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  1. You deserve much better then this. Figure out your self worth and then move on from him. He doesn’t even want to reciprocate so why waste your time on someone who doesn’t value you.

  2. It's not like porn. Go slow and don't directly for her privates. work on her other areas (neck thighs, breasts etc.) slowly work towards the goal, key is slowly.

  3. “I really enjoy the sex we have, I like being able to play the role ias dominant but i’ve realized that I have a bit of a submissive side myself, and I would love the opportunity for us to switch roles on occasion.“

  4. Yeah that's what I meant, English's not my first language.Thanks for the answer brother,we got plan b tho.

  5. Do NOT let guys manipulate about condoms, ever ever ever. If it feels so bad with one on they can go without sex and you find another sex partner who is responsible and respectful to you both by wearing protection. No condom, no sex. Firm boundaries. Men love to try to negotiate when they want something but condoms are not a negotiation.

  6. Well then that can make it a bit more tougher of a situation if you are in a more reserved type relationship. But regardless. He is still your husband. He married you better or for worse. He should be understanding of your wants and desires in life. Otherwise why be married if you can't be yourself with your husband.

  7. Yes, and the risk disproportionately borne by women isn’t just pregnancy. STDs also have worse effects for women (CDC factsheet).

  8. “hey you sound like a fucking idiot, tell us your personal problems so I can be mean to you” Dude, shut the fuck up.

  9. I'm going to go against the dominant opinion here. I really hate sleeping in the same bed with people, even if we're romantically involved and banging. It takes me months to years to be comfortable being unconscious right next to someone all night, but that doesn't mean I don't like someone.

  10. If that’s the case then he is being a bit of an ass. He has to be mature and realistic and believe what you’re telling him.

  11. How is it a massive betrayal if he was doing this before you got together? Did he lie about it previously? I personally don’t see an issue with it as long as it isn’t affecting your relationship now. There is nothing wrong with supporting sex workers. People have a number of different reasons why they would want to, all of which can be valid.

  12. Stop with birth control. All it usually does is make the woman uninterested in a lot of cases. Use condoms. Its better than her not wanting it at all.

  13. Static weight isn't the same as moving weight. If you have a nice gentle romp you'll be golden. If you start slamming away you might see some problems. My futons always seemed a bit under-engineered – so I tried to go easy on them. Also, unless you have a video camera running, try to be mindful of where things hinge and fold. If the whole thing snaps shut on you like a Venus Flytrap, you'll want a vid. Probably best to avoid it altogether though.

  14. There are no shortage of people who didn't want to “throw a relationship away” with a partner they were just fundamentally incompatible with. There's a whole sub for it actually It's called r/DeadBedrooms Look, I'm not even suggesting he just breaks up with her now. I believe there is a chance for them to work through this, and I think it's wonderful to find someone you love genuinely. But love isn't the only factor in a relationship to make it work and it cannot be one sided. What bothers me is that from everything I've seen OP's gf only even considers this to be an issue in so far as that he might lose interest in him. I've heard of no actionable steps she's taken to address/discuss her own feelings or how she could up her libido if this is abnormal for her/not wat she wants. It's been a year and she is aware that he is unsatisfied but isn't telling him what's going on. he can't just throw darts at a wall hoping something hits, she needs to communicate as well. She needs to change as well. She needs to make an effort for him as well. You say if they want to fix their relationship they need to fix her life. That sounds like something lifelong committed married couples do, not 21 year old bfs/gfs who have known each other less than 2 years. Even then your partner in a healthy relationship is never responsible for fixing your life. A woman is not responsible for fixing her husband's life and a man is not responsible for fixing his wife's life. Your mental well being is your own responsibility. Yes it's important to support people you care about but you are not your partner's nurse, therapist, coach or what have you. They need to want to make that change for themselves, my issue is that she doesn't seem to be making any steps to make changes herself and OP is left dissatisfied. That isn't fair to him. Also you saying “enjoy his youth” in quotation marks makes me think you think I mean just having a lot of sex. I don't. I mean that helping another person struggling with depression and body image issues while trying to make a barely 2 year relationship, the bulk of which he has put his own wants and needs on hold to help her, work isn't something a 21 year old should be dealing with. Depression and body image issues is something to be addressed by professionals in therapy

  15. You might consider looking into Internal Family Systems therapy (there are even self-study books for it, Jay Earley wrote a good one). It’s helped me a lot with getting triggered into difficult emotions like this.

  16. Guy here, Facing the guys feet. I am an ass man so the view of her ass in my face, eating it and eating her pussy that way i love. Its all preference though

  17. I am baffled as to what advice you were looking for here other than “go to the doctor.” Is “honey I read a comment on Reddit from a complete stranger to pour Mountain Dew up your pussy and do 45 jumping jacks” really a better plan than going to a medical professional???

  18. Watch porn how is she going to know. Would she just rather you have built up sexual fustration and have a drink and cheat on her. Im a female and my husband watches porn in front of me i dont care. I watch it too. Is just part of being sexually healthy.

  19. “I love the way your cock feels inside me. It hits all the right spots and feels exquisite. I love it when you [describe a thing you like that he does with his cock].” Or however much of that is true. Basically you need to say more than “I don't mind.” You need to say that it feels good. If it doesn't, compliment him on how his tongue feels amazing and he's great at oral. Or whatever. Give him something he can hold onto and tell himself when he's feeling insecure.

  20. Its such a relief. You get that sinking suspicion that you might have to choose but nope, you win all the prizes 🙂

  21. I'm really big. Condoms are all nearly the same size. The ONLY difference I've ever noticed is Magnums have a larger ring around the base, which is far more comfortable. Otherwise I think they're the same.

  22. I mean, if he had constructive criticism then maybe. But he basically just insulted you and doubled down, which is bold for a man with ED. He should have acknowledged that he fucked up and apologized, then followed that up with a lot of reaffirming language. I don't give enough blow jobs (I have a small mouth and my jaw hurts pretty quick) to comment on that part, but he fucked up here. The only way to fix this is to basically say “you hurt me with what you said, are you ready to try and fix what you did?” If he doesn't answer “yes, how?”, then cut him loose.

  23. That’s true. I’ve literally never asked a man if he I could rely on him if I ever needed to get an abortion so this is pretty nerve wracking for me, I’m not used to having these types of conversations. But as I get older I’m really learning that these conversations are necessary to have so I want to be able to. I guess I’m nervous about finding out we have different views on this which would be a deal breaker ?

  24. Sounds like it may be a latex allergy, I switched to latex free with my husband when I developed that allergy and the symptoms disappeared. Trojan BareSkin Non-Latex have been great for us.

  25. I mean what's wrong with him masturbating? Everyone does, just because he is in a relationship (where there is a lack in sex) doesn't mean he can't masterbate. Did you NOT masterbate at all in this 2 and 1/2 years? If your lack of sex is caused by his masturbation, then yes he should stop so y'all can be normal again. But if it was there way before you catch him, then his masturbation is just a result from being sexually frustrated which totally normal y'all 20 years old ffs. I would say instead of focusing on him masturbating, how about try to Communicate the reason behind the sex drop off? See what is stopping him? Cause he obviously has the libido for it but there is something getting in his desire to be intimate with you.

  26. I don't think a threesome is a good example. A threesome means you invite another person into your bedroom, you allow to share your partner with someone else. While this is just a role-play fantasy between the two of you. Ofc you don't have to like it or do it.

  27. Idk about OP, but I find spitting a dreadfully complicated affair. It's hard not to swallow some if I'm already in the act of sucking. Plus holding warm liquid in my mouth would make me sputter. Doesn't mean the pearl necklace isn't an option.

  28. If you already ovulated, a plan b doesn't work. That said, if there was no precum or cum inside you, you can't be pregnant. Most likely your period is delayed because of stress. Get a pregnancy test to relax.

  29. hahhaha, who knows. Some people are into it and some people are not. It is like asking people what their favourite food is.

  30. He asked if I brushed my teeth this morning. I said “yes, why?” And then realized why he was asking… so I asked directly if it grossed him out I didn’t brush my teeth afterwards, and he said “a little, yeah”

  31. It says way more about him than it says about you. Please don't let this bad experience get in the way of trying to lead a good life. He sounds like a douche.

  32. Focus on the clit it's the most sensitive part. Use the middle of your tounge the tip suprisingly isn't all that great. Also the tounge isnt long enough to be useful enough in penetration. Also if U get hair in your mouth lick the side of her thigh to get it off and continue

  33. This is something I really needed to hear. While my first time wasn’t what I wanted it to be I can make the most of it with my current partner. Thank you!

  34. Going through something like that definitely was hard on both of us, and yes I get the hell patch. I’ve honestly wondered about the libido thing as well because he was 34 when we started dating.

  35. Role play, toys being more dom, cage, and other areas where you play a more dominant role in the relationship.

  36. Maybe not a locker situation but in an office environment if girls are talking about guys it’s usually without a filter otherwise they wouldn’t talk to begin with. In that sense, it can be something simple as a guy they hooked up with in the office “small dick, wasn’t worth it, couldn’t get it up properly either, hahaha” or dating deadbeats off Tinder “no money for the meal, but pulls out $50 for Keno!”

  37. I would like to weigh in here. I have never really been into anal until very recently. Someone I met was really into it and now so am I. It’s a very passionate experience and I love it. But it’s not for everyone. The reality of it is this …. You need to communicate with him and ask him point blank if it’s going to ruin your relationship ?

  38. Cool. If this were to happen, I am sure her best friend's overseas SO would think she deserves kindness and understanding /s

  39. Have you tried chair sex? That might work for her to be on top without having to bend her legs as much. Use lots of lube. Also is she is in therapy for her past traumas?

  40. If you are peeing blood, you need to see a doctor. A UTI left untreated can lead to serious kidney problems. Is there an urgent care clinic near you, or a virtual clinic of some kind? Don't leave this for two weeks.

