made and we will all tell you the same thing. You are the bad guy in this you might have been the victim in the beginning but once you started making up excuses and lying to both people YOU are the bad person. What do you mean you wont break up because your 18 yr old child still lives at home? They are 18 this isn't going to confuse them if you explain properly what's happening. You are just using these women for your convenience. Everything you have said is just an excuse as to why you are the victim but news flash dude you're not the victim. You are the bad guy now especially to the friend. I'm glad she realized that you were just using her as an escape without taking any real responsibility.

  3. There's quite a lot to unpack here. I will say that phone sex, nudes and what have you didn't exist until a few years ago, so he's not that weird in not being into them, imho. Nor is he that weird in not making compliments and loveydovey statements. These by themselves are not that odd. I don't like all these labels that people fling around these days. I have had periods where I hated men, actually hated all of them, and didn't want to have sex, but that doesn't make me aromantic, asexual a-whatever. I'd ignore the labels. People love to pigeonhole these days, it's so retrograde. However, and it is a big however, I get a kind of creeping feeling that you were second best to this other girl. Like an insurance policy. Who is to know what would have happened if she had got with him, they might have split up long ago. I just feel like he originally wanted you as a FWB and you kind of still are.

  4. Awesome, I totally will give it a listen when I have time to really sit down after work tonight.

  5. Yeah, this is really hard to find online. I might be into it a bit too. Maybe that’s why blowjobs are my favorite type of porn. The woman usually has some clothing on still :shrug:

  6. I mean the sensitivity increase is amazing when I'm not with my babe, but when I'm with her it just makes me not want to eat too much. I dunno, maybe it's an insecure attachment. The withdrawals usually aren't severe and I'd probably survive it. Used to drink and stop every two weeks and I only got a bit of overheating and anxiety. However, the recent experience is that I get very sensitive to sexual activity in a narrow window about 2-3 hours after cessation…. So I just bate, but the additional reward from the sensitivity keeps me seeking that point and I am starting to think that I am in no way normal. Most people, when withdrawing, hallucinate bugs. I hallucinate porn.

  7. Good sex is awesome. But as with everything else, practice makes perfect. You have to get experience and get to know your body and your partner. So most first times aren't necessarily amazing. That's normal. Also, keep in mind that porn is an entertainment product and not realistic.

  8. You can tell him he is wrong. I love eating pussy. And always get her off at least once when I do that. Clit stimulation. Some women need it. Some don't. Sounds like you do. Practice with a dildo and rubbing your clit. That shit is hot now. When I was younger not really. Now, feeling part of the hand or fingers. It can get me going more. But unless I decide not to eat her. She will always get off before me. And that makes the sex even better. At least for me, she lasts longer. I have a crazy high sex drive. So….. Hope that helps

  9. Possibly right I guess I could back off from Some of it and when I say stretching her I don’t mean using massive stuff just slightly bigger than me I’m All about fulfilling everything I can to pleasure her

  10. I'm really thinking you need a toy. There are some pretty great ones out there. Play by yourself first just to see how it feels. If you don't like it then put it away. If you do like it share that with your boyfriend.

  11. Just adding on to all the already good advice – make sure both your cores are tightened up while standing. She can't be hanging limp on you. It'll be extremely difficult to get a rhythm going if she's like a rag doll, unless you're crazy strong or she's really light and small. The power comes from the thighs and the butt. And the stabilization from the core, back and the arms. All the best!

  12. Most men don't take nearly as long to finish as it can be for women. And I know in the past I've been quiet and a little embarrassed to say I still haven't orgasmed even though this has felt amazing for 30+ minutes. It's being said because for women its unfortunately usual that we have been preconditioned to think that we should be passive and submissive in bed and men usually get more pleasure out of it and women that do ask for more pleasure can be labeled as sluts therefore are less likely to ask for it. This is just a take on a general world view I've picked up on. Not saying it relates to OP or myself.

  13. Questions like this immediately make me question how old you are and if you should even be having sex.

  14. Straddle a pillow and see for yourself. The person underneath you will communicate if they need you to move or scooch or whatever

  15. Well in my opinion unless you specifically told him he could only subscribe to two women he did nothing wrong subscribing to a few more. It sounds like him subscribing to a few more women after telling you about the first two is what broke your trust, but in his mind he probably (and understandably) figured there was no difference. Do you have any evidence that he is still looking up porn? You said when y'all were sexting you were sure that he was looking up porn. Why is that? Also has he done anything else to betray your trust?

  16. I don’t see much reason to tell her. Communication is good, but “you sound like SpongeBob” is hardly a good thing to say. At best, you could say you find the sounds she makes kind of funny, and you feel bad about it. But even then, what IS she supposed to do about it? Feel more embarrassed in bed? Try to change an involuntary sound? This one is really tough. If it were me, I would almost try encouraging her to be louder, to see if unrestricted volume changes the sound. Tell her you’d love to hear her get loud because it’s sexy. DO NOT say “I can’t heeeearrr yoouuuu!!”.

  17. I’m not judging you, but for me that would feel kinda shallow. I’ve never loved anyone for the amazing sex or their looks, that was just a plus. And yes, I have gotten over someone who was a pro at sex. And I found someone who gave me something even better and magical who did not seem to be that way by looks alone. It’s really hard to get over beautiful people, amazing at sex and real chemistry but trust me you can find that somewhere else. Try writing about your experiences in a diary to process it. Maybe try to imagine something better?

  18. Because they are faking it lol. Also, I feel the same way. For me its because I would rather it be from a man than a vibrator

  19. She might have liked it. Ya never know. Just be cool. If things are weird between yall and you want to put an end to it your gonna have to talk to her. Just laugh that shit off.

  20. She broke his trust and now he's forced to think he's either not good for her or this is a need she'll want to satisfy without him. Either way…..move on.

  21. Just tell him he’s not a large size and if he’s upset about it tell him to stop being a pussy. Not everyone fits a large size, most don’t. It’s a pathetic kind of grandiosity to be delusional about your dick size.

  22. You’re not compatible. Sex is really important to a relationship. So this is no different than the sex being great but you can’t stand his personality or he treats you like shit. Leave and find someone who’s a good match for you.

  23. I'm a playful person, I like games and being silly, laughter is the best aprodesiac. Anything that gets you guys giggling together and having fun. Strip poker? Truth or dare? Twister? Man in uniform? Is there anything she's got the hots for, like a fire-fighter or soldier Run her a bath, candles and wine the whole shebang, and leave a vibrator out so she can warm herself up? Order a surprise sex toy addressed to her, and say you'd like to try it out later? Watch a horny movie together? I know 50 Shades has a bad rep, but damned if it's not a hot movie (plus you can laugh at it, see point 1) Hope that helped! Have fun!

  24. You say that it's not big dicks that make a girl happy, but thick ones. The main thing for us is to have fun, we need to stimulate the clitoris inside, and a thick penis does it perfectly)

  25. My husband is very thick/above average, my vag (he says) is small. It takes awhile to get him inside me, he performs oral/foreplay to get the juices flowing so to speak, or Ill use lube to rub all over my labia plus fingers inside- still takes a bit before we can get into the rougher/harder sex we both enjoy after the slower start….I will still spot time to time but not as often as when we first met. Lube/slow tempo before getting crazy

  26. Do you know what pain is and why we feel pain? It is warning our brain that harm to the body is happening. Not all types of pain is harmful or dangerous, though, but one should always make a judgement about if the pain is supposed to be going on and if it's safe to let the pain keep happening. When anal hurts, it is because you are actively damaging your back end, and you should not be okay with it. It is not supposed to hurt. Your friend is right, not because inflicting pain itself is bad, but because inflicing pain when it's not supposed to hurt is a sign something is wrong. Has he no concern for your health at all?

  27. It could literally be anything. Sitting down and communicating is important because if you have this reaction every time she has an orgasm that wasn't by you = not healthy unless you're willing to talk about it and work through it and not be bitter.

  28. Saying the obvious here but men aren't a monolith. Some prefer the hairless look and others want some bush. Others may not care either way. Some guys might be embarrassed or self conscious to speak about what they want as it isn't seem to be the 'norm' in pop culture.

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  30. First of all, you have done nothing wrong whatsoever. He is clearly a toxic and jealous guy and just based on what you are writing here, he's emotionally abusive as well. I would say that there is no way this will improve and it will likely only get worse if you stay in this relationship. I don't think there's any way around it, you need to break up with him straight away and then you will realize how much better your life becomes. Don't even bother engaging in any arguments about this. Just let him know that you are obviously not a long-term match and tell him that you are moving on without him. Then have fun and enjoy your life and find a partner who deserves you.

  31. If you like her and she likes you, go for it. Be wary of it ending badly since it's your friends sister and that can sour your friendship. Your friend does not own or control his sister, she's a consenting adult who can make her own decisions. You don't have to have any guilt or and should not feel like a dog or that you betrayed your friend.

  32. Tell him to vocalize. At least moaning. About physicalisme clues, his penis may throb, he can tense or you can see his toes curl. He may also touch you and push your head a little.

  33. Reply number 2…. that most likely wouldn't work I know some stereotypes out there, she literally only has those two options it seems like a toxic relationship otherwise.

  34. Don't forget that there's something more important than the clit: The brain. THe entire situation was new, exciting and potentially overwhelming. If she had been with him and you had been the additional guy, the result would likely have been the same. It's the novelty and excitement.

  35. I agree with everyone saying you should go to the doctor but in case it’s nothing bad – have you tried turning off the lights?

  36. Good catch. It seemed fake to me too. I sometimes wonder what people get out of posting fake nonsense like this.

  37. If you decide to break up, remember this entire issue when dating and deciding to move in with a partner again. I feel sexual compatibility should be assessed before getting to that stage of a relationship among other things like communication and respecting personal boundaries. Maybe it's just me but I feel like we're seeing a bunch of people who seemingly move in together without thinking it through lately which affects a person's financial security quite a bit.

  38. My wife and I have a great dynamic. I initiate most of the time but she guides the play most of the time.

  39. I lost my virginity at 26 years old. I have not had many partners (like 8 total?) ? What's going on with this world? How are you going to come in here all insecure about not having many partners when you've had eight? Is this a product of television, YouTube, Instagram, MindGeek — who did this to you? I don’t have any confidence in this aspect of my life. It feels like practice is so sporadic and rare that by the time I get another chance with someone new, I’ve forgotten so much about the last time. It makes it feel very difficult to learn from my mistakes and improve. Look, it's good to make an effort to satisfy your partner, but you can't just think of sex in terms of skills. It's plausible that women tell you to stop while you're eating them out because you're actually missing the mark and ignoring their preferences, but given what you've told us, it seems a lot more likely that you are being robotic and not displaying any kind of passion or excitement, which in turn makes your partner feel awkward. Yeah, it's probably a good idea to date for a little while before you have sex the next time. Mostly because it's better to display actual interest rather than to perform.

  40. My lady just sits on my face but leans forward (when facing my legs) cause she is afraid to hurt me, but i always want her closer. So from my point of view she sees a problem where there isn't one

  41. These posts are common. OP basically says premarital sex is wrong and will send you to hell. It's quite funny how often it happens.

  42. You need to think about your compatibility. Is this what you really want? Does he likes to have sex with you? Do YOU like to have sex with him?

  43. Or he's an awkward but youthful pervert who knew his shelf life for picking up young girls was all but over. I'm kinda leaning towards that.

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  45. The talk is going to be key, but you're going to need to establish ground rules before you start to engage like this with him. Make sure he knows you have a hard boundary and that this will remain a fantasy. Granted it's a fantasy you will try to share with him, but only up to a certain point. He has to know beforehand that you're not going all the way or he will see this as step one to get you there.

