Nah, if your partner cares what you do in private that doesn't actually impact them, regardless of what it is, that's a huge relationship red flag. People agree to things all the time in relationships to keep them going, that doesn't make them healthy. And there's no way you can convince me a partner objecting to normal porn usage is anything other than toxic jealousy.
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If 90% of the food in stores was covered in mold, would you start buying moldy food?
Nah, if your partner cares what you do in private that doesn't actually impact them, regardless of what it is, that's a huge relationship red flag. People agree to things all the time in relationships to keep them going, that doesn't make them healthy. And there's no way you can convince me a partner objecting to normal porn usage is anything other than toxic jealousy.
Yes. I used to work 70 hours when my wife and I first got together and we were having sex at least 10 times a week
I went through something similar after I got divorced and tearing to strangers online helped me out a lot because there was no pressure