  41. It’s more than a bit rude. It’s like telling a vagina owner that her pussy feels like throwing a hotdog down a hallway vs his previous vagina owner that was tighter than….

  42. It’s more than a bit rude. It’s like telling a vagina owner that her pussy feels like throwing a hotdog down a hallway vs his previous vagina owner that was tighter than….

  43. My wife and I started edging me to help me last longer which it helped tremendously. Edging is now one of our favorite sex activities.

  44. What the actual f***, I just checked this is still illegal everywhere. The only question you should be adding is whether you are going to press charges or expose this creep. Why the hell would you consider staying?

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  46. It's not for some guys, for a variety of reasons. Nature really does find a way for some folks – others will struggle with fertility even when trying to conceive. Until you know which category you're in & are in a life place where you can accept the 'consequences', why take the chances? It really gets in the way of some mens' pleasure, though, the thought of causing a pregnancy. And they're not wrong. I know plenty of men who prefer to finish via BJ or handjob for exactly this reason. I learned to agree with them after I had an unplanned pregnancy while on oral contraceptives at 21. 🙂

  47. You really have nothing to lose by telling him. Well hopefully OP is also enjoying the friendship and sex with him. So that's something she could lose… If it ever were that simple…

  48. I'm a little confused about how that relates to my above comment, but I suppose it doesn't matter really. It's great to talk and get a feel for what you both want first for sure, good for you in being able to assert you needs early, that will save a lot of wasted time. If I were single and on the casual scene I would certainly want to do the same, though I'm fine with vanilla sex if it's done enthusiastically.

  49. Do what feels good for you, make sure you’re comfortable with what’s happening because it’ll be better for you and better for him to watch. Maybe ask what he likes if you’re unsure? also ignore the person that said trim your pubes if that’s something you don’t like doing, you’re into each other and he’ll most likely be interested either way 🙂

  50. Well her ex knew she “wanted” me and apparently there wasnt anything he could do to stop her from “switching” on to me…

  51. Oh thank god. I was seriously outraged thinking you had my experiences ? Also. She doesn’t need to use a speculum either. They can use a camera if they need to. I definitely know they have used one on me before my LEEP operation. I also complained but the doctor thinking it was cool to use a gigantic metal speculum that hadn’t even been ran under warm water. I’m guessing she was trying to reassure you because she thought it was hurting because you were anxiously clenching. Which is more or less what vaginismus is. It doesn’t have to be so bad you can’t put anything in there. Often times it’s what you described. Although if you didn’t have issues having sex or going solo. I would imagine it isn’t necessarily vaginismus

  52. But thats the thing, I struggle when it comes to talking to women and I've always been a quiet guy. I need to earn a fuck ton of money if I want a woman interested and I also want my own family someday

  53. Co-parenting is usually lesbian couples just looking for a mans sperm. I want my kids to have a mother figure and I want to be a father but I dont want to be a husband, for women its just sex and I like how they can give me a family. Can I even pay a woman just to give me sex and give birth to my kids? Or do I have to do all that romantic shit with her, take her out on dates etc?

  54. It’s not my finest 10 minutes but when a BJ is going on too long I get into a 69 and kinda put my crotch right in face as I furiously suck him. He doesn’t last long. I don’t care if he does anything to me, it’s to arouse his eyes while I work on his cock. Not romantic, but yea.

  55. You’re not in the wrong. It would be different if you brought it up out of the blue, but he was the one who asked.

  56. I love doing it. My girl's actually tastes sweet. The other day when I was going down on her, I asked for her hand in marriage and stuck my nose in her pussy then tongue up her ass to receive a resounding “yes!” Anyway, I enjoy it

  57. I wouldn’t have done that to her just based on her body count. That doesn’t matter to me. I need little bit more context before just doing the math. Once I got the context and if I felt she had an inability to maintain a healthy relationship (for other reasons besides just body count), I would’ve been out. This isn’t to be done in a coffee shop either. And she sounds like she lost her cool, which may be why she maintain relationships (if this is indeed the truth). Better for both of you to move on.

  58. Brrrr. Red flag here. Sex IS messy – and sweat's the least of the 'problems' that might be envolved. I love it if she sweats. Therexs a difference between fresh sweat and haven't-showered-in-a-week-sweat… If he's complaining here, I don't to know what he do, when something realky messy happens.

  59. Weird, earlier you said YOU chose not to have surgery after doing research. Now you're saying your husband won't let you?

  60. Of course, I texted with some these morally chaste Ladies and they said no, don't do it, or how would you feel stuff. I'm like females are hornier then men. I don't believe under the same circumstances they would just be so strong

  61. Do you know a male who you both trust? If so, you could play the situation again but this time with another ending… The other male is the 'rapist' and you both order him around what he has to do – first as it happened – and then you change the story in a way that feels good for both of you… If you both agree that it is worth a try, try it, if not, don't do it.

  62. So basically he don’t turn you on. Might be time to move on, doesn’t sound like you guys are compatible

  63. Well, first off, he's a dude. So he's got that fact going against him. Add to that that his actions (not wanting to be sexual with OP) are causing OP (who, I'll remind you, is a woman) some distress. The results: She's unhappy. Therefore, he's wrong. It's the most common thing you'll find here on Reddit.

  64. A little bit but I get over stimulated really quickly. Kissing is fine as long as its not a long kiss, I don't like inhaling hot, exhaled air. I dunno if that's a normal thing or a autisic thing lol but the texture of a tongue freaks me out too.

  65. We had sex last Friday, Saturday, and Monday (so last time was 5 days ago). My drive is higher than his

  66. Lots of comments are focusing on the wrong thing. Why haven't you put your foot down; if he doesn't want to use a condom, why have sex with him then? Why stay? Why keep talking to this person? You don't have to have sex with this person so look elsewhere. It's your responsibility to decide who gets to have sex with you, no one else's.

  67. I am a women and I agree with the guys here. Clear communication. Listen to what they are saying. Having their insight is so helpful. Knowing their perspective should help us as women to communicate better. I for one say thanks for this! Cheers!

  68. Yeah, I get that you don't think that but a lot of dudes clearly do. So the question is, if you're with a guy, would you rather just tell him what you mean or would you rather resent him for misunderstanding you in a common way that you could have anticipated?

  69. Hard sucking on just the tip, ball sucking, hands grabbing the back of my legs or reaching up on my stomach. 2 hands pumping it. I don't like overly dramatic gurgling lol or any ass poking

  70. Meh I've never gotten a UTI from it. And since our urethras are already exposed to the water (granted through swimsuits or whatever), sex doesn't inherently change that risk unless your cum gets into it afterwards.

  71. I don’t care about them having sex but any real up drama could be problematic. If it’s just a casual friend have at it, if it’s a really good friend I would have a talk with them to pleas keep me out of any conflict. But I guess I would have to live with the Fakt that in the worst case scenario I could loose a friend.

  72. It’s not weird. I’m sure it will limit your options some as there are probably women who like giving head more too, but it will probably open your options up too. Each to their own.

  73. Haha WHO’S COUNTING AND WHY?!?! Also, Reddit is the first place I’ve heard of women not being able the have multiple orgasms. I just didn’t know that was a thing! ¯_(ツ)_/¯

  74. Your gf's position is unreasonable and against the evidence. Your position is much more reasonable. Many people in healthy, happy, sexually-fulfilled relationships continue to masturbate for various perfectly good and normal reasons. Frequent masturbation can reduce libido for sex with a partner, but only you are in a position to know if that's what is happening. If you say it isn't and you're being honest with yourself about it, then it isn't. Your should Use Your Words and try to talk it through with her.

  75. In some countries the condoms seem differently sized. I thought a regular sized one for my average johnson would do the trick. When the time came, I slipped it on and realized it was a lot more snug than usual, to the point it was almost burning. Not wanting to ruin the moment, I powered through it. Right when I finished, after she had been going wild on top, I realized suddenly the burning sensation was gone. Then we realized the damned thing had basically torn itself to shreds. She duck waddled to the bathroom leaving a snail trail of condom shreds and juices. Spent the rest of the night looking for an open pharmacy to score some Plan B.

  76. “It's entirely possible to disconnect from modern society and live in a way where that doesn't inhibit an individual's successes in life. If a person with intractable agoraphobia was born to, say, an Amish community where everyone was educated on tending their own crops, and given the resources and space to do so, the agoraphobia would be no handicap whatsoever. On a more practical level, if you live in the middle of the countryside, perform some labor remotely, and get all your groceries delivered from Amazon, then you have no handicap. But most people don't live in those circumstances, and society at large really isn't built to accommodate those whose who do, though in the future it might be.” You are directly equating human value to their “value” in capitalism. Which once again… you’re saying those without the ability to do physical work hold zero importance in a capitalist society. Generalizations hurt people period. Nor is there space for ableism in my world.

  77. I hope you find someone you can trust to share these fantasies with, reddit, a therapist, etc. I'm sorry that you don't feel like you can share this part of yourself with your wife!

  78. Yes. It's not because we finish we have “good” sex. My first time was like that: my girlfriend was as enthusiastic as a bag of potatoes and even though I came (pretty quickly too) it was by far the worst sex I ever had, up to the day of today. But even with my wife there are times when the sex is better or worse. Lucky, it's an exception of really bad sex but it happens. So it's not only linked to one person to the other. I rarely communicated with anyone about the bad sex. Maybe that's the difference? You hear a lot of female stories, but I rarely heard another man complain about the sex. I only did this with a very good friend.

  79. I’m blown away reading these comments! Had no idea that men were as peculiar with sex too (no offense ?).. but I’m not seeing many explain why. So, what is it that makes it bad?