  46. The mouth isn’t your only tool when Eating pussy. You could and should use a finger, heck, use two fingers. Whilst your mouth is on her clit, insert your index finger and slowly slide it into her vagina, use the backwards stroking method to stimulate her g-spot – also used when trying to make her squirt See what’s happening here? You’re stimulating her clit and her g-spot like some sort of cunnilingus mouth wizard. She will be gasping for air at this point because it feels so freakin good. If you’re feeling brave. Use two fingers and thank me later. Anyway this is a quick tip but, if you truly want to polish your skills on eating pussy like a savage then this guide has a nicely detailed road map drawn for you

  47. From a female pov, act like it’s the best thing in the world, tease first, then gently start touching, open the labia gently, start slowly licking little strokes, long strokes after a bit, like your licking an ice cream cone. Do not shove your face and start lapping like a thirsty dog, big turn off.. grab her ass a little, stroke her body, use fingers nice and slow, grab her breasts, tease her nipples… all though your down there, the rest of her body still needs attention to keep engaged.. after a little bit start licking or sucking her clit gently if you can try and keep a rhythm through this . These are pointers, listen to her body, her breathing… when she starts breathing quicker or reacting well, speed up your Rhythm a bit and don’t rush it… ask her in a sexy voice if she’s a good girl, she will cum for you soon…. A little dirty talk and or praise about how beautiful she is when she’s spread for you will go a long way and when she’s really into it, step up your game with the breasts or ass squeeze nice and tight when she’s close, and you should bring her to orgasm if it’s done right… this could take 10 to 20 minutes maybe, if she cums…. It takes practice for many men and women, don’t be discouraged if you don’t get it the first few times☺️ good luck !!!!

  48. I fuck up condoms EVERY SINGLE TIME. I read it all “hold the tip and unroll” and it ends up being really tight

  49. If sex is a chore what the hell else are you getting pleasure from on these weekends? You two just sit there?

  50. Bro you can increase your penis size . Don't go for surgery before trying other things . There is subreddit of gettingbigger where you can learn techniques . Also You can watch youtube channel basheem to learn about penile exercise . It will take continous dedication of 2-3 years before you can see some gains . Penis enhancement surgery is not always successful

  51. I dated a girl for years who had so many scars she no longer has feeling in her finger tips, hips, and parts of her thighs. Practiced every form of self harm you've heard of. Didn't make a difference to me. I'm not some saint, I'm just some guy. Take some time to yourself, invest in yourself and your hobbies and friends, and you'll meet someone who isn't an asshole and loves and likes you. All of you.

  52. Biphobic, not at all. Kinda ignorant….. pretty much. If you are in a healthy monogamous relationship it really doesn't matter what the other person is into. They choose you, and if not they are not a good monogamous partner. It totally does not matter what gender thay find attractive. If you think she should be attracted to you when you are 65 and flabby as fuck but not some random girl on the street, you have another thing coming.

  53. This is a SEX advice forum. You are not asking for sex advice and what you need is far outside of the scope of this subreddit.

  54. don’t do it. threesomes should be enjoyed and wanted by every single person there, and you clearly don’t want it. if you wouldn’t even touch the other woman, there’s no point. it wouldn’t be a threesome in that case, it’d just be him fucking two women in the same room at different times. don’t do something just because he wants it.

  55. yeah sorry, it wouldn’t let me post on any of the relationship forums and I rly need some advice :/

  56. You could pull the plug on this even minutes before they have this planned there are things people aren't ok with and that's valid

  57. Ahh…he never said the password huh? Have him lean on close and yell OLLIOLLIOXENFREE!!! Into your labia…if that doesn't work then turn your vagina off and then back on to do a hard reset…

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  59. I wish the answer was that easy but unfortunately no, I think it's all mental at this point. I think single FWB describes my current relationship with them, we see each other fairly regularly (or were till I was sick) and I'm not on the prowl for anyone else to sleep with.

  60. To me, it isn't. ??‍♀️ I mean, in your opinion, if a guy went down on me before I ever tried penetration or a BJ, does that mean I lost my virginity to that guy?

  61. If you jerk off once or twice before you go to sleep, hopefully you'll be clear-headed the next day. You definitely don't want to be spending your days horny and/or in a post-orgasm stupor.

  62. There's also a device called an ohnut that you can wear to reduce penetration depth while still going hard.

  63. How did you fix the problem? Yeah it’s prob cuz I am technically relaxing just in a different way and not rlly paying attention to if I finish or not. I probably am in my own head because I’ve had people complain about doing it so long. I will try to just focus on the sensation rather than destination, I just wish people weren’t so focused on the fact I can’t finish in sex really

  64. If he wanted to give oral he would. Many guys find it gross and have hangups around the female body. Find a guy who loves to please women.

  65. The go to would be a lasso or bolo styled cock ring. I found nothing else was comfortable. Buy the one that has rubber tubing and a bead that slides up and down. Just one word of warning, do not let the bead completely slip off as it is impossible to get it back on.

  66. Oh my gosh, she did you a favour by leaving. You can do so mush better. Go out there and find a truly kind, caring girl who treats you (and others) well and forget about her.

  67. There shouldn't really be a strong smell and if there is any scent it would be her natural scent, you mentioned that the strong smell still lingers even after she showers. So it's possible that she either is not washing the area properly, (note – the vulva is the area she should be cleaning and not the actual vagina itself) if she's cleaning the vagina then she's messed up as that means she might have given herself an infection, but also if she's not cleaning inside the vagina she could still possibly have an infection which if that's the case she'll need to see a Dr. As for her shaving maybe instead of asking her to go full bald just ask if she's ok with trimming because at the end of the day what you prefer might not be what she prefers. If it's just a poor hygiene issue trimming can help as the hairs hold onto smells but if you're saying the smell is still strong after she showers this probably isn't the cause. Good Luck!

  68. You're still using a word that implies women ought to be able to feel a certain way from PIV and there's something wrong with them if they need toys in their partnered sex life. Personally, I would be sexually incompatible with someone who viewed sex toys in this way. You know, last night I thought maybe you just misspoke when you talked to her, but some of your comments since then give me pause. You say this was a “minor disagreement” (clearly she didn't think this issue was minor, and frankly neither would I) and she dumped you out of nowhere without giving you a chance to resolve the issue. But maybe in that conversation you made occasional concessions but kept demonstrating the same attitude, like you are doing here, and she just felt it wasn't a resolvable problem. I wouldn't really want to be in a relationship where bringing in sex toys led to arguments. That sounds truly exhausting. The longer the conversation went on without you seeming to really get it, the more I would think, “There are many men out there whose attitudes towards sex are closer to mine, with whom I wouldn't need to have these exhausting arguments. Why not find one of them.”

  69. If you’re not comfortable it’s ok to set a boundary saying that you don’t want to meet him. But I would do some soul searching and see what this is really about. Are you uncomfortable because you think they have feelings for each other? Because you don’t trust him? Don’t trust her? Do you not want to be reminded that she had sex before you met? I think you need to be able to identify what’s bothering you so that you can make an informed decision about what boundaries you want to set, but also so you can clearly communicate to your partner about why. You’re pretty young, and I suggest you get used to thinking this stuff through now because the older you get the more “baggage” people bring with them into relationships. Navigating adult relationships in a healthy way takes a lot of introspection, self awareness and communication.

  70. Thanks, I’m willing to let her do everything to with him or with us. And she knows that the only tule I would say would be someone that is not involved in our daily environment

  71. Okay this might be unpopular, but for me it's me lying on my back while he kind of sits on top of me (his legs on each side of my body, kneeling)….. you can grab his legs, he can even thrust a little bit. It's so sexy to look up and see him in extasy, and you can even switch things up and let him grind between your boobs… and it's very comfortable for you beacause you just have to lay on your back, maybe that's something you could try?

  72. Yeah visually I am and mentally even more so, he has a fantastic brain, so I'm confused as to why he doesn't understand this part of me. He understands everything else so well. If I try to tell him why I feel so self conscious he just tells me not to be. As it if it that easy

  73. You are right in that you are not asking for much time. Her stress response is probably in excess of reasonable, but like many people who feel like they can't control their lives she might be over doing on her time management. What she seems to be forgetting is that sex is a stress reliever.

  74. I mean, when you go down on a woman, she will get wetter and wetter, which is akin to pre-cum. Not that I’m bothered by that, quite the contrary, but there is a comparison point

  75. If it hurt that badly, it is likely because your muscles are tensing up and it could be vaginismus. You might have tried to suffer through because you heard “the first time hurts” but it doesn’t. It shouldn’t. With your boyfriend, see if you can explore with a lot smaller things. His one finger, for instance. Focus on relaxing your pelvic floor. You can practice at home with small objects as well. If it is vaginismus, you may need to see a Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist to help with how to relax the muscles. Good luck.

  76. I agree. I'd be personally concerned if I weren't able to masturbate without porn. There is some evidence that ED in young men has become more of a problem due to porn use and the fact that men have come to equate sex with porn. Also you can get desensitised to stuff and seek out more and more extreme material, which I guess doesn't happen to everyone, but again I try to avoid that by taking breaks from porn. Not from masturbating, that's healthy. But real life sex might feel underwhelming otherwise

  77. I'm 36 but feel like I'm in a similar position, and am currently in therapy to think about it. I'm an attractive and charismatic dude and never feel comfortable about trying to seduce someone because of the reality that sometimes I seem to do it and I don't want to feel responsible for what I might convince someone of. This is rooted in anxiety and I think is best to explore with a therapist. Reading this online is one thing but it often takes sharing yourself and your specific situations and then and hearing from someone you trust that your thoughts are OK in order to better accept them. The thoughts you express here are more common than you might think. Feeling inauthentic, full of doubt, and a fear of hurting or manipulating others is normal and signals you are a good person and shouldn't feel as at fault as you might. It can be very difficult for either side of a fun dynamic to accept that they might enjoy the temporary state of mind of being utterly powerful or helpless, but I think it can be worthwhile to learn or reach for those thing.

  78. Early on we take it as a cheerleading kinda thing. Eventually someone is kind enough to tell us what you just said and we learn lol.

  79. A girl I worked with went through something similar. She was young and had a boyfriend a bit older, not by much though. He talked her into a threesome. While we were hangin go out one night she broke down and gave me the details. She did it for him and after that…she was just a toy. I’m not saying this is what will happen to you but she was pretty keyed up from it. I’m not a fan of threesomes so I can’t give any perspective. I would voice my concern to my partner and if it feels like they aren’t hearing me then it’s time to cut ties. Don’t berate yourself too much.

  80. This sub is for seeking advice, NOT for polling people about their sexual preferences. Reported to Mods.

  81. Can’t beat a guy who enjoys giving head, I love when they do it and make eye contact n I can play w their hair w my nails and you gotta ask them if you taste good too

  82. You hate it because your partner is making you hate it. My partner did not force me to lie to her and watch porn behind her back. My sex drive and lack of self control did.

  83. I see that you are allowing her personality trait to rule yours. If you equate her asexuality and your strong sexuality as equally important to the relationship, is there room for compromise? Given that it's so important to you, could she be convinced to have some form of satisfying sex with you occasionally, even if it's not her first choice of activity? How often that might be and what form it takes is up to you both, but she would be doing it to please you, to show you that you are of value to her, all of you. I agree with all the other posters on here, you should not have to give up something that is innate in you, it's part of you. I have taken SSRIs, Zoloft and others. They did not eliminate my sexual desire but I guess I would say they lowered it. They certainly made it more work to have sex, to maintain erection and have orgasm. I stopped taking them in large part for that reason.

