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Model from: jp
Languages: ja
Birth Date: 2002-05-16
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityAsian
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBlack
Subculture: subcultureStudent
Date: June 24, 2022
Well when somebody says hardcore to me I think mostly think rough anal restrictive bondage and hard impact play. Don't do that regardless of what she says. It takes a fuck ton of rapport and experience you probably have no real sense of how strong you actually are compared to women, real damage can easily be done. Choking is the same grown man can easily damage a woman's wind pipe. For that having her choke herself with your hand over hers is way safer maybe just a little pressure from you. Most of the thrill quarter of the risk. Remember no pressure on the front of the neck only the sides. Slapping is pretty safe the bruises might be awkward though. It's really easy the more fat the less it'll hurt so thighs ass and tits are pretty durable. My recommendation stay away from the face the first couple times you play. Anyway safest things for new doms is sensory, orgasm, and soft bondage. But always leave her one way to signal she wants things to stop. If both her hands are tied nothing in the mouth if mouth is occupied leave one hand free etc. Your imagination is basically the limit some of the crowd favorites have included. Tying her up with headphones in and blindfold using warmed up massage oil then ice cubes on sensitive spots while in bed restraints. Edging with the wand then make her confess all her slutty fantasies if she wants to cum. Doing oral toys and fingering but refusing to allow her to cum unless your dick is inside don't even move just let a toy or finger do the work. Keep the wand in place with a piece of skin tape and enjoy the soundtrack as you watch the game, read a book, make lunch etc. For extra spice tell her to stop being such a needy slut and cum quietly or you'll take the wand away and send her home for distracting you. Inform her that she's only allowed to orgasm from you so if she masturbates she'll need to contact you for permission (Again all about boundaries everybody's different ask if they're ok being controlled outside the bedroom) Like most things in life it isn't difficult ask what she wants out of being topped, ask what is and isn't ok ask what's maybe ok. Establish what to do If she uses a safeword does she want close contact and cuddles or space? For dirty talk easiest and safest thing for being mean is degrading actions. Get her tired out and demand oral. Regardless of performance lock eyes look at her roughly the way you would look at a piece of dog shit on the ground. And in the most demeaning tone you can muster, like you're arguing with somebody that the sky is blue. “[Name] we both know you can suck cock better than that.” Make her ride cowgirl “[Name] fleshlights put more work in than this” It's relatively safe if she doesn't know what she wants because it isn't attacking her self-esteem or body. Sorry for the wall of text good luck have fun!
I do need more sex positive friends, both platonic and sexual. Similar story with the ex actually. She's my best friend now, but she's still got hang ups on sex in her personal life which is telling all things considered. I appreciate the insight. I actually had my first session with a sex therapist last week. She validated me, but I feel like both my ex and society at large are the ones gaslighting me. But your perspective helped me. Thank you.
Bruh. Call her asap.
You haven’t had sex, so there was no “pumping”. But are you sure it’s a good thing to have sex with another person so you can shut down your friends? I mean it’s your choice, but maybe you should try to focus on your priorities instead of others.
Are you alone and fucking yourself?
I'm so sorry you've had assholes in the past say bad things about your body. That is so much more a reflection on them than it is on you. Here's the thing, as much as we think our clothes hide our bodies, it's not really the case. You showing your naked body to your boyfriend isn't going to surprise him or catch him off guard. This is a good thing though! He's attracted to you and he has expressed he wants to have sex with you. Talk to him about it and if you want, take baby steps! There's no shame in doing it with the lights off the first few times, then doing dim lighting and working your way up to as bright of light as you want to go.