  80. If you haven't had sex you are a virgin, whether the hymen is broken or not. The hymen can be broken by riding a horse or a bike, or in various kinds of accidents, the hymen is a technicality, and just because it's broken doesn't mean you've had sex

  81. I mean he’s getting head daily not a lot of guys do or they have to ask for it which takes the appeal out of it lol

  82. I'm afraid that if I bring it up she will ask me why she isnt good enough or why I am not satisfied with her, to which I have no good answer. You say no “good answer” which sounds like you do have an answer. And maybe that answer needs to be examined. When people in a relationship are not on the same page sexually, then they need to find some middle ground that works for both of them. Doesn't seem like that exists here…

  83. You don't plan on marrying him, do you? Leave his ass. Tell me, what about his actions tell you he cares? Is he helping take care of you? No. He's bitching about not being able to use “one of your 3 holes”. God damn, I thought my exs were bad.

  84. Have you talked to him about it? Explain that you feel like your sex life is getting stale and you want to try new things

  85. I fully get why she might cry, Im going to talk to her about it and she what she expects from it. Thank you! Helped

  86. Check out CalcSD, it gives you condom recommendations based on your size. There are also custom sized condoms you can buy Longer length isn't the problem, you don't have to unroll all the way. MyOne custom condoms avoid that problem altogether.

  87. There really should be a law allowing no fault divorce if you marry a woman who blows you before the wedding and stops immediately afterwards. Didn’t happen to me but there’s a story on here every day from a guy whose wife gives up once she gets the commitment.

  88. Sounds like you didn’t read my post. I clearly mention a sex-free first date and buffer between meeting again for sex. Ain’t no one getting shit the first night.

  89. Like any gift there shouldn't be an expectation of getting one and it should be given willingly and with joy.

  90. okay 1 there is no attitude. i'm down to do it for her. just sucks that it took all that for nothing to change. and 2, she's definitely into women.

  91. “Yes, although it's not very likely. If you have sex without using contraception, you can conceive (get pregnant) at any time during your menstrual cycle, even during or just after your period. You can also get pregnant if you have never had a period before, during your first period, or after the first time you have sex. There's no “safe” time of the month when you can have sex without contraception and not risk becoming pregnant. But there are times in your menstrual cycle when you're at your most fertile, and this is when you're most likely to conceive.” – from the NHS website. One of the main differences between the menstrual cycle and eostrus (the cycle which occurs in most mammals) is that conception CAN occur anytime, whereas in dogs for example, it's physiologically only possible in the 48 hours of estrus.

  92. Then it sounds like you can skip straight to paragraph three in my comment. What you do now depends entirely on what you're willing to put up with, or, more accurately, give up. Life's too short to end up with regrets, or missing out on something you deserve because you don't want to move on. That said, only you really know the situation.

  93. I wonder if perhaps some of them are worried that, having just left an abusive relationship, you may not be in the right place emotionally for casual lighthearted fun? Just total speculation, I have no idea if anyone thinks this way. You could try just telling them that you just got out of a relationship and are only looking for something light and casual right now… and not use the word “abusive” until you know them a bit better. But I have no idea if that would help. It could be just the fact that the world is shit and everyone ghosts everyone and nothing matters because we're all going to burn in a climate apocalypse soon anyway.

  94. It's just bad luck. You matched with some crummy assholes, ghosting is a shitty thing to do. Try to use this experience to better filter out the shitty ones. Don't pretend to look for anything you are not, that is also a shitty thing to do. Maybe re-evaluate the way you are trying to meet with this guys. I assume you are on the dating apps? Perhaps switch to one that caters more to people looking for hook-ups, like Feeld (popular in the ENM space).

  95. Yes. Penis can even hurt after sex for prolonged amounts of time even with plenty of lubrication.

  96. Wow no that's definitely a mood killer. I'm happy as long as they've showered earlier in the day and didn't sweat in the day. Besides you probably want to shower after sex too so that might be 3 showers in a day. That's ridiculous!

  97. Interesting. While I don't actively engage in discussion sex life details with my friends (I'm a guy), I was well under the impression that if anyone was going to insist on showering prior to sex, it would be a woman. Yea, I don't want to encounter any, uh… Debris or 6 hours of ass sweat, but so long as she showered that day, im usually too focused on getting down to care

  98. I definitely don’t think it bothered him! He said I have done it before too I just didn’t realize I do it until last night It will never bother him lol. My wife does this when she cums really hard and I get immense enjoyment in pushing it back in and stretching her out while she clinches more. He will take it with a badge of honor and I'll guarantee that he jerks off thinking about it today if you guys don't fuck again. He still might jerk off to it when he's alone haha

  99. Even if that is true about him being a sub too, I’ve done every thing he’s asked me to do even tho I’ve felt uncomfortable with everything so why is it so hard for him to do my stuff?

  100. Was just reading about this. People report that stimulating the g-spot and clit simultaneously works a lot of the time. I’ve witnessed this personally as well. Practice practice practice

  101. I didn’t know how to actively participate until my ex broke it to me. He did it in a not so nice way. He was frustrated that I would just lay there while he was thrusting. I truly didn’t realize I was supposed to work with him during sex. I thought the man just did all the work and it was fine to just basically be present. That was a few years ago and sex is totally different for me now. I’m an eager, active participant and work with my partner like a well oiled machine. Lol. So maybe she just doesn’t realize.

  102. Oh my gosh I’m so right there with you. Honestly I feel like this is the norm with LOTS of everyday women.

  103. I waited the exact recommended number of days to wait. It hurt a lot each pulse of the execution process. 2 days after it was mild. Every time after it was the same as before. Your experience may vary. Glad it went back to normal cause that 2nd time took forever to get off due to fear of pain.

  104. it sounds like you were very clear that you were hesitant about it and only okay with being filmed for a few seconds. you told him clearly to stop and he didn't, and then he continued to record audio without your consent and did not check in about it until after you had sex, at which point he “apologized” by admitting that he was just not thinking about your feelings even after all of this, and then he forced you to comfort him because he felt /so bad/ about it. I don't think he's a horrible person necessarily, but he definitely violated your sexual boundaries multiple times and then manipulated you instead of actually apologizing, and that would be a pretty big problem for me.

  105. He really sounds like he doesn’t care about you and how you feel. I am inexperienced but a big dick is something that scares and excites me. I feel like it is just logical that there is a limit to how much sec you can have in a certain time without something going wrong. Abs you seem to be cool with him dealing with his horniness on his own. So it’s a hin problem

  106. This is completely normal for a man in his mid-40’s. I know you don’t want to admit it, but the age difference is not in your favor here.

  107. I'm scared. The problem I see is I think I'd have to call up 4 or 5 of her friends to get her out of it. How is it even possible to wear something like that comfortably during sex?

  108. This sounds so right to me. He abused his ex. The ex then doesn’t want to have sex with him because she is being gaslit and emotionally manipulated. He then gets angry and calls her abusive for ‘withholding sex’ (which makes it sound like he thinks he has a RIGHT to it anyway). They break up. OP’s bf is repeating the same pattern again…. She needs to take a look at the relationship from the outside and realise that this kind of behaviour is so telling of abuse !!!!!!!

  109. Honestly, I don’t mind drugs either! I don’t partake but I just don’t like the risk with taking these types and how moody he is the next day. He’ll occasionally do acid, shrooms, weed and I have no problem with that

  110. Idk why I got downvoted lol. Other people may want to engage in sex but get shriveled mdma willies, and it's a good fix for that. Ah well, morons of reddit as usual.

  111. I was down on my wife one time and she stopped me. I asked why and she said she was close but afraid of farting in my face lol. I’d take a face fart anytime if that means she came

  112. You do you, how ever your local law enforcement may find you some day. In the US they like to throw on Human Trafficking charges on top.

  113. That's the thing, I'm not trying to go down on him less, just make it better for him on the rare-ish occasion we do have actual sex, it has nothing to do with my sexual fulfillment at all! I can't orgasm from penetration so I don't expect to get anything out of our sex life physically, but mentally/emotionally I do get a ton of fulfillment from his enjoyment regardless of how he gets it. It's just like…I don't know what I'm doing right with my mouth so I have zero frame of reference for figuring out what I'm doing wrong with my vagina, I guess. He is adamant that we do have sex sometimes and insists that sex feels better than a blow job. But his words don't match up with how bored he seems during sex vs. how roiling with ecstasy he is with blow jobs, so I'm just confused. Just wondering how I can make sex more enjoyable for him.

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  115. I never claimed he was pressuring her. it's that he's dismissing her feelings about something she's clearly upset about instead of asking why she's upset in the first place. lots of misunderstanding, I think.

  116. 1.2 hours for sex? That's okay every once in a while. 30 to 45 minutes is about what it should take. I'm assuming most of that time is spent turning her on? I get it women need the oven warmed up and it can take a while. It used to take my wife and i at just 45 minutes to have sex from foreplay to climax. I would have to spend 25 minutes of that time getting her in the mood. I don't mind taking my time and lasting more than an hour, but i don't want it to be that way every time. But now after making a certain discovery, we only take 15 minutes tops. AND she usually has 2 to 3 orgasms in that time. So I'll let you in on the little secret that saved my marriage. I made the discovery of a special sex toy that absolutely rocks the mood for us both. It's a sex toy called the Hitachi Magic Wand. It's a VERY powerful vibrator that we use combined with penetration, and it's been a Godsend. It's the plug in the wall version. So i can now literally get the vibrator ready, wife lays on her back, pillow under her hips. I set between her legs, on my knees, and thrust while holding the Hitachi to her clit. She can go from absolute zero to 1st orgasm in less than a minute this way. I'll just lube up, insert PP and thrust while the wand vibrates her clit, AND IT WORKS LIKE THIS EVERY TIME. The best thing for a true quicky. It takes her a maximum of 3 minutes of this to orgasm. The second orgasm usually comes at about minute 5 or 6. The third in another 3 or 4 minutes. This has made sex into something so easy instead of having to spend so much time in foreplay. With it being so much easier, she is willing to do it more often because she's usually too tired for sex. Previously she would want to avoid sex because she didn't have the energy for it. She also has a low sex drive so it would take lots of work to get her in the mood. Now with this being so easy, she is willing to do it much more often. We used to average once a month beforehand. That's way too long for me. I'm an everyday kind of guy. Everyday…. I have been since i was 14. So waiting a month would drive me crazy. Now we average once a week and i can tolerate that. My marriage almost broke because of this, but the wand literally saved it. The only time we usually get a chance to have sex is right before bed after our child goes to sleep. Usually by then we're too tired to put in the effort for regular old school sex. I can go anytime, but she takes work to get into the mood. With the wand, we go from coldzero to 3 orgasms for her and 1 for me in a grand total of 10 to 15 minutes. Then cuddle and fall asleep. Sometimes she only wants one orgasm and we can be done in 5 minutes. Her in 1 minute, and me in 5 minutes because i like to take time to enjoy it. Hope this helps somebody.