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  85. Stop having sex with her when she obviously isn’t in the mood. Just stop. You’re making it exponentially worse. As someone that’s been in her position before, it’s causing her to become subconsciously repulsed by you by feeling used as a living sex doll. Even if she “says” she’s OK with it, no one wants to be used as a human masturbation receptacle! It’s repulsive! More often than not, women who don’t want sex regularly is because they were faking orgasms in the beginning of the relationship because you don’t know how to actually get them to orgasm (usually via oral sex – not staying down long enough, drooling on her too much, not using enough suction, not actually lifting up your neck so the weight of your entire 10-15 pound skull is pressing into her pelvis which is very painful, etc.) and now she’s too repulsed to even do that OR she works all day and is exhausted when she gets home/when she wakes up in the morning (I suggest taking over doing the chores in the house for 1-2 weeks and seeing how she responds sexually after that. And don’t be “THAT PERSON” who does the chores horribly so they won’t have to do them again. Ask how she wants them done and do them accordingly. Acts of service could be her love language!). Give her massages (not the kind where you make it sexual by massaging her genitals/derrière – which shows her that you just want sex, that you’re not actually focused on her relaxing). Make her dinner (food can be sensual when given care/thought and prepared as a date night at home). Watch a horror movie (I’m serious, it’s been proven that horror movies turn people on (for whatever reason). Google it!) Try something new sexually. Drive her somewhere in the evening (just not anywhere that has to do with chores! – so dinner for the two of you, couple’s massage, fancy picnic in a scenic area, etc.) and on the way there and on the way home (pull over into a secluded area – dark parking lot with no security cameras, dark part of a public park, etc. – and walk around to her side of the car, open the door, and perform oral sex on her (note: not yourself. Do not pressure her to or even allow her to reciprocate during those times) (it will likely be quite shocking for her – in a pleasant way – and the thrill of getting caught may even arouse her or raise her pulse a little! Then, the rest of the evening before you arrive home, she’ll be thinking about you performing oral sex so spontaneously, be turned on by the idea of you being so aroused just by pleasuring her, etc. My partner did this to me once and let’s just say, we had a lot of fun in the bedroom that night! It was completely out of character for him which was shocking and such a turn on to see his usually reserved and cautious self do something so scandalous to me in public!)

  86. I agree. I'm a guy and I'd personally never consider buying a woman undergarments for the reason I stated previously and for your reason as well. Honestly I don't see a way(unless you make a VERY LUCKY guess) that this works out in anyone's favor. I'd personally rather take her shopping and see the excitement on her face when she finds the garments she loves

  87. It’s important to spend some time doing things with purpose when masturbating. I did kegerator, I work on my brain space, and I know how feelings build in my body usually. One thing we hear all the time about women is how important mental space is to be able to cum, I think it’s the same for me and not doing so too fast. Like I know I can’t get too worked up in what I’m getting as positive feedback from partner. I’m not doing the nonsense thinking about other things but I try to focus on other things in the moment. What can I be doing better. Sometimes turning internally can be good too, what am I feeling how is it good how is it bad. Instead of mentally turning myself on focus on sensation building it, ebb and flow of it. I’ve also learned partially via masturbation I can essentially edge myself get very close, squeeze tight and stop simulation and then go for often twice as long. It’s like half an orgasm.

  88. Nerve damage from a broken pelvis I can last a real long time now lol. Still feels great and I can finnish but not as great as before .

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  90. Sounds like she is not ready and not interested. First time is usually not pleasant, especially if she is not really into it and giving her toys won't convince her. Did she say that she doesn't ever want to have sex?

  91. If they are for you, I get it. But vibrators and dildos that I bought for one woman are not going to get used on another woman. My own toys, for myself, that's different.

  92. Is she in perimenopause? She might be oestrogen deficient. You don’t wanna fuck with vaginal atrophy so if I were her I would be breaking down the door of the doctor’s office tbh

  93. As that is not the case, it is reasonable to suggest their is a shortage of older men. Lol I fucking wish.

  94. He’ll be missing me forever soon becos it can’t continue I know that (regarding other comments)

  95. Reassure them as much as you can. Ask them what kinda kink theyre into and play off of that kink. As a Dom my sexual trigger goes bananas with submissive taunting, if theyre a sub try giving them orders

  96. It should. It's very common for guys to like porn, but needing it to perform? That's crossing the line into addiction I'd say.

  97. Search this on Amazon – it’s $10.99 right now. Abyclean Anal Douche Enema Bulb Vaginal Douche Enema Cleaner Just with warm water. Ans use Vagisil soap as the lube when you are doing the enema. Repeat until you are clean. When you are clear and rinsed, stick your finger up there. It should be clear. There should be no smell. I do this daily before sex. I have friends who are afraid to touch their butthole but will let their boyfriends have anal sex with them. Doesn’t make sense to me. Wouldn’t it be more embarrassing to smell and get poop on someone than to check yourself to make sure you are clean?

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  99. Fwb doesn't mean access to you whenever he feels regardless of how you feel. You should definitely stop seeing him and maybe even charge him.

  100. As another commentor stated, you must part the Pink Seas. Reach down and part your labia while he enters. As far as air goes, if he does shallow thrusts and doesn’t remove his dick each time, there should be minimal to no air.

  101. From the bad guys bro, I cant believe women dont want a big dick stud? like me and all this hard work I put into the gym for nothing. Im a certified stud? and yet women out here are dating these sissy feminine boys

  102. So does : “don’t be with someone who doesn’t suck dick…it is that simple” work also? I don't think so. See?

  103. Yeah that’s my worry, and probably how I would feel about it if things were flipped – knowing is one thing, seeing is another. Maybe I’ll just say I have my period and don’t want to have sex this time lol, seems harmless enough

  104. The secret it; The best part of intimacy and sex isn't just the sex, but the relationship and connection that you have with your partner. On the other hand now that I am older, I would probably not be that interested in a whole load of drama and games before we had sex each time. Been there done that. Good luck

  105. Hello hi yes!! I had tried to finger myself maybe like four times before becoming sexually active and I HATED it. It felt horrible, i hated the texture, it was horrific. I only tried again after having had sex with my boyfriend a, uh, fair amount of times. It was still gross but it was a bit more tolerable for some reason? I think part of it is that he uses his fingers a lot and it doesn't squick him out, it might have helped me mentally a little bit? Now I don't mind the texture at all, but personally it just doesn't give me that much pleasure when I'm doing it myself (it does when he does it, no idea how/why!) so I don't do it unless I'm putting on a show, haha. The textute can still be a bit weird but nowhere near as awful as it felt when I was younger. I don't really have much advice, but I'm just letting you know it's valid and you're not alone ? I remember trying to Google this as a teenager and finding absolutely nothing about it so I get you on that front!

  106. I don't want to help you beat yourself up here, but I have a difference in opinion than most of comments so far… I absolutely think that you should do whatever makes you comfortable when actually engaging physically. But while sexting, you're only dealing in fantasy and there's not many reasons to break fantasy. I think people are much more ready to talk and sext about things they wouldn't be comfortable doing with anyone but a partner, and maybe working up to that/being cool with not exploring that fantasy despite what any sext might say. If it's any consolation, it's entirely possible she was enjoying how sexual it was getting but was also nervous with how sexual the conversation had turned. Of course she could easily be as sexual as she represented, but I think it's actually equally if not more likely she was looking for any excuse to stop chatting/not meet up/etc

  107. Yes hun but it depends on what of fibroids you have. But if you find the right doctor,they can be removed. Fibroids are a common problem for women.

  108. My last girlfriend had an issue like that. The thing i Said to her is if were are to the point that we are having sex it means without a doubt i like her body. But the thing is, are you worried is not attracted to you during it or you dont find yourself good during it?

  109. As you said I think there is a range of normal from reading past posts here I think some guys require more physical stimulation than others. Me personally, the only time I require physical touch to stay up is when I'm stressed or distracted for other reasons.

  110. To me, it sounds like he is just…fumbly and a bit unaccustomed to the dynamic. Testing the waters and sort of taking it too far, kind of thing. The real test will come later, so to speak. When he needs to prove that he understood the no.

  111. Sorry, namecalling because I pointed out that you are openly commenting against the rules of the sub?

  112. Sex is a solution for lust, not loneliness. It's a very… Particular kind of companionship. If you're in school, focus on broader social development. Look into social clubs for any hobbies you have. Talk to the people around you before class/work. Make a commitment to not turn down invites from coworkers or acquaintances. Most places you can find a good friend are a place you can find casual sex. But you'll be far more satisfied shooting for “friend” and letting things develop organically

  113. “The Iranian Civil Code also reflects deep gender inequalities in its divorce law (Arts. 1120-1157). With only a few exceptions, a husband can divorce his wife “whenever he wishes to do so” (Art. 1133). However, women may only seek divorce by making a request before an Islamic judge and in only a limited number of circumstances in which the husband has created “difficult and undesirable conditions” in the marriage (Art. 1130). If this criteria has been satisfied, the Islamic judge can compel the husband to divorce his wife.”

  114. Because he was awkward in the “are we dating?” And beginning a relationship stuff. He’s most likely going to be extremely awkward as you transition into a sexual relationship. Once you get through his shell it might be amazing.

  115. 32 year old right here I never done it without condom. Not ashamed of it and surely not regretting it. You made a damn good choice unless you wanted kids your age or risk to get some nasty deceases.

  116. Read the Japanese study Enhanced visualization of female squirting by Miyabi Inoue et al in the International Journal of Urology 2022. Squirt is urine. Don't confuse it with female ejaculate.

  117. I used to always tense my legs, especially when I was getting close to cumming and when I was cumming. I've since learned to keep my legs relaxed and enjoy the greater full-body intensity. But especially for quick sessions, sometimes I still tense up my legs.

  118. Sounds like he doesn't really care, and as long as he gets off that's all that matters. He is selfish and only cares about himself. He's using guilt afterwards to male her feel bad about getting hers. RED FLAG you are not going to be happy staying with him. You are sexually incompatible so it's never going to work. Find another boyfriend.

  119. I haven't had this happen, but I guess a follow up would be does he make you cum otherwise? Like via oral or toys? If it's just penetrative sex that's uncomfortable there are other ways to pleasure you. If it's other times as well that seems like it would need a bigger conversation.

  120. i don’t have to make sure it’s emotionally stable Sounds like this is a problem in your relationship that you're already somewhat aware of.

  121. The difference between the words that I wrote and the words that you read is quite a profound statement. Seems I hit a nerve.

  122. Yeah, I think you're missing my point. There's nothing inherently wrong with doing MDMA responsibly. Not at any age. And doing so has absolutely no bearing on someone's maturity level. The same goes triple for psilocybin or acid. Read a recent news article on the topic. I know plenty of wildly successful people who do drugs responsibly, myself included. I am in my 40's. I hold the highest consulting position at a multimillion dollar company where I manage teams of people for clients who account for over $4,000,000 of annual revenue. I'm starting my own business. I've been in a happy marriage for 6 years with a woman I've been with for over 9 years total. I own my own home. I am highly regarded by my coworkers, friends, and peers as a good and kind person. The issue with OPs boyfriend has nothing to do with drugs, but with his attitude and behavior. From your response, I would guess you've been treated badly by someone / multiple people who have struggled with substance abuse. If so, that sucks. No one deserves that, and I can understand why you would hold your biases against anyone who takes drugs. But that's really not a reasonable or fair assessment. You're comment about taking Molly after 30 being a red flag is just plain ignorant and wrong. Also, not everyone goes to college (including me). Another indicator of your personal biases. By the way….someone with the username “Tushtush43” really shouldn't be talking about other's maturity levels.

