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  1. his laying down with me meant fondling my breasts and nipples most of the time. I didn't tell him to stop because I really didn't care, but it just made it seem less like a supportive gesture and more like him getting his kicks. This is what stuck out to me the most today. You are viewing him caressing you as something he was doing to you for his pleasure, and that it was your job to tolerate/endure it as long as it wasn’t too much of an inconvenience. I think you do have some kind of idea that sex and pleasure is something done to you instead of done with you and that you have to put up with it where possible. It’s no wonder that you feel constantly pressured for sex, even though from what you’ve said here, it doesn’t sound like he is pressuring you. Sex is not something you feel agency with yet, and your experiences feel out of your control. He was caressing you, one would hope, to be sexual with you and provide some gentle pleasant sensations that would help you cope with your painful day. You weren’t at all in a sensual frame of mind, and if this happens in the future, you should try saying, “I’m not feeling into being sexual right now. Leave my boobs alone and let’s just cuddle.” Don’t accept touch just because you “don’t really care”. Accept touch that you care about only, sensual touches that are awakening your body and thrilling you. Otherwise you do damage to your sex drive! Nobody wants to have sex that just feels icky all the time, right? Stop giving yourself icky experiences. INFO though: when you turn him down, does he get mad or sulky?

  2. It just does nothing for me. I can objectively say it can feel pleasant but I’m never going to orgasm from it so doing it seems almost pointless as there are other things (like sucking my nipples) that’s far more pleasurable for me. I’d rather focus on the things that really get me going and worked up as opposed to the things that just feel ‘okay’. Honestly the only reason I even allow it to happen is because guys like doing it and they get a lot more satisfaction from it than I do. So I let my partners eat me out to please them.

  3. Make noises for sure, too many guys are apparently dead quiet. Let her know what she’s doing that you like, play with her breasts or clit depending on how y’all are positioned. You should talk to her first but some women don’t mind if you’re a bit rougher and grab their head and “fuck their throat”. Again ask first lol because some absolutely hate it.

  4. Fair enough, but the domestic stuff is an important part of a long term relationship so listen to your instincts. Too many people are afraid of listening to their own inner voice trying to tell them there is a problem for fear of overreacting. You have identified a problem that is negatively impacting your relationship. That is called reasoned analysis, not overreacting. You already see him differently and that isn’t going to get better without a change in behavior. You need to tell him how you feel about the current state of things and give him a chance to get his act together. Don’t embrace anything that really bothers you this much because in this case, acceptance equals enabling. I’m just telling you this has red flags all over it.

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