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  119. tell him exactly what you are telling us here. He will ahve to make the changes, if he does not agree show him the door.

  120. We have better sex now 3 years after having a child than we ever did before. We became much closer and more open with each other cause some of those days and nights as parents were hell and we supported each other through it, dividing the work as well as we could. We did stop at one because we don’t want to mess up this incredible sweet spot in our marriage. I see a lot of parents with multiple children struggle.

  121. He probably just never had a reason to really focus on bringing the skin back and cleaning it really well if he is a virgin. Those are things that you just learn as you become more experienced. Yes, men can have stinky penis just like women can have a stinky vagina. It is normal for there to be some type of odor. It is a warm and moist area of the body. Just like armpits, feet, butt cheeks, even the scalp, all have distinctive smells when they have not been recently or thoroughly cleaned. But it isn't fair to expect that it will smell like fresh soap or clean cotton every time you fool around unless you are fresh from the shower. However, he could also potentially have a yeast infection or UTI. If it continues even after regular cleaning and underwear changes, you may want to encourage him to go to the doctor for a check-up. At the very least, they could give him some hygiene tips.

  122. Runny egg yolk ?? to me male, it sounds like he's got urine infection or something it does happen not as common as thrush but still happens.. egg yolk ???

  123. Perhaps you were just lusting over the previous exes. Maybe it's a change in testosterone levels as you have gotten older.

  124. I would say sexual compatibility is an important part of a relationship. If it's not important for one partner then that's fine but it also has to be either unimportant for the other one or they need to compromise in some way. Otherwise issues will almost certainly develop.

  125. All girls can pee. Some girls might pee involuntarily at orgasm, particularly if that is encouraged or seems expected. Did she squirt or did she pee? How could you ever know? Some girls might squirt some pee at orgasm, on purpose, and pretend it was involuntary, to please their partners. How would you ever know? Porn stars drink a lot of water when they know a squirting scene is coming up. Coincidence? Maybe, maybe not. How would you ever know?

  126. The spouse has little time to train in the minuscule spare time lol. Depends on the ass, as well as the dick. In many cases, yeah, it's required. Like 10 minutes a day with training toys and enough lube (or coconut oil in a pinch) in the shower will get you to the size of most dicks in anything from a few days to 6 weeks, probably less.

  127. my man's taking the “eating” part of eating pussy wayyyyy too literally also the little smiley face after you said he bit you made me crack up. Seriously though, go talk to him! Have fun with it. It really sounds like he WANTS to please you, which is more than I can say for a lot of guys! There's definitely still hope as long as you both can talk about it and are willing to keep at it until he gets it right (and he will get it, promise.) good luck for next time!!

  128. Does she enjoy sex or is it just a chore for her because you don't want to spent time making her come before PIV? Because in the comments you talk about not knowing if she comes or not during PIV. Most women can't come from PIV and best clitoral stimulation to have orgasms and it's great to warm her up that way and make her come before you do.

  129. Glad to help! If this a common occurrence, I would suggest seeing a cardiologist for an ECG or a tilt table test just to rule out an underlying condition that may be affecting your blood pressure or heart rate regulation such as POTS, but if it’s something that only happens once every several months or so, and tends to follow along either with an event that would spike your heart rate or blood pressure (pain, orgasm, pooping, etc) or happens when you haven’t eaten enough or are dehydrated, then it shouldn’t be anything to worry about. As someone else mentioned, keeping electrolyte heavy drinks around are a good and quick solution as well!

  130. Maybe I’m mistaken the word fever (not native speaker). I thought she definitely had a fever (not only feeling like it). Also there was no time reference for how long it lasted. Thus I would not just jump to a diagnosis like you…

  131. I mean you do you but personally I won't compromise my own values for the sake of sex. Sex is way better when there is connection behind it.

  132. I love the tea and biscuits aftercare idea. Though shakey/twitchy hands and hot tea might be a bad combination – maybe a flask?

  133. Dude same. Especially when you have kids…. I can’t have 45 min sex sessions lol at night I’m too worn out but I can totally sneak away for 5-10 mins without someone coming to look for me. It’s funny to see everyone’s preferences and how vastly different everyone is.

  134. Your kinks are completely fine, and pretty common. Your friends are being immature dicks likely due to cultural conditioning (anything outside good puritan vanilla sex is “gross”). They may grow out of it eventually. You don't have to out up with their comments in the meantime.

  135. I know every time my gf slaps my dick on her tongue that's usually my q to unload on or around there

  136. The mistake that so many women make when exploring how to become dominant is that they think they need to make drastic, massive changes in their attitude and actions. Thankfully this isn’t the case at all. In fact, if you suddenly change your attitude, you may even freak your man out, which is obviously not the goal at all. So what kinds of steps can you take to slowly become more dominant? Try initiating: Kiss your man when he’s not expecting it. Run your hand up and down his thigh to let him know what you’re thinking about. Take him by the hand and lead him somewhere private, then start unbuckling his belt. Push him down onto your bed. Try some ‘women on top’ sex positions. Gently bite his lip. Start with the easier things and you’ll quickly notice how easy & fun it is! You could pin his arms and tie him to the bed. You could handcuff his hands behind his back and then ‘have your way with him’ by giving him a blow job. You could ask him to go down on you and then use your hands on his head to guide it to exactly where you want him to focus on. Keep On Going Once you are comfortable with that, then it’s time to take things a step further. Some people find that, when learning how to be dominant, the best way to ramp things up is with what you say. This can make it easier for you to get into that right head space. Start with giving him simple orders or commands: Can you do me a favor and rub my feet? Get me a glass of wine, would you? Go and warm the bed for me. Once he is happily complying with these commands, then you can get a little kinkier, especially when you are actually getting sexual with your man. Here are a few example commands to give him. You’re going to taste me (then physically push his head down so that he starts eating you out). You don’t get to cum until I say so, ok? You’re not allowed to orgasm until I cum at least twice.

  137. Boundaries as far as your safety and pain tolerance and yes it could potentially push him away but there has to be a talk about how far your comfortable going with this sort of thing, to what point does he get turned on doing specific acts to you and can you accept and tolerate them, if your going to continue in the relationship just know its probably not going away so you have to find some common ground.

  138. Sorry you feel this way. Let me be clear about something, and I hope you can see the difference. “Seeing me in pain is the biggest turn on for him” = Sadistic “Seeing me in ecstasy from the pain he inflicts turns him on” = BDSM 2 can lead to some amazing discoveries in the bedroom. 1 can lead to some horrific outcomes that you can't usually foresee until it's too late.

  139. What if you fucked him instead of giving him BJs? If you're on top its not like he can say he's too tired, and being in total control of the penetrative sex, you may find it easier to orgasm. I know I do.

  140. I disagree. Years from now when you realize things have gotten out of control because you put his sexual satisfaction over your own health an safetyas well as your kid's, you'll think back to this thread and realize what was actually happening here.

  141. ugh if y'all keep calling beating woman a kink i'll actually die. I fucking hate BDSM, if it's wrong outside of the bed, it's wrong during sex too. Stop watching porn. Do better.

  142. As a female I can tell you that it’s okay and nothings gonna happen. It’s nothing to be worried about even if you are larger.

  143. Gahhh I know that other person is hurting but how dare they blame you, even IF you had known he was married dude was part of the deed (not saying I don't believe you, I just dont get these people who blame the other party not their own significant other). Sorry you have to deal with irrational people after just getting out of your own marriage.

  144. (26/M) I successfully used an anal toy for the second time last night! I recently bought a vibrating anal plug that I felt was not very intimidating for a beginner (climaximum pharos) and used it a week ago. I was super proud of myself for being able to fully insert it and wanted to be sure it wasn’t a fluke. I enjoyed it even more the second time since I also used a vibrating cock ring which gave me a completely different kind of orgasm I’ve never experienced. Needless to say I’m hooked 🙂

  145. Second this. People underestimate how damaging it could be if intimate photos / footage are shared. Could torch careers, social lives &/or any future opportunities.

  146. But yea people were saying that you should ask her boundaries and i def think this is a good idea. Like she may not be okay with you texting with him because it can feel like yall are doing it behind her back/cheating. That can be wonderful fwb type of situation but only when she feels respected.

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  148. You understand fetishes have nothing to do with seeing you as a person or not right? That's just how some people decided to use it on the internet. The reason i put it in quotations is because the term is used entirely incorrectly. It has nothing at all to do with material things/possessions.