  123. As a man, I do not discriminate between skinny and BBW type girls. But those unreal porn girls with huge behinds,humongous t tts and porta potty lips are unattractive-unreal and off putting. Your bf is watching what is mostly promoted on porn sites.Tell him to stop it,.It destroys pleasures of sex

  124. Young people who are old enough to have sex but don't seem to be aware of basic hygiene. It's crazy out there.

  125. Astroglide X silicone lubricant is the best when you can use silicone. Don't use it with silicone toys or put a condom on the toy. Silicone lubricant will soften silicone toys.

  126. I was actually thinking about before you see him IRL. Like straight up “Hey, can I ask you for your address so I know where you're at?”. Use your best judgment based on your comfort levels and how he's been so far, but it's not an unreasonable thing to ask. Good luck, I hope you have a great time 🙂

  127. If you don't want to be a parent, then put a condom on and finish whenever you want to. Pulling out is risky and, in my opinion, makes sex less enjoyable. Right before you climax, you abruptly stop, pull your dick out, and finish. It's like watching a movie with a great beginning and middle, but a shitty ending.

  128. But I'm wondering if there's other women out there who would have issues? While every woman is different and there may be some that would have an issue, they will be in the vast minority.

  129. My wife is curvy and was feeling the same way. I started taking a lot of time to make her the center of my sexual energy and get her absolutely worn out before we start PIV. She tells me pretty frequently that since our sex life kind of exploded, she feels a lot sexier.

  130. Then just bring it up, say it's been a fantasy for a while and ask if she's down or not, if not then don't push it if so then go from there

  131. Kink incompatibility solution. It's great that you recognize the importance of communication in this situation. It's essential to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your concerns and feelings. Here are some tips that can help you approach the conversation with tact: Start with appreciation and affirmation. Let him know that you value him as a person and that you enjoy spending time with him. Reassure him that your concern is not about him but about the compatibility of your sexual preferences. Be specific about what turns you off. Explain that his kink makes you feel uncomfortable and out of your element, and that it's not something you enjoy. Share your thoughts and feelings about his purchases of props and toys without your consent. Be open to finding a compromise. Ask him if there are any aspects of his kink that he can enjoy without being submissive to you. You may also suggest exploring other kinks or sexual activities that you both enjoy. Consider your boundaries. If you decide that his kink is a hard limit for you, it's essential to communicate that clearly and kindly. Respect his feelings, but also respect your own boundaries. Remember that communication is a two-way street, so it's also essential to listen to his thoughts and feelings about the situation. It may take some time to find a resolution, but with mutual respect and open communication, you can find a way forward that works for both of you.

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  133. Depending on how big he is that’s not normal. Try stretching yourself before. Do Moore foreplay. More then you think. 3 times more. And go slow. Really slow

  134. Him: Why did you change your mind? Her: Reddit told me. But for real: If you have feelings, tell him. If it wasn't meant to be, you'll part ways either way.

  135. Again-this isn’t about a persons feelings for or against monogamy/non-monogamy, it’s about feeling safe enough to have the discussion, open enough to want to, and secure enough to be able to have them. Everyone has weak moments and yes-if that’s how my partner felt or a discussion they wanted to have then I would absolutely be there to listen and have it because that’s the entire point of being in a relationship-to have someone you fully trust that you feel safe enough to have difficult discussions with. And no-I wouldn’t draw immediate opinions of the fitness of them being a parent because I’m pretty sure all parents have at least one fleeting moment of giving their kids up and that’s ok-it’s the following actions that actually matter.

  136. Yes I second that. The wand makes my whole pussy numb and vibrating for hours afterwards. But the womanizer can get me off in 5 seconds when my head is in the game.

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  138. I'm a woman, and my partner and I don't have anal sex, so I haven't worried about this problem, and having hemorrhoids doesn't affect sex.

  139. I agree! Also most guys like that “gagging” sloppy sound while deep throating lol so don’t feel too bad about it. It’s like you choice his dick over air lmao.

  140. Always agree on a safe word or tapping/traffic light system before you go into it. Finally don't forget aftercare. Do something nice for each other afterwards, cuddle or have a cup of tea or a bath or something together as you come down from the intense experience. Aftercare always even if you don't go hard-core. Even if you use your safe word 30 seconds in.

  141. Just cause her opening is wide doesn't mean that she's just had sex. Vaginas don't just hang wide open like a door after sex. If she wants someone to look, tell her to talk with her gyn, since you obviously don't understand how female anatomy works if it's making you that paranoid.

  142. You mentioned you've never done missionary before because you don't know how. If you can try to face this fear head-on and just “go for it,” that might help. It might not work the first few times, you might not get hard or you might not come, but keep trying it for a bit and see if it gets better over time. At the risk of embarrassing myself, it's not just the issue of getting/staying hard or finishing, but I also just have trouble putting it in. I swear I just can't figure out the logistics, and even typing this feels so humiliating, because it's not that difficult. I don't know if it's because of my height (I'm 6'4), but I'm honestly guessing it's just because I'm clueless, and that sucks.

  143. Hey i also just got out of a relationship (Male Here) so i definitely know what you are talking about!!!! Gotta admit… My sex life was nowhere near your awful experience but still horny as hell. So…. I guess the course of action is go out and get some!!!! Im not much of a player so casually hooking up with people actually seems like rocket science to me but im sure you will have a more easy time if you so choose :)) Be Safe, try to be responsible and go have some fuuuuuuuunnn!!!! If you cant find any on the streets im sure your Inbox is full of potential ???? All the best pretty one ✌️ and never forget. Having an orgasm is one part your Job and the other is the partners. Communicate, be upfront and be sure to back the f out should things start feeling dicey. Some weird ass pendejos out there (both genders) so always keep an eye on safety, please ?

  144. If it has been over a month since you say this person you would know if you had chlamydia because it’s definitely painful and feels like any other kind of infection. Definitely get tested for peace of mind but I think you were safe and should be fine.

  145. Ugh- good points. I can’t even imagine having to worry about that kinda stuff. My guess is that a decent hotel in a safe area would be ideal.

  146. Do you have a fear of penetration, this could be vagnismus, or just jitters. Have you ever masturbated, and if so did you enjoy and cum from it?

  147. Could be you are sapiosexual, as others have said – primarily attracted to someone's intelligence above all else. Alternatively, I understand that for many women, a man with ambition is a massive turn on and, if he is figuring out math problems, or when he is productive, it proves he is driven to succeed – to “solve the problem” (substitute “maths problem” for “Life problem” like earning more money and you see the point I'm making). My big question is – is thinking this way hurting you or him? Would you be attracted to him even if he wasn't so productive? If you'd still be attracted to him regardless then why worry? It's just something you can use in your sex life – have him tease you like that; perhaps tell you you'll have to wait while he figures out this particular problem and then have him muse about it out loud, perhaps.

  148. Hum the tune of “Rainbow Connection” while bobbing. If you need more intensity I suggest “Du Hast”.

  149. I'm in the same boat, a couple of years older but without the cancer or hysterectomy. Sometimes I look forward to death because I can't see this changing and I have no intention of leaving her. I've started looking for any way to kill my own libido but the Dr said they can't do anything and the idea really upset my wife. I'm going to try to go for counseling myself in case they have any ideas.

  150. My wife and I did the pull out method for 5 years because for similar reasons. Just don't do it drunk :).. Once we stopped (intentional) she was prego within 6 weeks.

  151. Most people under 30 do actually feel that way, because most of them are completely addicted to their social medias, which give them the mindset that men are awful people and always wrong. I’ve been completely off social media for almost a year, and still, nearly every woman I’ve met in my age group or younger (I’m 25) will casually disrespect men for things they can’t control and blame them for things that most of us have never done or even thought of doing. Because that’s what their phone tells them. This is a real problem today and most folk actually do feel the way this man describes. But nobody would ever believe it. They’d just call the man an “incel” and move on with their day.

  152. This came up last year. We went out of town for my birthday. We got intimate, and I performed oral on her. But after I did, she was tired and didn't do anything for me. My birthday is coming up soon, but I don't want to get my hopes up.

  153. I don’t think I’ve ever had a problem not finishing quickly. If I’m not trying to cum, I just don’t. Can go all day but the longer I go the harder it is to cum when the moment is right. From the day I lost my virginity until now. I remember the first time I had sex, I thought I was just gunna stick it in and it would explode. But no. Not sure if there is anything else at play other than willpower. There are times when I can’t hold back, certain positions like doggy style but she’s the one moving or reverse cowgirl or the spoon position where she’s moving. But other than that, I usually need to breathe just right and concentrate in order to blam.

  154. Some guys will freak out and get an inferiority complex. Some guys will take the vibrator and use it in creative ways that will give you an experience you will never forget. If a guy freaks out, send him on his way and choose another.

  155. It's very common for neurodivergent people to misinterpret or straight up miss body language signals(I know I do). Telling her with words without “subtle” social ques would be a good starting point.

  156. Given that this a relatively quick Tinder situation you can bail just as quickly. It's actually better for him that you don't let it linger. My advice might not be the same if this was a relationship that has been building for months or years.

  157. I had a spell in my 30s when commuting into work and trying to have quickies when we both woke up, but couldn't cum as felt pressured with the lack of time..quicker I tried just made it impossible to cum..weekends, any other time no problem. Are you rushing it?

  158. Short answer no. Long answer no no no no no no no no. Use condoms. Condoms can protect against a variety of things besides pregnancy.

  159. Get the vasectomy. It takes a minute to get in for an initial consultation then scheduling and recovery time. Could help being spontaneous. It’s great being able to cum inside anytime, anyplace. I had mine 6 years ago, hasn’t changed anything for me..prolly hornier than ever.

  160. he was the first guy i’ve done stuff with and had actual sex with in which he penetrated me without a condom, we both showed our std results and both were negative, although his was from a month before

  161. You're really confused? He likes pissplay. You probably reacted more negatively/ judgemental than you realized (judging by this post) so now he keeps it secret Seems really simple to me

  162. I didn’t mean to make it seem like I doubted you could get partners, as a guy I’m just thinking about places where I’ve made friends with both men and women that are far from the a typical asshole type. A lot of times it’s like a whole semi private club at a local coffee shop kinda like what the show Friends was like.

  163. It's been bad for 10 years and now it's time to think of a solution, after having a baby together??

  164. As long as you can view fat/plus sized women as nuanced, complicated humans just like any other, you’re good! Having preferences is natural and human, nothing wrong with them!

  165. I don't know what your other issues are, but even just from what you've described in your post, sex isn't the only issue. She's saying a demeaning and body shaming thing to you, and then refusing to acknowledge that she's being hurtful. She's belittling your very valid feelings. If this were just a dead bedroom issue, you could maybe try to work things out. But it's an issue of kindness, respect, and communication. That said, even if it were only the sex issue, it's perfectly reasonable and acceptable to break up over sex. Sex is really important.

  166. The only real cons, especially if you're in public is people not consenting to being involved in your shenanigans, which is to say, illegal. But ignoring that you might get sore after a while, and be more sensitive than normal. If it's in your butt it may also get really uncomfortable, especially if the lube dries up.

  167. If you find it hot then give it a try. But maybe ask if you could have a few sessions to get to know her before doing bondage. I like bondage but think it's sensible not to do that on a first meet in case Serial killers tend to be male fwiw

  168. Maybe put an encouraging spin on it. “You’re getting me really close and I want to do it for you in a way that isn’t too messy.”

