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I had that with an ex of mine. We were both up for it and gave consent for it in advance with a couple caviats. It was OK as long as it wasn't on a work night and if the other part said stop or no when they woke up was it off directly. And we were both light sleepers so we both woke up in just a couple seconds and neither of us turned the other one down when this happened but there was always the option.
OP, as I’m sure you’re aware, it’s common for people to enjoy all the positive aspects of sex between people of different races: different skin colour, hair type, eye colour, face shape, and so on. But you have found out that there are negative aspects that some people focus on. Stereotyping, being one of them. But, you have here a problem from the very start: premature ejaculation. So the guy feels inadequate, and he seems to feel that it’s ok for you to have sex with other guys because he knows he has this problem. But he wants to feel that the problem is contained within boundaries that he has some knowledge of or control of. It’s somehow familiar territory. (I am just totally guessing here, as a man in an interracial marriage, I don’t know anything about you or your man, just an opinion.) So you have great sex with a white guy, and your bf knows he is not a white guy, so there is an additional worry in his mind. The other poster who said your bf has internalised the porn hierarchy of race is right, in my opinion. Your bf has thought to himself, hell, even some random white guy is better than me! This horrible racist crap runs deep. But I don’t think it’s the main problem here. What do you define as premature ejaculation? Is having sex with other men really making your partner happy? Could you accept an ongoing relationship like this? Could he? It might not even be that her draws the line at white guys, it may just be: he draws the line. No more other guys, and white guys was just the trigger, or excuse? Is it possible for you guys to work it out with each other, together, without other people? What does he say? Is it really that the guy was white, or is it that he is done with the idea of other guys being the “solution”? Hope you guys can work it out. Just my 2c.
Your comment was that you agree with the comment about telling him that his dick is big. To make him feel better. I don’t lack sympathy. However, the posts here are always mind blowing how people let their significant other run all over their boundaries and then ask Reddit how THEY can fix the issue. There is no issue with providing your partner with reassurance that you enjoy sex with them. Or complimenting their body. Or even his penis if she really means it. But in this scenario, she has basically been held hostage by these types of questions where she already expressed a boundary of not talking about them. To violate someone’s boundary while they are naked and with their legs open…. Completely vulnerable….. that is beyond disgusting. And a complete violation of someone trust. It’s okay to help your partner with their insecurities. And make them feel better about themselves. That is what partners are for. BUT I do not feel the proper response here is to make him feel better. The proper response is to have a serious discussion about conversations about exes being off limits. And him respecting this. THEN a discussion can be had about his feelings of inadequacy and how they can address these things together. Maybe he needs more praise. Maybe he needs more direction in bed. Whatever. They should totally have that conversation. But to just jump to telling him that his dick is big to make him feel better….. Remember she set a boundary about this topic multiple times. He trampled it multiple times…… THAT is the issue here. THAT is what hurt his feelings. And THAT is what she should be worried about. Before she concerns herself with his feelings of inadequacy. We are all insecure about something. It doesn’t make these kinds of actions okay. And the correct response isn’t to coddle someone
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I had that with an ex of mine. We were both up for it and gave consent for it in advance with a couple caviats. It was OK as long as it wasn't on a work night and if the other part said stop or no when they woke up was it off directly. And we were both light sleepers so we both woke up in just a couple seconds and neither of us turned the other one down when this happened but there was always the option.
OP, as I’m sure you’re aware, it’s common for people to enjoy all the positive aspects of sex between people of different races: different skin colour, hair type, eye colour, face shape, and so on. But you have found out that there are negative aspects that some people focus on. Stereotyping, being one of them. But, you have here a problem from the very start: premature ejaculation. So the guy feels inadequate, and he seems to feel that it’s ok for you to have sex with other guys because he knows he has this problem. But he wants to feel that the problem is contained within boundaries that he has some knowledge of or control of. It’s somehow familiar territory. (I am just totally guessing here, as a man in an interracial marriage, I don’t know anything about you or your man, just an opinion.) So you have great sex with a white guy, and your bf knows he is not a white guy, so there is an additional worry in his mind. The other poster who said your bf has internalised the porn hierarchy of race is right, in my opinion. Your bf has thought to himself, hell, even some random white guy is better than me! This horrible racist crap runs deep. But I don’t think it’s the main problem here. What do you define as premature ejaculation? Is having sex with other men really making your partner happy? Could you accept an ongoing relationship like this? Could he? It might not even be that her draws the line at white guys, it may just be: he draws the line. No more other guys, and white guys was just the trigger, or excuse? Is it possible for you guys to work it out with each other, together, without other people? What does he say? Is it really that the guy was white, or is it that he is done with the idea of other guys being the “solution”? Hope you guys can work it out. Just my 2c.
Your comment was that you agree with the comment about telling him that his dick is big. To make him feel better. I don’t lack sympathy. However, the posts here are always mind blowing how people let their significant other run all over their boundaries and then ask Reddit how THEY can fix the issue. There is no issue with providing your partner with reassurance that you enjoy sex with them. Or complimenting their body. Or even his penis if she really means it. But in this scenario, she has basically been held hostage by these types of questions where she already expressed a boundary of not talking about them. To violate someone’s boundary while they are naked and with their legs open…. Completely vulnerable….. that is beyond disgusting. And a complete violation of someone trust. It’s okay to help your partner with their insecurities. And make them feel better about themselves. That is what partners are for. BUT I do not feel the proper response here is to make him feel better. The proper response is to have a serious discussion about conversations about exes being off limits. And him respecting this. THEN a discussion can be had about his feelings of inadequacy and how they can address these things together. Maybe he needs more praise. Maybe he needs more direction in bed. Whatever. They should totally have that conversation. But to just jump to telling him that his dick is big to make him feel better….. Remember she set a boundary about this topic multiple times. He trampled it multiple times…… THAT is the issue here. THAT is what hurt his feelings. And THAT is what she should be worried about. Before she concerns herself with his feelings of inadequacy. We are all insecure about something. It doesn’t make these kinds of actions okay. And the correct response isn’t to coddle someone