  149. I think everyone is missing the point and honestly I’m disappointed in the responses. This isn’t a relationship, it’s a hookup. And honestly, the fact that this woman is okay with allowing someone she barely knows into her house with her baby there is a concerning to me. She doesn’t have anyone to watch her baby for the night? A mother, sister, aunt, brother, etc? Yes, I have kids. Yes, I have a husband. No, I wouldn’t allow my small children around or near someone who hasn’t been vetted, especially if it’s someone I’m allowing into my house overnight. OP: trust your gut. If you don’t feel comfortable with her BABY at home perhaps you can suggest that she find a sitter or someone who can watch the baby for the night. I know I wouldn’t want to date a man who would be okay with allowing random women into his house with his child around. I would question his judgement. And I am seriously questioning this woman’s judgement.

  150. When I cum initially I release a big load but there is always some left in the pipes so I need the girl to suck and squeeze to get the rest out, I love it

  151. Being outspoken and proactive is always hot. However, “taking control” in the sub/dom sense is not hot to me. I think there are both men and women who enjoy it when their partner is dominant towards them, but there are also many of us who don't like it at all. I don't really want to be dominant over my partner either. I can do that if that's what they want, but my general preference is for neither person to be dominant over the other. Being on equal footing feels most comfortable and genuine to me. Being dominant is something I can do if requested, but being submissive is not something I can do.

  152. unfortunately, no I still don’t orgasm when masturbating. I don’t think breaking up is an option here lol but will definitely try to use toys when we can.

  153. I mean, maybe because you're extremely compatible with that person as a life partner/in other ways and want the relationship to work? If I met the love of my life and we weren't 100% sexually compatible personally I would definitely deal with it and try to make compromises rather than break it off just b/c there are other people out there who I may be more sexually compatible with. That's just me though. Also, why are you assuming that any attempts to train them will fail?

  154. As with all things, let him know that teasing is specific. Some women enjoy when a partner who is good at getting them off consistently teases them. But this isn't all women. And doing so without warning can be like pranking. Where you really don't want the person doing the prank to be the one who decides when the prank stops. If you were giving him head and suddenly stopped, that wouldn't be fun. But some guys enjoy that tease and denial from a partner who is doing it for both of them.

  155. As with all things, let him know that teasing is specific. Some women enjoy when a partner who is good at getting them off consistently teases them. But this isn't all women. And doing so without warning can be like pranking. Where you really don't want the person doing the prank to be the one who decides when the prank stops. If you were giving him head and suddenly stopped, that wouldn't be fun. But some guys enjoy that tease and denial from a partner who is doing it for both of them.

  156. I love to taste my wife after she’s worked out, after a long day, and even just in the morning before she showers. The taste and smell is just so good. I won’t complain about getting some after a shower but it’s just that much better the other way.

  157. Thanks for your reply. Yeah the thing about her career is what i mentioned as well. But she seems to be serious about it. Guess she got banned because it was a new account.

  158. There are sex workers who are caring and therapeutic for people with difficulties that may help you to explore in a safe way

  159. I just made this comment on another post when someone asked if they know anyone who likes smelling underwear. I said my husband loves smelling my thongs when he masturbates and I will also hold one up to his nose while we are having sex so he can smell it at the same time.

  160. Uhh… If she is ok with kissing a girl on purpose, and you are saying she is still perfectly straight, then I don't know what else can I say Would you do the same for her? Kiss a guy, so that she can feel pleasure from that? (Lets pretend she would be turned on from seeing that)

  161. Sometimes I feel like my foreskin's width is shorter than my dick thickness, so it feels it isn't fitting in it. ( The reason for that i think is when i was 16 i had a bad habit of bed wetting because of that i hesitate to much while sleeping relatives house, so i put a rubber band on top of my foreskin so i don't wet my bed ( it really works ) , but now it leads me to a another problem)

  162. The book by Abby Norman, Ask me about my uterus: a quest to make doctors believe in women's pain. Endometriosis is very common. Whatever your ailment might be, in the U.S. there's an “epidemic” of doctors not diagnosing endometriosis or blowing off its symptoms. Be ready to seek second opinions. The disease occurs around the vagina in about 3/8 of patients.

  163. Have you read the same comment as I have? „Don’t ask. Just touch him […]“ thats not pushing or discussing thats just breaking those boundaries

  164. There is nothing wrong with using protection to avoid unwanted pregnancy. You are being a responsible adult.

  165. People you get naked for and have sex with should get to comment on your body and your performance. Your long blonde hair is lovely. Your short dark hair is lovely. You have big nipples. You have tiny nipples. None of the men I've had lasted 25 minutes.

  166. he was 18 and i was 19 when we met my birthday is only a few weeks before him i just turned 21 and hell be 20 next week. but yes he’s finished with me before and when i talk to him about it he says he finishes in like 2 minutes when he’s masturbating and doesn’t know why it takes so long or rarely ever happens with me. it’s been 2 years so i really can’t imagine that he’s still nervous and he’s always telling me how sexy i am and always begging me to go to his place every other day so i don’t know why he would do this if he wasn’t attracted to me.

  167. Jeez double standards are bs. Most of the time its the male that wants to push sex on the woman. If I was being intimate with a man that wanted to wait a bit longer I would be touched that this person wanted to get to know me more on an emotional, intellectual level. That would make me want him more and respect his decision. For the most part I think most women would side with my opinion. I wouldnt feel discouraged but glad that this person showed that shes bossy and trying to force things on you already so soon into getting to know a person. Keep on keeping on, just be glad that you protected yourself dignity, this is a win believe me :))

  168. This is odd. Without being sure what's up, first get used to fingering yourself with one, then two, then 3. Do this repeatedly, day after day. Lubricate using spit or bottled lube. If you wish, use your bf's fingers instead. Check for spot bleeding, it may not be tears, you may have hemorrhoids. I think it's already time to see a doctor about the tears! For sure, if you still have what seem to be tears after the above regimen, see a doctor. Maybe look for a doctor who caters mostly to gay men.

  169. I totally agree. I just mean it helped her out the first few times we made love. It helped her to not be intimidated and she just relaxed. And now she’s use to it.

  170. No way! That's awesome!! I mean, if you're not having fun than what are you doing? I bought my fiance a couple of toys and she loves them

  171. Both things are totally normal. Clits actually shrink when they aren’t stimulated enough. Might wanna tell him to try harder because even a small clitoris isn’t hard to find

  172. Don't feel bad about it. The fact that you trust him enough to be your source of pleasure (as opposed to running away for someone else) is attractive enough

  173. I'm sorry you went thought that. His actions after seeing that didn't keep your best interest at heart. Your body did something you both didn't expect and he handled it immaturely.

  174. Enjoy the attention. As long as your comfortable with him doing it. I my self being more ass oriented, can confirm this is what guys do.

  175. Yeah he probably can. But why should it matter? If he was with other women but has a problem with you being with another man, and takes it out on you by picking fights etc instead of COMMUNICATING, maybe this relationship is something you should reconsider. Or, re-reconsider. You have done nothing wrong and you have nothing to feel bad about.

  176. I’m not gaslighting anyone. But you are still trying to. HSV is nothing to worry about. I work in dermatology i literally see it in people’s files everyday. So what if it’s a dealbreaker for some? Being an asshole or open mouth chewer is a deal breaker for some. Your point? And there you go gas lighting again. You’re the emotional one. You really are having a comprehension problem. Feel free to go back and reread the conversation. I agree that it’s a positive they lose the dirt bag. I was disagreeing with your sentence about “trying to make it sound unreasonable better than it is”. HSV is a big nothing for most people. Hence why the cdc doesn’t test for it. The stigma is the worse part for people as MOST are asymptomatic. It’s not trying to make it sound better, it’s calling a spade a spade. But if someone is choosing to only go by the big “scary” pictures they saw in high school and try to claim that HSV is so horrific & are continuing big pharma stigma when those scary pictures only affect a minority of HSV patients, then they’re just ignorant and obviously know little to nothing about HSV. There are worse things to get. So no, it’s not trying to make HSV sound “unreasonable better”.

  177. He did yell at her so it's probably not fixable. I'm just curious what she was planning on doing if he did have a serious problem. 3 years is a very long time to never discuss being tested

  178. I mean I’m not going to leave over not getting head if she was cheating or abused me or vice versus. I mean we split bills and live together

  179. That’s the one week that we usually have sex twice in the same week…….?……so I guess you could say it increases her sex drive some

  180. Eat his cum: when you are blowjobing him and he is about to cum tell him how much you want to taste his cum in your mouth … And when he cum swallow it all and after say how delicious it was.

  181. I would of litrally said no, I didn't do this on purpose, let's go either now or tomorrow and I will buy you plan b and we can go get tested together if you like for stds. I'm just as scared as you that this has happened it was not my intention at all.

  182. We’ve only done it that way for four years. He has ADHD and I think the risk is what keeps his head in the sex, otherwise he gets anxiety. I’m banking on that we only do it once a week or less and hoping I can convince him I’m just into something new… Other things don’t really do it for him.. he’s also not the easiest to talk to. Most things end up in a blow up or him telling me just to leave… I’m a SAHM with a full college load and no job or childcare at the moment, I live with him. I would be homeless with not a dime to my name if something happened.

  183. If you are skinny and kinda feminine, that sounds way attractive to me. Look at rock stars of the past and present. What are they? Skinny and feminine. I would develop a cool look, get a great haircut, develop your wardrobe, copy what actors and musicians wear if you need a guideline. I promise you, thin and with a feminine vibe is much more attractive to women than some big hulk of a guy with a belly and tree trunk legs.

  184. I agree w another comment to completely cut your ex out of your life, especially since he was toxic. I’m in the same boat as you – ended a relationship, moved back home, in school and working. I spent a few months alone, but missed having a sexual relationship with someone. Luckily, I found a super cool fwb that has been great for me! Maybe try that? Personally I aim for fwb over hookups bc I feel mentally better afterwards. But do what’s best for you! What you’re feeling is normal.