  169. He said he put on one condom but then had to take it off to pee and put on the second condom. So he was only wearing one condom at a time

  170. Let me start by saying I only speak for myself but in my case according to my wife at least. I can’t take a hint most of the time maybe it’s the manic depression but for whatever reason after our kids moved out I had a similar issue. I had convinced myself that she would prefer for me not to bother her just like your husband. We eventually had a talk about the situation and about the only thing that worked was she had to stop being so subtle about her advances. As for your friends advice about all guys want it all the time sorry but that isn’t the case. The only thing you can do dear is to talk to him and let him know how you feel. As many stereo types as there is for men and women both nobody accuses the other sex of being psychic at least not in my neck of the woods.

  171. Jesus Christ. Throw this whole ass man in the trash. What an inconsiderate, POS. I would drop his ass and find someone who respects you and others.

  172. Dude is an unemployed, unpleasant chronic masturbator. My advice for you is to leave because you deserve better than this jerk.

  173. That's something you'd have to ask the women you've gone on dates with or ones that actually know you.

  174. So what exactly is the problem/question/post about? Like You answered it yourself- workout and diet. It is never too late to better Yourself. Lost 10kg in 3months and still going. Also I am 29. My advice (works for me) use this anger/shame/negativity to fuel yourself into achieving results. But be aware, that is not going to happen overnight. Consistency is key and goal is to change Your lifestyle ?

  175. Most men, even attractive ones, dont have options at hands like women do. At the same time dating is wild now, expect everyone texing others at all times. No one is the only option anymore.

  176. Nope. The moment after your blood is taken, the needle and tubing go in a sharps container. You don't just take out the dirty ones and reuse them

  177. Yeah, exactly. I love nipple stimulation: rubbing and gentle tugging, pinching and pulling- but touching the other parts of my boobs is nothing special. It feels like skin to skin contact on most other parts of my body. Unless you’re juggling or squeezing them too hard which is uncomfortable.

  178. My guys cock turns me all the way on! Pics of it. Thinking of it. Seeing it IRL (even flaccid). I love the shape, the color, the smell…all the things. However, I'm not aroused be seeing images of other cocks. Like, when I watch porn, they do absolutely nothing for me.

  179. How have you been dating her for 5 months? She will feel hurt either way. There is no kind/good way to tell this to someone.

  180. Here's a tip for woman facesitting. Woman's feet resting on his torso. Her torso is nearly horizontal. This position takes weight off giver's neck and head, while letting the woman slide all over his lower face. During facesitting, if she moves off his tongue, then when she returns, she needs her mate's tongue to be in position ready to be snagged. Especially as she moves faster and faster. That demands some technique from the mate.

  181. I am in a unfortunate ED problem due to heart meds that I have to take. My performance prior to ED always needed a boost and now it needs a huge push. I have tried some products out in the market with no luck. Any suggestions I was looking at BD but my wife won’t engage she is done I guess I will have a sexless marriage! Any suggestions much appreciated ?

  182. You are a mom but you are a person in the first place. You are allowed to fulfill your own needs and in the long run, it will be beneficial to everyone. Get out there girl!

  183. My wife is similar. While I love going down on her, she feels impatient at times. I highly recommend the We Vibe melt – we call it the finisher. When we've had our fun and she's ready..under 5 minutes and a powerful O. YMMV. Enjoy.

  184. Can't imagine why you're being down voted, this is absolutely the reality. But people love their bibl double standards

  185. getting my ass ate feels amazing and my boyfriend literally begs me to let him every time we have sex because he loves how good it feels for me

  186. I mean it’s hard to tell without actually seeing your pictures. But from the reaction of those guys, it genuinely feels like you either have that cute little kitten look or have the angelic sweet look. Men can’t help but feel that tingle when they look at such a cute face. Sometimes your looks and you’re inner personality don’t align. I’m actually a more dominant guy in bed but I have relatively childish facial features. Some girl has recently described me as good looking in a cute kind of way with baby like facial features lol So I guess you and I have similar problems. But the good thing for me is women responds to vibe and character more than just appearance. So through initial interaction and the way I behave in the bedroom, they get my more dominant vibe and welcome it. Guys however are more visual based. You can still however change up your vibe and speak with more authority if you’re into femdom. It may take some getting used to but once it becomes natural even guys would pick it up. And that difference between your appearance and your behavior can be very hot for some guys too.

  187. It's unfair though that like literally nothing is in favor of men especially short men. A lot of these girls aren't even like super models. Some of them aren't even conventionally attractive at all yet they can somehow get any guy especially tall guys they want. I personally would loathe to tower over a woman and would find it immensly uncomfortable. I'm glad I don't but the feelings aren't even reciprocated. These girls want like a behemoth to tower over them. Girls barely even reaching my head like 4'10 and under have told me I'm too short. They're lucky I didn't say anything back. Yes obese women find love but I think there's also a sexual fetish for them too in a way. There doesn't seem to be one for short men. Unfortunately women don't go “oh wow look at that short guy I wanna fuck him.” Most of that is geared toward tall guys. Like idk. Do I need to literally find a midget in order to be liked? Cause that's the only way I can dive into this giant height gap thing and be a behemoth

  188. It's hilarious that people think that for the opposite case, it's better to not tell. The opposite case is when she likes him but not so much his dick. In that case it's advised to not tell. Why people here think that men should not ask if their dick is ideal neither they should care about that?

  189. It sounds like a sex therapist might help. There is a lot going on there that might take years to fix, even with professional help. It's not clear how long you have been together but couples can get into a routine that hard to break. What are your thoughts about stopping porn and masturbation completely? You could talk with her and let her know you want to do it for her. If you pursue her a lot more how would that effect her self-esteem? I might try to change things up a lot. Especially if you've been together for a few years.

  190. No, most people get crappy high school sex ed and then learn about things once they catch it. Hence the stigma for some things.

  191. I’m the same way. My orgasm is so much better with something inside and I actually prefer it not to more.

  192. Foreplay is something that happens before genitals are touched because oral sex is already sex. I like just kissing and making out. Slowly escalating, taking time with each step. First just gentle kissing, holding head or petting back, slowly and gently going further. I like it when things are like they were as teenager, when you could just kiss for hours, gathering courage to maybe touch something over the clothes. That kind of slowness is good. Too often I find that men just literally think foreplay is anything that gets them penetration quickly enough, they want to go from one peck kind of kiss straight to oral to penetration.

  193. awe that’s kind of hot lol. obviously your gf thinks ur hot as heck. lol but worried? i think you should only be worried if you guys didn’t talk extensively about what the rules are and if both of y’all are comfortable. for example, if u strip for her friends, are they allowed to touch u? if so would u be comfortable? and of course she’ll have to communicate to her friends to. as long as ur comfortable to do it, i think all you guys have to do now is ask each other what are the rules. but u got it! and honestly that’s so sweet that u strip for her lol. that’s so cute and makes me happy that couples are being fun and sexy for each other

  194. Yes!! Caress her thru her panties, and don’t stay there long. Go under the panties but don’t actually touch her clit, come close and move away. Increase the closeness or just a brush over. Eventually she’ll be begging…

  195. It’s largely the internet tbh. I loooove it but most men I’ve been with are not particularly into it or they just do it to please you (turn off). What is happening though is that more and more straight men are discovering receiving anal themselves (eg pegging) and loving it.

  196. You can use your headboard or his chest as support and take some of the weight off your legs 🙂

  197. Your orgasm is wanted, I promise you. Your partner just also wants to enjoy things and they take longer. That doesn't mean they don't care about your pleasure though. I recommend using toys before or after you cum. Specifically you can use a strapon or what's known as a cock sheath. Both are essentially dildos that you can wear and use to fuck your partner in PiV with. Giving pretty much the exact same experience as PiV for your partner, with no risk of going soft. Between the two, I preref the cock sheath because it goes over the top of your penis and is thus positioned “correctly”. Feels very natural to me. But since it has to fit over you, it has to be bigger than you. Which can be a problem. If you are even just average in size, the sheath can end up painfully large for your partner. And if you are above average, it can be near impossible to find one. A strap on has more options in size (and shape) but will end up sitting above your penis. Which affects the physics of thrusting and can be a bit awkward while you get used to it. They also tend to be designed for people who don't have a penis, meaning the straps can uncomfortably run against the testicles and penis. But the big point is that where there's a will, there's a way. Talk with your partner and brainstorm solutions. Let them know how you feel. Yall are a team and both deserve to enjoy sex.

  198. I’m sort of into weird things so it’s nice to know others are weird. I personally don’t think he’s dangerous, but I don’t know

  199. I HATE this comment. Reading stuff like this would destroy your boyfriends MIND. Just to be clear your saying you’d only give blowjobs in a casual sex scenario? If that’s what your saying, I seriously have your partner/future partner in my prayers. ?

  200. If you've broken up before and you mention “problems” repeatedly in a few paragraphs, you two aren't meant to be together. I would explore therapy, honestly. This sounds like something you need to tackle yourself.. it doesn't appear to be her problem or issue at all.

  201. Men in their 30s can date women their age but they choose not to. Why is this? Older single women come with a lot of fucking baggage and for some it’s just not worth dealing with. The terminally single ones tend to be pretty shitty people tbh A guy who is never in a relationship is red flag for women due to it seeming that no one wants to date them. An older women that isn’t already married is a red flag because all the men she was with didn’t want her. Why didn’t anyone want to marry her? Why does she have all these relationship issues? After a life time of high expectations that life didn’t deliver on they tend to be pretty bitter. Guys generally don’t care about careers or how much money they make especially if they have their shit together. Those men can usually provide for themselves. They just want someone that is fun to be around and won’t try to shit all over everything. I’m sure there are the outliers but this is most often the case. It has nothing to do with being “intimidated” or wanting to “control” women. That’s just a cope.

  202. Just a thought but I have a LOT of very kink/fetish centered interests and experience but I have no interest in doing them with my fiancé. I just don’t see her in that way. Funny thing is she would probably enjoy some of it but I just can’t with her. I’m perfectly happy with her but when I masturbate I always go straight to those fetishes.

  203. No not really great advice if you’re an incredibly monogamous person the idea of a partner wanting to open up your bedroom can be shitty

  204. Please see the first sentence, heck the entirety, of the second paragraph. What he did was shitty. Could you please describe to me the restraints in question?

  205. Maybe the guys felt wrong in other ways. Outside of the bedroom. Maybe you’re putting too much thought into it rather than just letting it happen. Don’t make it about anything more than what it’s supposed to be. A great time. And let it be that ?

  206. Yeah, I do that sometimes. I'm taken, but sometimes I madturbate tó the fantasy of making out/having sex with people other than my bf. Usually it's a woman and sometimes it's a threesome with me, bf and someone else. Around 65-70% of my masturbation fantasies are my boyfriend and I either relive some momentán with him or make up a scenario, which arouses me.

  207. Yeah it’s perfectly normal and we all come across lots of different people over time in person that we secretly tend to fantasize about so just keep it locked in that part of your mind.

