If she was in an open relationship she'd have told you. Who the hell tells someone they're married, but doesn't specify that it's ok, they're in an open relationship, or they're separated. I mean “I'm married.” frowns “we're not getting divorced…. So, you should get going before he gets here.” Yeah, no bad vibes there. The sex may be fun, but get caught up their drama.
It's only contagious if she was having an outbreak. And that can happen for some people only once every several years or never if on medication, and lots of time not even in pubic areas. You're probably fine. Even if you were exposed all it amounts to is a cold sore. Have you had a cold sore before? Partners being together for decades sometimes never give it to each other.
Smile. Let it grow from there.
If she was in an open relationship she'd have told you. Who the hell tells someone they're married, but doesn't specify that it's ok, they're in an open relationship, or they're separated. I mean “I'm married.” frowns “we're not getting divorced…. So, you should get going before he gets here.” Yeah, no bad vibes there. The sex may be fun, but get caught up their drama.
It's only contagious if she was having an outbreak. And that can happen for some people only once every several years or never if on medication, and lots of time not even in pubic areas. You're probably fine. Even if you were exposed all it amounts to is a cold sore. Have you had a cold sore before? Partners being together for decades sometimes never give it to each other.