  185. Just go to a and e. They see this stuff all the time…. I had the same thing happen to me… And got the Mrs to ring ahead to save. Me the embarrassment of the big explanation. They were pretty good about it and didn't laugh in front 9f me at least lol… Just treat it as a funny experience to go on the life's. Resume

  186. Saving money. There's a cost of living/energy crisis in the UK at the moment, so him moving in made financial sense as it means the bills now get spread across 3 people instead of 2, giving us all more money to save.

  187. Its natural and to have a feeling of guilt for it is tough. Go with the flow and enjoy your life, you have already had a hard enough time. Time to enjoy some small pleasures while still being a good Mom.

  188. Best advice as a younger male who is into this, you have to surprise ur husband with situations. Like him walking in on you, change scenery role play. Group sex?

  189. People grieve in different ways. Maybe she figured that's what would truly cheer you up, and she didn't want to see you sad. Which your feelings are valid, I just think she was thinking about it from a different perspective and thought that's what you would've wanted. It seems like she was trying to help, her intention was good. Plus, sometimes when something emotional happens, for some people, sex can help or make them feel better to an extent. Maybe she just wanted to give you an escape. But everyone is different. Talk to her about it.

  190. That really does depend on the woman and many factors to do with their body structure. Personally I have a long torso and can take a decent amount of length, so I do find I enjoy the bigger ones a little more. My friend who has a similar visible body structure doesn’t have the internal depth and runs away from the big ones. Human anatomy is a funny thing!

  191. Communication is one of the biggest issues all relationships have, regardless of age. I see posts on here all the time of people in their 30s not being able to communicate things to their partner. If anything the issue is the guy himself and not so much his age. A guy saying dumb shit like that could very well have come from an 18 year old with the same kink (I know of a story where a 22 year old impregnated his 22 year old gf on purpose). I just think the guy is a dumbass

  192. Depends how you are losing weight. If it is by increased exercise then yes it will boost the feeling of being Horny because exercise generates increased endorphins one of the hormones that boosts sex drive

  193. Take the age aspect out of it then, how would you handle it? Or are you just trying to make a useless point that doesnt help my situation?

  194. Make sure you’re on the pill, then just dirty talk about getting or being pregnant as he is getting heated did you even read the post? she said she's on birth control, and he jokes around about tampering with it so she gets pregnant. she also said she isn't into the kink and it makes her uncomfortable. Kinks need to be consensual.

  195. These have some popularity on pornhub and there are several subreddits for it here on reddit – as with any guy doing online porn though you need to expect that a large part of your potential audience is gay dudes.

  196. Oh look, it’s the “not all men” man. Just condemn them like the rest of us. If you’re not like the men described in this thread then this isn’t about you.

  197. Oh look, it’s the “not all men” man. Just condemn them like the rest of us. If you’re not like the men described in this thread then this isn’t about you.

  198. tbh the way that worked best for me was using a rabbit vibrator because i’ve never really felt anything internally either

  199. I’ve had “brain only” orgasms while high before. It’s way too unpredictable to try to do deliberately but I would imagine altered states of consciousness like dreaming or being high might make it easier to have such an experience.

  200. That only speaks to the double standard of perception between the male and female bodies rather than to some underlying truth about everyone needing to cover up as much as possible all the time. Maybe if the roommate can't deal with a woman potentially wearing less clothes at home, be it because it offends him or he can't see it in a non-horny way, he shouldn't live with one?

  201. I remember my ex and I had this conversation about too much friction. He said “I’ve never had this issue before!” And kept trying and trying. I just said, “well maybe we need lube” and again, he’s all “I’ve never had this issue before.” And made it like it was about me lol. He was very opposed to lube. Lube is only there to help. But he took it like it meant he couldn’t get me wet.

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  203. Oh, to be clear, I am not recommending Sex at Dawn. It is ALSO garbage, and for very similar reasons. It happens to take a position that's, ultimately, closer to correct but that's really only because it's the less fantastic position. The “evidence” they present and the “why's” of the matter are utter nonsense. But as it happens, Before the Dawn takes the human exceptionalist position, and those pretty much always turn out to be wrong. Sex at Dawn takes the position that ancient humans behaved like mammals. And if that was the extent of their argument, it would be halfway decent if somewhat boring. Since we are, in fact, mammals. Unfortunately for the propagation of good science but fortunately for their book sales, they took a much more sensational approach to the issue. Since they weren't going to be bothered with little details like the critical examination of evidence that supports their position or seeking out evidence that refutes it, there wasn't a need to limit themselves to anything that was grounded in… you know… reality.

  204. I have told her repeatedly that I’m not interested in her friend anymore but sometimes I feel like she doesn’t believe me…we have been together for some time now so I hope she understands. And I’m so confused why she would even do this?? It’s worth noting she is bisexual and likes women but has never said she is attracted to her friend

  205. She knew she was a boring prude with you and felt guilty on some level when you dumped her, she then went “oh let’s get wild with this new guy to make up for years of being a starfish in the bedroom”, then she probably didn’t even like it much either and in fact things with him ended pretty quickly. But she had to let you know to hurt you. Block this bitch.

  206. Maybe have him try this stuff called secret passion. It’s a little drink it comes in a bottle liek a 5 hour energy. Or like another make enhancement pill, horny goat weed is an all natural product. It may help him last longer. I know with my boyfriend, if he drinks the “sex juice” as I call it, piv lasts longer and it’s naturally harder, but it also feels better for him.

  207. Think of your vaginal muscles just like any other muscle. If you’ve never done the splits or even stretched at all the first time pushing yourself into it will hurt. Even more so if not warmed up. But even if you’ve done it before, if you take a break for a while it can be uncomfortable or painful again when you start up again. So treat this as you would getting into the splits. Warm yourself up, so get turned on and make sure you’re wet you can also use lube to help. And then start small, start with a finger and work yourself up to a toy that’s penis sized. And that probably won’t happen in just one session just like you don’t get into the splits in one day.

  208. I’m 21 so I don’t really know because I don’t have the brain of a 30 year old and I’m on shrooms. But I think it depends if you’re pursuing her sexually or romantically. But I’d say you’re both consenting adults go for it.

  209. Also laughing is a mood killer?? Omg dude get serious. Unless she is laughing at you — she’s just having fun. What do you want her to do? Thank you after orgasming with no bliss?

  210. Oh oh I don't know if this might come as a flag but i experienced pretty much almost The exact same thing. And oh yeah I know exactly what you mean the way they're lay down a lifeless plastic f*** doll. Yeah it didn't really bother me at 1st but when it was like that all the time it really started to notice and make me wonder wat it is that makes them choose to act that route. So for scientific rational explanations..was your partner always leaning more towards initiating the, trying not to make any noise during coitus mode?

  211. If you're running into foul taste and smell… that's an individual issue. Yes, I love going down on my girl. Anything that makes her squirm gets me riled up.

  212. Okay! He just won’t talk me about it so I don’t know how to talk to him about seeing the doctor.He is kinda stubborn and doesn’t really like going to the doctor.I don’t think is weed or alcohol because he only does it socially and it’s consistent so it hasn’t caused problems before.It could be high blood pressure because he does drink a ton of caffeine and he also take’s adderal which makes it worse but he needs it.I wonder if his shitty diet has something to do with it? We are in college for context and he’s very into the party scene hence the weed/Alc,Any tips on how to get him to talk to me? He’s scared it will be permanent.

  213. Lots of non-sexual stimuli can trigger an erection. Morning Wood, fabric of underwear or pants, and a very cold environment are just some examples.

  214. Tbh I understand their perspective bc it’s a lot of pressure to take someone’s virginity, esp for guys that only wanna hookup bc some girls can get super weird after. Also i know it doesn’t help but u would have definitely still had a successful education/career and still been able to lose ur virginity during while achieving ur goals, that’s a bit excessive imo

  215. I personally don't, but it's a sensory thing and not a gender thing, but I prefer other ways for my body to be appreciated. I'd much prefer hands over my body and compliments about how it looks and feels than kisses specifically as they get overwhelming and start to feel bad pretty quickly. Definitely ask your partner(s) to find out what they like specifically

  216. We must have read different studies. They said normal to slightly smaller in those I read. Of course the size of the woman matters too. Smaller women have more issues with larger penises. Larger women not so much. I've been with many women and not one has complained about my average size. In the end: it's not the size that matters, it's how you use it.

  217. maaaaaaan don't cut up your dick at 18 for someone who's 18 You have your whole life ahead of you to decide that you have as many kids as you'll ever want and it's time to get the snip Demanding that you do something this drastic (any surgery is a lot more than no surgery) is a huge warning sign. If he actually does break up with you, hey, the trash took itself out. I'd love to have that happen every Sunday night

  218. Is it really that strange, if you think about it? He is in there in the first place because he likes the sensation of your body around him. And if he stays in, he gets more of the good stuff… Bonus: some of your orgasms have a pretty damn neat aftershock, it could have been THAT that convinced him to stick around.

  219. I feel you, OP. I’ve been laughed at for my eczema flare ups since Primary school. I’m fat, have stretch marks and a tiny cock. Even right now I have a huge scab on my forehead, it’s disgusting Realistically could I meet a girl willing to have sex with me? Maybe, who knows. But will I ever feel attractive? Highly unlikely. I’m working on myself as best I can. Personally I blame porn for the unrealistic expectations of one’s self in a sexual setting. It’s an uphill battle to get over all this stuff but it’s worth a try, isn’t it?

  220. Wellllllll, I think you two should both discuss the logistics and feelings you both have BEFORE you randomly bring another person into your relationship sexually. Make some rules. Set boundaries. Talk it all out. Then talk it all out some more so you aren’t just on the same page, but same line and same word!

  221. Free, but you need a referral for a doctor. A lot of doctors refuse to send referrals if you have no children and/or are younger (under 30 or so). OP will very likely struggle to get a doctor to refer him at 18, no kids plus in a same-sex relationship, as there is literally no benefit to the operation.