  208. may be food play? like eating off ice cream/honey off her tits I don't think that would give her any pleasure but just had this fantasy in mind

  209. Sounds like you might be undiagnosed autistic.. There's a lot of autistic people that have heightened senses, some can even hear electricity in wires! Smells, tastes, and the way things feel (especially mouthfeel of foods) are really common problems for autistic people. (like me)

  210. I would personally never be with someone who put a limit or a mandatory quota on our sex life no matter how many kids we have. Are all the children his, or only some? Does he take an extremely long time to finish? You give off the impression that you are not happy to be with him, which is fine, but you need to either find a job so you can change your situation or give him more sex. Unless arguing with him, his mother, and the internet is less stressful and time consuming than starfishing for five minutes

  211. You need to drink a lot to get rid of that UTI and if it still doesn’t get better, I recommend taking antibiotics for a few days (keep it as little as possible) While taking antibiotics make sure you eat a lot of yoghurt and other prebiotics so you don’t accidentally catch yourself a nasty yeast infection.

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  213. Are you good at communicating? All the time we hear this kind of issues of not enought oral, no kinks, no foreplay, etc. 90% its because someone is not being clear in what they need and want out of a relationship.

  214. Why not tell him “I’m horny and about to run one out. Do you want me to save it for you?” If my partner said that to me I’d be super turned on and arrive there lickety split. Otherwise I’d set up a dick appointment and give her the info needed to plan. Or “sorry, not in the mood” and then you can do you.

  215. I just want to say I appreciate your honesty and I respect that. I don’t think you are a horrible person by any means!

  216. I think for one thing its safe. It requires no risk to you at all, so its fuliffling to some degree woth minimal effort. I know things aremt good between you and tour husband right now, but rather than just a reaction, is it possible this habit is part of the problem?

  217. Saying that I’m wrong because I only find women with huge breasts attractive is like saying to gay man that he is wrong because he only find people with penises attractive. Ahahahahahahahahahahaahhahahahhaahhahahahhahahahahahhahahahahaahhaahahahahhaa

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  219. Just to be safe, use a condom. Makes it easier to clean if there is any poop. And no worry about leakage.

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  221. Starting with missionary is the best cause that way it's easier to fit the penis in (idk, I just woke up, can't find a better phrase)

  222. That’s just your opinion, you have no idea about what time schedules other people might have ?‍♂️ agreed to not leave them on for months but putting new ones up every week is overkill

  223. Its not tho. Also asking questions isnt being sex negative. Thinking sex doesnt male absolutely every behavior okay, is also not sex negative. There s plenty of sex acts that dont involve abuse. Its not false. You have not given a single argument.

  224. Obviously depends quite a bit on the vibe for both people. I would think the 2nd time is significantly different, yes?

  225. If you said no, and no matter how many times you said no, he should have listened the very first time you said no. As others have said… I agree with them. No consent is rape.

  226. I’m no expert, but are are a few tips from my own learning experience. Find a position that works for you both, and always start from there. Once you’re both warmed up, you can try out other positions. But if the angles feel wrong, just go back to what works. Peoples bodies are all different, and what they like is different. Just keep trying things and learning as you go. Generally it’s safe to ejaculate into a condom, as long as it didn’t slip off accidentally. But try not to do it too quickly. If you feel close, pull out and give yourself a sec to breathe, and then go back. You don’t want to end it early because it usually takes longer for a woman to climax, and it’s probably more fun to edge yourself a bit too.

  227. Sex is an important part of a relationship. It's not THE main reason, but it is part. I agree that it sounds like you two are just not compatible that way. Now it could be she has a medical reason of some sort. A friend of mine (female) was always horny until she had a kid with her husband, and then she never wanted sex again. It ended up being a hormone imbalance and I forgot what she got, but it fixed the problem. You two have no kids though and are barely hitting 20. You both should be doing it like rabbits at your age. I'm 45 and my wife is 38, and we have sex 3 to 4 times per week after 16 years of marriage and 2 kids.

  228. It's pretty typical as you two have only been dating a month so the honeymoon period and the emotions that come with it is in full effect; as you keep doing these things they can become a 'normal' or 'regular' thing that won't arouse you as much anymore which could solve the issue

  229. Keep crying they us the word as an adjective everywhere go find better excuses crybabies my friend will not even believe me ahaha ????

  230. I think you'll find that if you two are horny enough to have a second go during the same session, you'll last much longer than the first time. You'll also find that once you're inside her missionary, by going really slow and gentle, wrapping your arms around her, nuzzling around her neck and ear, kissing her lovingly, running your fingers thru her hair, and generally paying close attention to her will bring her to the point of naturally speeding you both up, instinctively wanting you more and more because her mind is telling her subconsciously to breed. With more experience, you'll see what I mean. . .

  231. Just enjoy the connection you have with her and don't worry what she's going to think. We were all a virgin at one point, her included, so its not something that's bad or to be ashamed about. Before you do have sex, just tell her that you've never done this before and its your first time. A good girlfriend or partner would understand and would want to ease you into it and make it special for you. If she takes it negatively, she wasn't worth being with in the first place anyway. You've got nothing to lose.

  232. Some people are embarrassed to make sounds during sex. How old are you? I find this to be true if you are fairly young or new to the relationship✌️

  233. Your binary solution set doesn’t work. It may or may not increase with age but that doesn’t mean she is losing interest in you.

  234. There’s such a big scale from ‘good girl’ to really degrading talk. If she’s into praise like that, explore that more and talk about what she’s comfortable with. Honestly with me and my partner most things go, and in the moment can come out with something new that goes the wrong way or is just straight up funny. Have fun and talk about it after if it’s not hitting right

  235. Thank you for educating me. Being open and accepting of your kinks is a way to happiness for you! Don't let anyone take real advantage of you, okay? Have fun!

  236. I want you to just ask them all these questions: What is the point of telling a woman, that her lover is small? Am I supposed to be embarrassed that a “small” penis satisfies me? Do they expect me to trash on my lover and admit that he’s small? Am I supposed to tell them, I wish he was bigger? Am I supposed to tell them he IS bigger? Or should I just ask them how many orgasms they had last night and walk away?

  237. I hear what you're saying, but…. Masturbation doesn't make you less sensitive down there. That's more bro science. At worst you will make the skin on your dick a little raw, but again you need to be stroking it like 5 times a day (without lube) for anything like that to happen. Unless you find a way to lower your testosterone levels, the sex drive isn't going away. I'm 34 and I've had an extremely high sex drive since puberty that is going strong to this day. You can discipline yourself and try and ignore it if masturbation really bothers you that much, but frankly, rubbing one out when you have a persistent erection is going to be the most effective way to calm down.

  238. Yay congrats Why wouldn’t you do it again? Now that you know it’s possible it can happen again and will only get better each time!

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  240. I just read the title and 80% of my pleasure is my partner having fun. A girl that knows what she wants is even sexier

  241. I didnt say people never owe anyone anything. Amd it shouldnt be transactional. Precisely why he shpuldnt use chores to get sex. And precisely why her declining once a month while on her period shouldnt be a problem in any way. Him perceiving this as being “led on” is on him tho. He is an adult. He should know there s no such thing. They re also dating. So he knews or should know she s on her period. Women ha e lower sex drive while in that period. And most of all, even if he was aroused by kissing, if she says no, why is it a big deal? He s aroused now,but so what, if she says no, he can just masturbate. Its not like she makes him suffer theough it. He initiates, she says know, and he reacts with “oh, okay, i ll deal with it myself”. Why is sex necessary for dealing with that situation? And what kind of person is capable of having sex with an obviously uninterested partner? Why would he want her to have sex that she doesnt want?

  242. Respond with “why do other mens penises interest you? Is there something you have been keeping to yourself?”

  243. I am on sucralfate! I only have flare ups on my period typically or when I am very stressed so it’s not to bad! Typically it is okay, and not to inflamed. Anal itself doesnt bother it however the enema DEFINITELY has

  244. Women who don’t climax from intercourse usually like to come first. If we don’t get it then, chances are we won’t get it at all.

  245. I think this is very much a personal preference thing that has a lot of factors that play in. For instance, you mention “fantasies” in our description, and honestly that’s a good word to use for sexting because it mainly consists of factasies. If I were to sext my partner who I’m intimate with, and we were sexting about a “fantasy,” then I would expectt that fantasy to because not physically possible, because that’s what makes it a fantasy. However if I’m setting with someone I haven’t had intercourse with or haven’t fully explored with, then it truly can be a fantasy. I’ve been pretty open with my partner that sexting has lost its lust for me because I KNOW I can do all these “fantasies” in person. I think a good bit of information would be the kind of setting. Are you trying to straight up role play via text? Or are you just trying to dirty talk fantasies you’d like to perform? Theres a big difference and nuance to it all. Asking for a point blank; “is this right or wrong?,” or “is this okay or not,” just seems like minimizing it.

  246. It doesn't smell fishy. It smells like blood – sweet iron (rust). You can have sex as usual. If she bleeds heavily move to the shower.

  247. That's wild! In a good way. Set you insecurities aside and just appreciate that she knows what she wants, that makes your life easier. Now you can turn it up a little bit and perhaps have her use her own fingers while your fulfilling other needs. Sounds like a blessing, not a curse! Have fun and enjoy.

  248. Knowing some women talk about male cum as being difficult for them because they have issues with texture, taste, the surprise element, or whatever, I would apply that same idea here. It’s possible that he just has issues with the taste or texture of pussy, but still loves women and pussy. Best thing to do is ask him. As some have said, he could be self conscious, he could have had a bad experience, or he could have some hang up. Maybe it can be worked through, maybe it can’t.

  249. It's definitely unfair and she is not being communicative or productive. However they are both 18 and this is her first real relationship. I would err on the side of benefit of the doubt due to age and inexperience.

  250. I’d add one more thing, if I may. She does NOT really want these things to happen. That’s why it’s a fantasy and not a reality. In reality, she wants to be with you! I think the gang bang fantasy is hot. If I think about that, I’ll probably get aroused. But if I had the opportunity to let a bunch of guys gather around and fuck me, I wouldn’t do it. It’s a fantasy. I choose the reality of my nice, safe and secure life instead. I wonder if you read about fantasies in a more academic type publication if that would help you process this. Also, I think her being out of town or away right now is making it more difficult for you. I can’t help but think I’d you could talk face to face it could be easier.

  251. As long as you have lube and condoms you’ll be fine. Don’t over think it I actually couldn’t use tampons when I was a virgin. It hurt too much. After losing my virginity tampons became much easier to use.

  252. Well, he's allowed to have boundaries, and you're allowed to have dealbreakers. Ultimately, we all end up making concessions in relationships to be with people that we love and you'll have to weigh for yourself if these concessions are worth it. Speaking as a man who loves both giving and receiving oral and might love sucking titties even more, personally I'd have a tough time in this situation. But love is a hell of a drug.

  253. If you enjoy car sex google the Nash automobile from the early fifties. It had lay-flat seats, and there were stories of fathers who wouldn’t let their daughters date guys with a Nash, teenagers borrowing a Nash and parents finding footprints on the inside of the windshield, etc. Next, get a Tesla, put it on Autopilot, and then…..

  254. Get completely rid of him from your life. Block, delete do not respond and run to the hills. This is a toxic narcissist that will stop at nothing to ruin your life and traumatize you.

  255. Yes, there are whole threads full of women saying that they love it when a man moans or they wish men were more vocal during sex. I think it is because he's showing that he's enjoying what we're doing.

  256. As a deepthroat lover but never received one .. What would be the best sex toy to emulate the feeling?

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  258. Ah sorry should have been more neutral with my language before assuming. Oof Im sorry if you had to find out about this by happenstance. First off talk to her about the emails don't judge just be open to conversation! And fear not because suprise, she wouldn't have married you if you weren't “good enough” so please pack that idea away. And on another note there are a ton of men who expierienced this similar situation themselves, myself included. There are many ways to please your wife without a big johnson and without involving other parties.

