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part of being in a relationship is communicating so communicate with him that you don't like to get called those things.
Most men won't care
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Hey, you are in the best possible situation to practice bringing up such a sensitive issue with a man, because you don't care that much about him! You are hesitating about telling him or cutting your losses. What the worst that can happens? You tell him, he reacts badly, then you cut your losses! But in the meantime you will have practiced telling your needs which is a very, very hard skill to develop. And much harder to do it with someone you care deeply about and would be afraid to lose! My advice in that situation would be to simply text him, because by text you can be more precise in what you want, not be destabilised by his reaction, but more importantly, he can recieve “the punch” and have time to recollect himself before reacting. Tell him something like: “Hey it was great to see you again and fool around with again, and I would do it again….however, I also noticed that you haven't been as attentitve to my needs as I want and that is something that throw me off. This and also the fact that I felt you shut down when I told you to use protection. It's importnat for me that I can trust you and protection is non negotiable. We can talk about this more if you want.” Then the ball is on his side, and worst case scenario he will react badly, try to make you feel bad by saying you suck and aren't worth it in the first place, that you will know it only comes out of poor insecure defense mechanism from himself, and move on from him to have better time with someone else. Best case scenario that start a discussion and you learn how to tell your needs, and maybe he even figure out how to meet them (but that's less important than leanring how to voice your needs and boundaries).
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