  222. Keep on doing lots of lighter butt play until you feel really comfortable with it. Have him play with your ass and do a bit of fingering while he's going down on you or using a vibrators. Once that's really easy for you try more. Don't rush into actual anal intercourse though, there's lots of fun that can be had short of that.

  223. Thanks for your answer. It was super helpful. I did actually run through this set of thoughts myself. It does seem like the way to go, if not obviously. For me this whole thing comes to how she feels, and my reaction of how she feels going in. What I actually want is to feel desired, and have this natural need to share me with someone else. It's less about sex and completely more about how much sexual value I mean to her? Sounds weird I know.

  224. Please don't tell other people what's going on in their relationships, and what's with the snark you're fucking 18

  225. Yeah! Just like women sometimes can’t get as wet as they did the week before or gets way more wet than they did a few days before. All sorts of stuff can cause it, anxiety, nerves, hydration, mood, don’t worry!

  226. That’s a great way to look at it being a plaster I hadn’t thought of it like that, thank you I will look into those too

  227. i mean id literally be open to seriously anything else but like this felt like she went straight for my biggest insecurity and pretty much confirmed it for me and im getting shit for feeling bad about it. i dont get it at all.

  228. Yeah people make it seem like casual sex is the coolest thing you can ever do and that it makes you more desirable and hot and sigma because you fucked someone and now you are expected to not care about them and want nothing to do with them after having sex. It's good for some people and not as fun for others, it's not fair to hold everyone to a standard of having sex without feeling anything for the other person (i also doubt that people who have casual sex very often don't feel anything for their partners throughout).

  229. My very first day of doing porn the director/cameraman told me to always remember, “If it's uncomfortable them it's probably making good video.” Also, let's not forget that porn is a simulated sexual experience, not sex.

  230. That makes sense. French sentence structure seems a bit different. J'apprends le français. I'm a beginner though. Wouldn't it still be proper to say “une homme transgenre”?

  231. You absolutely need to sit down and talk and she needs to know how seriously this affects you. Your frustration will morph to anger, resentment then hatred and or depression. The time to deal with it is now.

  232. I just wanted to say as a bi male? that after watching your videos, you two are so hot if that's your bf in them??? His cock looks amazing and the way he fucks you!!???? I would certainly love to do double vaginal with you two!!!

  233. My first time I was tryna figure out how to do the motion and for some odd reason I was just turning my hips and she asked what I was doing I told her I don't know but lemme figure it out after 5 mins of just tryna make my dick turn in her I found the correct way and now this post brought back a funny dumb memory thanks for the serotonin

  234. Yea, it may come back as a thought but I have to control these thoughts and not let it get to me. I need to be focused on the moment and not stressed tf out

  235. Just wondering if you're a medical or biology expert of any kind. I just think you seem to be talking pretty in depth and giving medical advice – just wondering if that's something you're qualified to do. I see a lot of similar conversations by those into Coprophilia and I'm worried that they're opinions are more than a little biased on this subject.

  236. Honestly, as a woman there could be many reasons. When you get married women often feel like they become this husbands “mother” doing everything for them, grocery shopping, cooking, making sure the house is always clean etc. there is probably something she is wanting you to help her with that just isn’t getting done. I would definitely ask her. Or just surprise her and do the things she would do on a normal day so she doesn’t have to do them. If this isn’t the issue, I’m not sure what else it would be.

  237. I met someone who also was into findom and it was my first time. I wish I knew more about it, but there's not a lot out there that I could find anyway

  238. Oh no I’ve told him already.. he knows I hardly ever am able to connect my body to my mind. It’s hard to explain haha. Like once a week when we do if I’m able to orgssm but I feel like I’m missing out on something. It’s been with every partner I’ve had

  239. Try things like “intercrural sex” (between the legs/thighs) it’s nice bc you can be in various positions and it’s still intimate…or anal if y’all are open to that, that’s fun too. If she doesn’t enjoy genital-related stimulation it’s possible she has other erogenous spots. Toys are also a great idea to bond with: Vibrators (wands, bullet) Fleshlight

  240. And men are allowed to find high body counts a turn off, 14 people at 18 is gross. A woman past 5 bodies at 25 is high imo

  241. If this was me I’d be very hurt if I found out my BF was doing this behind my back and I would most likely end the relationship. If that’s what you like to do and enjoy that’s absolutely fine but you NEED to tell her and bare in mind this may be a dealbreaker for her.

  242. No matter how desperately you wanna label me as a terrible lover, I've never done and never intend to do such thing. Right now I sound like a guy who gives one-sided oral while my partner refuses to reciprocate for reasons that can be easily worked around.

  243. No, they are definitionally impossible feelings to muster up inside of a gay person. The Kinsey Scale disagrees with this.

  244. Do I like eating out women? yes. Do I like it so much that I want to do it all the time? no. Do I like getting pubes stuck in my teeth? definitely not. Should you dump his ass if he refuses to pleasure you in the ways you want? absolutely yes.

  245. Did she start any birth control? Pills,Patch,Ring or just any form because if so that could very well be the problem of why she’s never in the mood me and my boyfriend had that problem for awhile after I started birth control

  246. It could be lack of attractiveness to you why he goes soft and doesn’t want it often. The good thing is your trying and that matters most for you and hopefully for him. People gain weight it happens it’s what u do afterwards that matters. If your still the same person he loves he should be able to deal with it and it can take time. Having said that some people can’t also. Porn also could be why he goes soft. Cheating sure but wouldn’t jump straight to that conclusion necessarily also. Looks come and go and as does the body but how someone treats you can be the most appealing thing we’ll that’s just how I view things

  247. If the period is about to finish in a day it's probably a weak bleeding by now? There's a big chance he wouldn't even notice and distinguish it from bleeding from the first sex. I don't recommend you to lie to him. But you can talk to him how does he feel about it and show him how does it look. Because a young men ussually have no idea and are afraid just because they're imagining it wrong.

  248. Dude, not to be crude, but I could make your gf cum repeatedly with one finger. I know exactly how you feel, it sucks to feel insecure but trust me. If I can do some serious damage with one finger (with every woman I've been with) it's got nothing to do with size and everything to do with technique. Maybe his size meant he rubbed something just right, maybe it was curved, whatever. Get out of your head and into her pants, learn what she likes, learn what positions work for you both. And if you need to, just use your mouth. You know what won't turn her on? Insecurity.

  249. Kind of. We were good for a few minutes with the condom, then the blood happened and I made sure we stopped. Having a condom definitely help in the heat of things

  250. okay but that's still the solution. choose between not enjoying sex, or enjoying yourself but coming fast (at first, maybe).

  251. When you found porn of your kink in his browser history did you interpret that as he just wasn’t being honest about not liking it? My first assumption was that he maybe tried to look it up to see if he could get into it

  252. The vaccine is a three dose shot taken over several months – so it’s not necessarily ideal to wait that out. But everyone should get the vaccine regardless. Everyone.

  253. Not necessarily. The human biome is a complex thing. Many partners can have unprotected sex for years with no BV issues related to cum, others can’t – often it’s a reaction to a new partner’s biome – or their poor hygiene, dental or otherwise. I think the “new or multiple partners” thing is just the time you’re likeliest to encounter a new biome that doesn’t play well with your own. OP’s husband sounds like a huge douche though – and we all know those are bad for vaginas health.

  254. My earliest memories are age 4. I was already masturbating then, by rubbing on the floor with my clothes on. It could just be that. As far as I know I was never sexually assaulted as a child. There are ultrasound images of fetuses masturbating in the womb.

  255. Okay, so…not really wanting to say, but I think that’s something that would be concerning enough to end the relationship. Keep in mind that I only know what you’ve said here about him, but, yeah. That’s a huge red flag that really shouldn’t be ignored, and honestly, he’s sounds very impulsive, which in combination with that type of behavior is more than concerning really, and sorry he got caught and called out. I know that’s not what you want to hear.

  256. It's fine. I can't afford a real Monet or Klimt but I'm still OK with having a reproduction or a poster hanging on my wall.

  257. about that… neither my family nor my country is open enough to these stuff… if they ever find out i'll be deemed a whore and kicked out so that really isnt an option :/

  258. But I don't intentionally stay silent. I simply have never felt anything that made me make any noise (either alone or with a partner), and usually I'm mentally focusing on the sensations, breathing etc so I don't cum. And personally I would be turned off if I thought my partner was intentionally making moaning sounds or whatever for my sake because they thought it would be weird if they didn't.

  259. Actually, there are way more penises that are below average than above. The way averages work, just a few penises that are considerably above average can balance out a lot of penises that are barely below average. To give an example: If you have six guys and five of them have a 4 inch dick and one of them has a 10 inch dick, then the average dick size for the group is 5 inches. Even though only one of them is above 4 inches and all the rest of them are left feeling like they're smaller than “most” guys. This is obviously a contrived and extreme example, but when you dig into the data of these studies, you find a similar thing. Most guys are slightly below average. There's fewer penises that are above average, but they also are more likely to extend further from the average.

  260. Please block this guy from your life, sweetie. He's a manipulative narcissist. You have a whole life ahead of you – don't waste a second of it on someone who treats you like this.

  261. I'm sorry for the delay, And sorry in advance for my english. Me (M33) and my wife (F42) we started dating back in 2016, had out first Child in 2018 and second child in 2020. When in comes to sex, everything wen't great until the birth of our first child. She says she is only in the mood for sex maybe once or twice a week. I respect everything. And I agree that we are both exausted. The big problem here is communication.. Everytime I try to talk about sex, she gets angry She shuts her mouth and she gets really unconfortable. What bothers me, and my motivation to talk to her is: She never initiates sexual intimacy. We have sex maybe 3 Times a month. And everytime I insist on trying something new She ends up liking, like anal, bondage, etc.. If it wasn't for me I think She would never have asked for any of those. I'm not perfect and I tend to be rational and logical, and I always ask everything directly like: tell-me your kinks? do you want to fuck? Why don't we fuck as much as we used to? I think I should be asking things in a different way. But I doubt that the outcome Will Change.. in her defence She says she has a puritan upbringing.. but I don't think that's an excuse. Thanks in advance.