  259. It's important to recognize that everyone's sexual preferences and desires are unique, and it's perfectly okay to have feelings that may seem different from those around you. Your feelings about sex and your preference for watching porn or hentai over engaging in real-life sexual experiences are valid, and it's essential to understand and accept yourself. It's also worth exploring the reasons behind your feelings of disgust towards sex. It might be rooted in cultural, religious, or personal beliefs about purity and innocence. Reflecting on these aspects may help you better understand your feelings and decide how you want to navigate your sexual life moving forward. If you find that your feelings are causing you distress or impacting your relationships, it might be helpful to speak with a therapist or counselor. They can help you explore your feelings and beliefs around sex and provide guidance on how to manage them. Remember, there's no one-size-fits-all approach to sexuality, and it's crucial to find what feels right for you. Allow yourself the space to explore your feelings and preferences without judgment, and be open to the possibility of change as you grow and learn more about yourself.

  260. Then all I can suggest is you talk to her and pretend like you don't think there is anything behind it. Don't mention the fact you think she's interested in you or anything. Without trying to sound condescending, you are an 18 year old guy. Your mind will perceive things as sexual when often they're not. Just tell her that you do like seeing her, but long hugs make you uncomfortable. If you need, don't even say it's her hugs specifically, just long hugs in general. Or even just physical contact that makes you feel off. Once you've been able to do that, just see how she acts. If she backs off then chances are it was a misunderstanding and maybe she still sees you as a young kid. If she doesn't stop, or seems to try find other ways to be physical with you, you'll have to be more direct. good luck

  261. Here's the problem with that. Non-monogamy can and often does get messy. People can catch feelings, jealousy can happen, all sorts of bad stuff. If you're with a stranger and problems come up, it's a lot easier to just cut ties completely. If you're involving a friend you run the risk of ruining two relationships.

  262. Not this but I've had whipped cream blow jobs and a range of alcoholic drinks licked off with never a problem. Enjoy.

  263. My husband and I have been together 35 years, 33 married, we still get at least one round per day in on weekdays and sometimes 2. On weekends, we do 3-5 rounds Friday and Saturday night. We do this because we absolutely love everything about sex and we are both high energy sexually. If it’s important to both of you, find a way to set aside time before bed or when you wake up to make it happen.

  264. You’re idealizing the situation. He told you he’s not available to give you what you want, and texting him isn’t going to change that. Maybe he’ll start talking to you to see if you’re able to be a hookup, or maybe he’ll just ignore you. Neither sounds like what will make you happy

  265. She is my first, I’m not her first. She has had some abusive exes in the past few years so I assume it stems from that.

  266. Ouch doesn't mean stop for everyone, lots of people like a little pain and/or are vocal during sex. Communicate, have a safe word or don't hesitate to be clear and say stop when needed.

  267. yes, its physical as hell, its a workout. thats why after all the work to get to orgasm, we need to fall off and recover for a few minutes. some positions are tougher than others. standing on side of bed with lady on bed is one of the easiest. prone bone also. thats really why men love when a women will get on top. its not only about dom and sub, or the view of her on top, its a fucking break from the workout of busting your ass and sweating your ass off to just do the act of sex

  268. Also not true. Your position was widely assumed among academics for a long time, but has been thoroughly disproven. Sex differences in the brain are clear at birth. This has a cool visual display of the developmental differences.

  269. Dawg. I wish partner would let me do that. It's literally all I would eat. For days. I'd starve to death before getting tired.

  270. If you agree to this and move forward, you're giving her complete control of your marital sex life, even if just subconsciously.

  271. ? lol… glad you like the idea… i'm really not sure why my brain is wired this way…I think I'm just a very sex positive person and especially love anything that draws out the tease/experience.

  272. Thanks for this post. I’m a husband with similar concerns, but also recognize the stress and tiredness feed the issues. I don’t think she needs to save herself or libido for me, but I often feel neglected and though we talk about it, not a lot changes. Even with the communication I need more. To not feel like the problem, I’ve recognized the silent work and stress around the house. I’ve worked to bring down the stress of the house, but it’s still a struggle to be intimate. I’d talk to him more. In my shoes, though I hate the scheduling sex thing, I’m open to it just to have some intimacy. I’d love to be asked to join in with her, but I also see this as her time. It’s such a weird headspace to be in that I’m afraid my communication might really suck due to frustrations. Talk more with him. Level set that libido isn’t his, but yours. Talk about stress management in the house. Good luck. 🙂

  273. So you’ve identified the problem, now use your big-boy words and say something to her about it and find out what needs to change. If that’s too much then take the initiative and stop waiting.

  274. If he has said multiple times that he does not enjoy going down on women, why are you complaining that he hasn't gone down on you in 6 years? He doesn't like it. If this was a deal breaker and you wanted to have oral sex, why did you marry him? Apart from the oral sex issue, it sounds like he is shut down sexually. Therapy with a sex-positive therapist.

  275. Talk to your doctor about it. They sometimes prescribed Wellbutrin for you to take with or instead of Lexapro.

  276. Penetration does not mean consent just as a wet vagina is not consent. You may have initialed the sex. You do not know. He does not know. Or am I misunderstanding?

  277. Waauw..sorry to say, but how old is he? Or is he Amish? Try to turn the question around, and ask how many chicks HE has “made out” with?… First of all, everyone has a past. He can't expect you to be born with a chastity belt. Plus the fact of that he is slut-shaming you says a whole lot. I don't know the guy, but it sounds like you should take a good look at your relationship with him. Because the thing that sounds like is lacking here, is Respect. Which is fundamental to a long-lasting and functional relationship. You're worth more, sweetheart

  278. This topic is discussed regularly in our forum. If you search past r/sex posts with some diligence (following Forum Rule #3), you’ll find a number of helpful discussions. Post removed. The r/sex forum's HUGE archive of past posts is a tremendous resource for people who have all kinds of common questions regarding sexual activity. Searching those posts for relevant discussions will definitely help you here.

  279. Yeah, different levels or arousal will give you different errections. Even just being tired but still very aroused can lead to some very functional halfers that will work just fine. But when you get the moment right, well rested, feeling good and just horny AF then you get waaaay harder. But I also wouldn’t take a half chub as a indicator of his attractiveness to you. Too many things can mess with that. Just enjoy it when you got it and if you find a way to give him those full chubs then run with it and enjoy ride!

  280. ALSO WHERE THE FUCK DID I SAY I DON'T BELIEVE MEN CAN GET RAPED??? ARE YOU FUCKING STUPID.??. OF COURSE MEN CAN GET RAPED

  281. Yep, my first time I definitely wasn’t as comfortable and in my head about performing well. The next time around my gf thought I had swapped dicks cause the difference was night and day. The key is to make sure your partner is comfortable and turned on.

  282. Great. And once the vitamin D treatment is done, I bet you keep doing a lower dose every day. Unless that is already long term.

  283. Hey, 66m and 74f, never heard of soaking, but we have fallen asleep that way more than once. It's fun but never realized it was a “Thing”. And yes, with the right partner sex in your 60s and 70s can absolutely rock better than your 20s and 30s.

  284. I would be 100% up front with him with exactly how you are feeling, like what you wrote in your post. He can decide if he wants to accept that or not. This situation sounds salvageable to me.

  285. If you're not attracted to her stop wasting her time. You also aren't ready for a relationship when you have a problem with your partner's sexual history.

  286. Do you use lube? A lot of times it has to do with not being wet enough ahead of penetration. If your only experience is just having it shoved in with no foreplay or buildup, you might want to try with a partner that actually prioritizes those things. If you've had that, there's a chance lube may help. Super common and you can find it at drugstores or supermarkets!

  287. Great info, thank you for sharing. I use Cialis, here in Australia they cost around $30 (around $20 US) per pack of 4 20mg, so not too bad. I cut them into 1/4s and 1 1/4 tablet works fine for up to 3-4 days. I guess my ED is not that bad, yet.

  288. First of all, just breathe and relax. You two are going to enjoy a time that is fun and intimate. I know you want to be a sex goddess already, but I think it might be more helpful to reframe this as a learning opportunity. Set yourself up for an experience where you will learn more: How it feels to get naked with someone, what it feels like to touch someone, what it feels like to be touched, how oral feels, how penetration feels, what your worries are, what makes you feel sexy, what makes you feel aroused, what he sounds like… etc Just communicate with him ahead of time so he knows you are new to the world of sex. It's good to be on the same page about how you want to make it special but need some help! Have fun 🙂

  289. Tell him, from a guy that would love to be in this situation; open the mind, sit back, enjoy the ride. And he will find that there are things we men have been missing out on because of what society tells us is right and wrong.

  290. Yeah for me it’s the same. I don’t orgasm very often but it’s still satisfying even if I don’t orgasm – what satisfies me is my partners orgasm

  291. My husband just says, “Do you want to trade dope for vagina?” “You have a nice ass!” When he cheats on me

  292. You need to provide a little more context. In what way? Is there a height difference, does he slip out often, does it feel uncomfortable/painful to one of you or is it something else? Do you have similiar issues in other positions?

  293. I mean, he can think what he wants about men and women as a whole, that's dumb but irrelevant and not an argument you can win. The important thing is that you, his actual partner, are turned off by his lack of hygiene. Is he bothered that you don't want more sex? If so, is he at all motivated to try and find a solution to that?

  294. Yeah, there are tons of guys who would love that. Hey, find yourself a nice switch and let them worship you for a change.

  295. Life is unfair. Tons of things how to increase libido – internet, tv, articles. And still nothing to lower it for free usage

  296. Waiting a few dates to gauge how well you get along is surely not an issue for the majority of people. But I would not enter a relationship before having a crasp of our sexual compatibility. I would date someone for a few weeks before sex happens but I would not date exclusively that person in that period. This is something that I would consider true for the majority of my peers independent of gender (university students, mid/late 20s, young professionals). So if you expect your partner to exclusively date you and wait for weeks+ then you will have a harder time doing so. I am not saying that it is impossible, just that you would have to find someone that shares the same values and or experience with regards to sex.

  297. Seems pretty straight forward. What is he getting wrong? Can you take his hand and show him? Does he know it's important to you? If you haven't told him it's a priority you might start there.

  298. Two common causes are hormones and psych meds. Hormonal issues can be caused by birth control. It’s a simple blood test. SSRI psych meds are notorious. There are often good alternatives.

  299. Hi Phataijeed, we are bombarded with hundreds of messages after posting and it’s hard to respond to everyone. Please don’t take offense to not receiving a response back. You might have better luck getting a response by commenting on a post in r/tributeme instead of privately messaging. I think you deserve to know how good of a boy toy you are ?

  300. There are a number of effective techniques to get rid of sexual fantasies you find disturbing. They include: Reducing the need for fantasy This strategy involves identifying and practicing those things that make a person less susceptible to a fantasy’s intrusion. One way to accomplish this is to reduce stress by setting aside more time for sexual experiences. Another is to remove the pressure to climax in a sexual encounter and focus instead on sensual pleasuring and emotional closeness. Increasing sexual stimulation through other means of stimulation can also help. Disrupting the function In this strategy, a person seriously interferes with the ability of the unwanted sexual fantasy to arouse. Usually, this involves stopping sexual activity whenever the fantasy is present and only resuming activity when one feels relaxed and able to be present in sex without it. Rendered ineffectual, the fantasy eventually becomes extinct.

  301. Personally I'd be more than happy to accept a blow job and there be no expectation of anything more. The vast majority of lads would but I'd definitely make sure your intentions were clear so there is no grey area of “more might happen after the blowjob”

  302. Try grabbing them in missionary by having your legs up high and putting your hand under your leg and in between his!

