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I guess the easiest way is what you suggest. Let your friend handle it if you want as little people finding out. Too bad though!!
Have you been to a gynecologist? If yes and they didn't say anything was out of the ordinary then you need tons of Lube and need to be turned on. If you have anything you can take to chill out and take the edge off then take that. Just to calm your mind down from overthinking it. Lube, arousal, take it slow. Don't expect full penetration in the first experience. Work your way up to taking his full penis. Have him help you get turned on and insert toys/fingers. After you try for a little while finish him with a hand job or BJ. Don't blue ball him. Try again after you are not sore anymore. Use a Silicone based Lube if you aren't using toys. Silicone based Lube lasts longer but isn't compatible with most sex toys.
I actually dated someone with that for years. It was very difficult at first, especially for reasons I won't mention here, but a lot of patience and reassurance did wonders. A lot of it can be caused or exaggerated by performance anxiety, but being comfortable and trusting your partner can really ease things up and allow you to relax and enjoy it. It was a challenge for us but I personally love a good challenge. A therapist can help if nothing else works, but don't rule out that you can do this. ??
This is the right answer.
2 things to add to this discussion. He may have low Testosterone, something becoming more of an issue for younger men. Also, be aware that the normal range for labs on Testosterone is huge! If he's in the low range of normal, he still may have lost quite a bit recently. Also, if his penile girth isn't great, the friction Mr Cock is receiving may be low during intercourse. Maybe try anal, where you'd have some muscle control to squeeze him when he begins to lose his erection. Gay men have been driving their partners wild by flexing their anal muscles while getting pumped, especially during ejaculation.
Haha damn I’m sure you were shocked! Would have been fun to help clean up after though!