  303. Virginity is not a thing. Anything sexual is sex…. That being said, keep to the boundaries that are important to you. And dump anyone who doesn’t respect it

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  305. And having a blended orgasm is to literally die for lol. Females have 4 orgasmic nerve pathways from her genitals to her brain while men only has one. And due to the more nerve endings in her body as a whole and her clitoris more than the male penis, is why females simply experiences potent orgasms in general

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  307. We were both 17, she was tight from nerves so it was hard to get in. Popped quick and she had a late period by two weeks. Later experiences with her and other partners went great

  308. You don’t owe your boyfriend an explanation, but it might be helpful to have a conversation around it. While I would agree that she doesn't owe him anything, she owes it to herself that he knows what's going on rather than probably incorrectly filling in the blanks on his own. Actually now that I think about it, she does owe it him to be honest about her past in this case because past experience is very much affecting their current relationship and him knowing what and why is the only way there's any chance of them getting around or through it together.

  309. He’s lying. Unless the condom is to big they don’t just slide off. Suggest that he buys a smaller condom so that it won’t slip off next time. Be super innocent about it like you are just trying to help. “No I wasn’t insinuating your penis is small, just that the condom is to big if it’s slipping.”

  310. I don't know if this is normal for doms to do or not. That’s not dom, That’s highly sadistic. Plus ignoring your safe Word and keep going is assault. he gets to decide when I can use my safe word Nope. You don't have a dominant bf but a big sadistic asshole

  311. I’m thinking about getting on some type of birth control. As for the ovulation part, I already keep track. I just do the math in my head and estimate when my ovulation day is. Though, I should really get a tracker just in case my calculations are wrong

  312. I’m asexual and I love sex. I just don’t experience sexual attraction. The definition of asexuality is experiencing little to no sexual attraction. Some aces are sex repulsed others aren’t.

  313. Both, but thickness gets bearable after few minutes, but i have to tell him every couple of minutes it hurts and not to try go all the way in. He every time apologises and i feel like im not satisfying him

  314. Is this something I bring up during the talking phase or a second or third date? I haven’t been single in a while.

  315. You are on the right path, you know a “near death experience” can often open doors wider that we initially they were capable. I am rooting for you to make it so that you can do all those wild satisfying sexual things for yourself

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  317. The main thing is that you both cum and have a great time while doing it. A few things you can do is masturbate an hour before hand, find positions that you find it hard to get close in but are good for her ( reverse cowgirl ) works for me as do a few others… if you are in doggy or prone bone and you feel you are getting close switch to cowgirl or a position which is not so good for you but is good for her. Also research stop and squeeze technique.. if done properly with practise it can increase your staying power massively. Other options are use condoms, numbing creams ( I’ve not tried) penis sleeves can be very desensitising again ( I have not tried) I would also recommend having a magic wand which can be used during foreplay and intercourse which can help her cum quicker and more intensely. Hope it helps and have fun

  318. I had a girl put it on with her mouth. I was like, “What!?! Woa…wow! How'd you do that!?!” She giggled, then mounted me. Best memory, only memory of her. LOL

  319. Hi, I'm 26M, athletic-built and tall, and I damn love chubby girls. I am way, way more attracted to them than to normal posture or skinny girls. Almost every girl I had sex with was more or less chubby, though in the beginning of sexual life I did that with skinny ones so I have comparision – sex with chubby girl is just way way better. Also chubbies give more from them in sex. Girl, you are for sure beautiful and sexy, learn to appreciate your body and for sure you'll find a man who respects and loves it the way it is. Go on and get that confidence which you deserve, because chubby women deserve love and good sex too!

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  321. If you're worried that “Netflix and chill?” might suggest that you want something non-casual, then try “I don't want a boyfriend or anything RN, but I think you're hot. Netflix and chill?”

  322. Sounds to me like she has decided to settle and is gaslighting you in order to avoid her own guilt. Unfortunately, this causes her to just become flustered and outright refuse to discuss it. To put this in context, I am straightforward but gentle. She immediately goes into yelling and defensiveness. This is the go to reaction for people who know they are doing something wrong, but don't want to admit. The way I see it your only options are therapy, divorce, or settling yourself. Unless you are willing to settle, I would force an ultimatum: therapy or divorce.

  323. I understand your lack of experience can be seen as holding you back, but some men are more than happy to be in a relationship with women like you. This is the issue I have with the incel community is that they think their virginity is holding them back in life, but thats not true. You might be inexperienced in sex, but you could be experienced in math, psychology, swimming, tennis, video games, etc… Don't feel pressured to lose your virginity to find love.

  324. With respect, no medical professional would EVER refer to EH as blue balls. We inform all of our young women and men being pressure into se through the use of the excuse of 'blue balls' that this is a manipulative tactic used to get sex without full consent. BLUE BALLS does n to exist EH does. Which by the way is a highly uncommon occurrence regardless of what you believe of have found online. My information is backed up my years and years of clinical work as well as medical/academic research.

  325. Yes!! Tbh sometimes he washes it and comes to bed which means 1 minute passes between him washing and me giving head. Yet there’ll still be a smell. Sometimes I wash it for him and then there isn’t a smell. Unfortunately we barely have any sexual activity anymore, so it matters less and less. So sad, I’m young and have a good libido but over the pay two years my libido has been shut down due to his lack of lust

  326. Well I think saying fuck me mommy instead of daddy might help. She might have gotten that mental image from you saying daddy.

  327. If it doesn’t smell after you wash it but does after he “washes” it, he lacks basic hygiene understanding.

  328. married over 20 yrs. not her thing. not an issue. we're still rabbits in bed so not going to shoot the gift horse over this.

  329. I don’t recommend this. My ex needed bondage stuff to get her off now my dick won’t even get hard unless I’m beating the shit out of a woman. It’s sad thing I been trying to reverse for years. She turned me into a monster

  330. Ah, the sexual shame wizard. My dear friend. The shame wizard and I are conjoined at the hip. I too dread sex and all that comes with it. Someone seeing me naked? ? Someone kissing me and touching me? ? Forcing myself to orgasm/not orgasming with someone? ? Pillow talk and cuddling? ? I just don’t have sex anymore. I don’t do anything sexy unless I’m paid. If I’m going to suffer, I may as we’ll profit.

  331. lighting is so important! that’s what creates a beautiful pic. if nudes of women were just tittle shots in a poorly lit bathroom they wouldn’t be… so beautiful. you can get a phone case that has “selfie” lighting or position lamps to add sexy lighting. it’s truly an art form to take good nudes lol

  332. especially when you are actually getting sexual with your man. Here are a few example commands to give him. You’re going to taste me (then physically push his head down so that he starts eating you out). You don’t get to cum until I say so, ok? You’re not allowed to orgasm until I cum at least twice. These are just some example commands that you can give your man. You don’t necessarily need to use them, but they will give you a good idea of what kinds of things you can say to your man to be dominant and for both of you to get comfortable with your roles.

  333. No biggie, talk to several people including women in whatever social situation you both are. See it as a warm up, then do it when you'll feel better. It really to be low stake, so if she says no, you don't mind and can move to the next.

  334. I mean, i am willing to wait but i am not sure if she will ever do it… i mean I waited till now and can wait for some more time as well but she is just not even comfortable with the topic of sex!

  335. Mmm mm mm. SMFH! First off, were boundaries ever set? Rules? Yep, she's hooked on that cock. Second, don't do a 3rd meeting unless you're ready to be thrown out like a cum rag.

  336. How does the friend look, and because this might be the setup for something she wants to do. Ask that question before you agree.

  337. That doesn’t even pertain to any of this. A virgin is someone who’s never had sex… Nice karma bait though!

  338. Fwiw this is not universal, I did exactly that and I only ever left the gym wanting to die or close to that. I understand I'm in the minority, but it did happen

  339. Hmm. Then I think maybe sex has gotten less stimulating? I don’t mean to be rude or anything, maybe the excitement wasn’t what it used to be when you guys first started doing it. Maybe introduce some extra toys in there, explore certain kinks, cuffs, blinds and (if she’s into it) could be tied up and blindfolded. You could have your way with her, teasing her around during foreplay before sex. And since you mention that you guys ‘fuck like rabbits’, maybe a change of pace would help. Take things slow and a little more sensual. Change it up, would be my opinion

  340. It could be but I've been in a similar situation. It's not unheard of. But a lot of people are telling him to go for it. I think maybe he is too young to navigate this well.

  341. I don't think he's using me exactly. I think I let it get to this stage and probably should have said something way earlier, and now it's just become a comfortable pattern. My real question is how to bring that up now without making him feel like he's done something wrong and distancing us because of it. You say about talking, which I agree, but I just don't know how that conversation would work on a practical level. At the end of the day, I don't want to push him away, especially at the moment when he's extremely stressed.

  342. I think porn could be at least a little influential on casting the male orgasm as the climax and finale of the sexual encounter. It shouldn't be, just as it shouldn't be for their partner. Just because someone has an orgasm it doesn't necessarily mean you have to stop.

  343. I love missionary with my legs over my partner’s shoulders, it hits my gspot so good and makes me squirt all over him. I also love doggystyle, the depth of penetration drives me crazy.

  344. Probably the toxicity of the relationship, in a horrible way. We had a Dom/Sub dynamic but were also in a pretty shitty relationship. I swear for most of our time together we'd stay together because of the sex we had. It was almost never ending, she was always wet and we never needed lube, and somehow I'd basically remain hard constantly, I've always had a low refractory period but this was insane.

  345. Wait what apps did you try? Ive been on every app for years POF, Bumble, Hinge, Tinder, even here. I got nothing but bots and people selling me 'Big Dick Pills' lmao. I even put up fancy pics. Still nothing.

  346. Genuine question, if a woman is taking birth control, tells her partner that she's taking birth control and then stops without telling her partner, is that considered rape also?

  347. Guys will have sex with you. If you are looking for love or a committed relationship it might be harder but finding sex partners won't be hard. You should also consider expanding your target demographic. Some cultures are more forgiving about larger partners.

  348. I hadn’t been considerate of the fact that we’re probably freaking our friends out. I kinda figured they’d be used to our stuff by now lol I really appreciate your comment

  349. I feel like it’s definitely a me problem, emotionally closed off is a good way to describe it I think hahah. Sex wasn’t always a positive experience in past relationships so it’s just a difficult thing for me I guess. But my boyfriend is so understanding, never pushy and is always open for conversation so trust isn’t a problem. Therapy may be the best option yes, thank you.

  350. My husband has the same question. Less because he was questioning my virginity but more because such a big deal is made of virgin women bleeding during sex, its a sign that the 'virginity is gone' when in reality not all women bleed. Some bleed after. The thing is the hymen is so easily broken, if you've ever done the splits? Ever been horse riding, used a tampon or a dildo or even fingers during masturbation, all of these can stretch or break the hymen without needing a penis to do the job. There's nothing wrong with you and your partner doesn't seem to be questioning you more just wondering. Don't worry you're totally normal.

  351. Ope. I see you're a guy. Nevermind. Don't know what to tell you bit unless you got something special…Dicks aren't something we as women really have to buy

  352. Damn, I'm a dude and even I want to know even though I'd probably never afford to go there in my lifetime. I wish I could lose my pubic hair.

  353. What's so weird about eating your own cum? If I was there would you cum in my mouth ? I would let you fill me up then I could eat it….. Well only if your over the she of 18 would I do something like that lets understand that tight now no minors at all

  354. I broke mine when my feet slipped on the monkey bar ladder. Bar went straight between my legs and I thought I was dying.

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