  262. I have never come from fingering, but other orgasms don’t feel like I have to pee. Maybe it’s specific to fingering.

  263. oh wow… one “high class” escort for an hour… satisfaction that will last me 2 or 3 days max. i'd rather jack off and use the money for a retainer/downpayment for a divorce attorney.

  264. I don’t have a complete inability but it is really difficult. It’s helped having a very patient partner. When I’m having sex I need to be having an erotic conversation. Idk what it is but if I don’t have that I can’t get warmed up and have a really hard time getting anywhere. Knowing the stuff that makes you tick with a partner and having someone who will try with you and be patient is the key. Sex has been a really difficult topic with me and my girlfriend but we are always just wanting the best for each other.

  265. exactly…. sounds like exactly something i experienced with him before but i couldn’t find the right words to describe it. I’m guessing this is what he felt that night as well.? ah, makes me happy.

  266. My husband and I had a similar funny experience a while back where he tried to recreate his favorite position with me on top. Essentially I sit up on my feet in a low squat and bounce my ass up and down, so I’m doing about a million super low squats. At this point I can keep it up for quite a while, he wanted to see if he could do it. He could not. Said his legs and ass were literally on fire after about a minute and he was so sorry he asked me to do it so often because he had no idea how hard it was to physically do. He actually squatted over me and I was dying laughing the entire time. I can do the squat thing because my muscles are used to it. I also know that I can alternate between using my pelvis to move up and down, using my knees and glutes to move up and down, and using my feet to press into the mattress/couch and literally bounce myself up and down so no single muscle group gets too tired. The only truly sucky part is maintaining that squat position the entire time. As a woman who has also topped other women too, same story. Your muscles get used to the movements and you learn little tricks to get leverage here and there. Like just rocking your hips back and forth versus moving your whole body, using the bounce of the mattress to propel you in and out, using your glutes and legs to do the work, using your abs to do the work, it also matters how you hold yourself up with your arms too. By far the worst is when she’s close but not close enough and she’s like, “don’t stop” and you know if you switch it up even a little to relieve whatever muscle group you’re using, it’s going to make her lose the orgasm which you don’t want so you’re just there, muscles on absolute fire but you are a soldier so you press on and then feel like you’re made of goo after. Lmao. My hats off to men and lesbian tops because it’s hard work.

  267. and went too deep and hit the imaginary cervix which was a penalty. I'm sorry, knowing a girl wrote this makes it extra funny xD I'm not hating, it's exceedingly cool that you gave this a shot. Just, it funny. You two go!

  268. Yea it's wrong. As long as you don't have your partners consent or you see this as something you shouldn't tell him, it's just emberassing and may give him some serious mental problems if things go wrong.

  269. i’m usually not one to say “leave” over anything but seriously.. leave. a partner that doesn’t care about your pleasure isn’t a partner you should have. plenty of men love giving oral, as you can see by these comments, he sounds like an asshole.

  270. Tell him that you have a common goal, which is to have a fulfilling sex life. (If you’re serious about trying to save this relationship, you’re going to need to phrase things in a way that concedes a bit, remember the goal isn’t to win, it’s to resolve) “Hey SO, I feel hurt by how our conversation went the other day and I’d like to have a calm and kind conversation about it, because I know I didn’t start it the best way. I know we both want us to have a satisfying sex life, and maybe we could both give input on what that looks like to each of us?” Maybe even let him go first? “I would like for you to do a little bit of reading, and to try to view from my perspective. In a relationship I need to know my partner wants to make me feel good. To make me feel good I need more sensuous sex, and throwing in oral in the beginning or end would be great. I understand if you don’t like it, but that means we need to find other things that we both like to do that isn’t just penetration. Only 18% of women can come from solely penetration. I also need to feel free to express myself sexually, so I need you to respect me and my past sexual experiences as well as being willing to listen when I bring up the topic.” You could also ask him why he doesn’t enjoy it, and if it comes from a place of insecurity? Like maybe he’s afraid he won’t do it right? Anyway, I hope this helps, and remember: you deserve a healthy relationship with a healthy sex life!!!! https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2017/08/28/health/intercourse-outercourse-sex-kerner/index.html

  271. There's only one: ask the pussy owner what they like. Everything else is great for some, meh for some, and fucking awful for some.

  272. I never heard of putting lube on before putting the condom on. Definitely worth a try thanks! I made the mistake of buying too small condoms many times. The ones I use now are the right size and they are not too tight

  273. I remember being super young and being on Wattpad, trying to find the most smutty type stories or anything juicy to read and as an adult I’ve kind of wanted to get back into it because I know i liked looking into when I was younger, so I’m glad I came across this and thanks everyone for the recommendations.

  274. In fairness, there was a case where this actually happened. I wish I could remember it better, but it was one of the earlier online-related cases. Some guy was mad because his ex stole all his money and destroyed his apartment, so he uploaded revenge porn pics of her AND started contacting the police. Little did he know, she contacted the police first and their entire process of taking his report was just evidence gathering against him. He ended up in jail and they never opened a case on her or investigated his claims. If I recall, it was back when it wasn't quite established how much (or if) revenge porn was a crime.

  275. Eh, I'm not too worried about generalizations, but I love giving/receiving head so if I had been dating a woman who revealed she never wanted to give head it would be a strong signal we're incompatible.

  276. I think of it as sublimation. Most people are taught to want agency, control, and respect in their lives, but we've all also had to deal with and accept moments in life where we are helpless. There are theories that in order to accept a sense of our powerlessness that a mind might be 'wired' to experience kinds of emotional or psychological pain as a pleasure response.

  277. Yeah well I am already after words with the hot tub party girl to establish an FWB with her. And you're right. Plus – I told the FWB about my sex with that girl the next day.

  278. It is almost certainly the case the your boyfriend does not have a yeast infection. Yeast infections in men are rare and obvious. One possible cause is the lubrication you are using. many lubes contain sugars that act os food for the natural yeast you already have. This causes the yeast you already have to get out of balance. Make sure to use a lube that does not contain glucose.

  279. This will probably get buried, but here goes. There are pieces to this story that are missing, but reading between the lines, I am guessing that she grew up in a somewhat religious household. With both of you becoming more involved in your church, it has probably caused her to do some thinking, and potentially examining her behavior. She may be experiencing some guilt about having sex before marriage or even with people before you, if there were any. Christianity and churches have a tendency to make sex before marriage and virginity such a high value item. They will tell people that waiting until marriage is the right thing to do because it is a gift you give to your spouse, among other things. Some churches go so far as to encourage people to be “born again virgins.” My guess is that she is subscribing to the idea that sex after marriage is a spiritual union, and it is special. Some religious ideas include that having sex before marriage lessens what the act means after marriage, and that you can never achieve the level of spiritual intimacy. Ultimately, this is a great lessen before you get married. The first thing is that in life, the no's almost always win. This means that her saying no to sex is a line that she is drawing and you have to live with that if you want to stay. The second thing is you need to communicate with her about why she is doing this because you are struggling with it. It needs to be approached in a way for you to ask for better understanding. Let her know that you need reassurance in whether or not she was satisfied and enjoyed the sex life you had. Ask her what ways you could show each other intimacy without having sex that she would be comfortable. Let her know that you still greatly desire her, and that you are trying to understand how to make this work in your own head, without leading to frustration or misunderstandings.

  280. Like many other on this thread, I encourage you to stop having sex with him. I know people who have latex allergies and still practice safe sex using latex-free condoms. He shouldn’t get to enjoy having condom free sex with you, and cumming in you every time KNOWING damn well you’ve asked him to get checked out by a doctor

  281. Give different answers. Like “My Slut” “My Cowgirl” “My Dicklover”. Take it to the next level!

  282. Well the first few times I wasn’t really thinking about it at all. And I have tried being able to reach but since he’s so much larger than me there’s no room ?

  283. If he had said he liked you because you so cute and small, would that have bothered you as much? Or saying that he likes your petite feminine body structure? Some people just suck with words. I wouldn’t worry too much unless he is throwing out other clues that you didn’t mention in this post.

  284. I can be both dom n sub n can have something in my ass, maybe you should choke him n talk dirty to him in very dominant n aggressive way

  285. So what i understood is that he makes you have a yeast infection everytime you have sex with him, but he wont get tested and will always say “you don't do it enough with me blablabla… To me it looks like he has a big impact in your life that is toxic, because he seems abusive when it comes to showing your love to him. You don't have to have sex with him to show him your love Plus I don't understand, why do you keep having sex with him if he has potential STI/STD, its totally unprotected sex, and wirse than ever, he finishes inside. I don't know how much you love him, but to be a couple that lasts in time, you need to both be respectful to the other and honnest, all I see is that he doesn't care about his health and not yours either since he won't get tested and protect himself. Don't hurt yourself more, its important to leave him AND get tested for all STI/STD, he doesn't respect you now, he is using you

  286. I have a very high sex drive too…? I communicated this to my bf before we got serious, like I said minimum once a day, otherwise I will masterbate as well…. My libido is strong? and he almost a year in is very on board, and I couldn’t imagine being shamed about it…. We even made our own sex video and I will masterbate to that toooo.. it’s so fuckin hot? watching him fuck me and finish and squeeze my ass when he’s done is heavenly ?? sex is my favorite part of the day hands down? you be you!! But get some lube, some dildos you can suction to the wall and ride the shit out of it!!! Life is way to short!!!

  287. I naturally have muscular thighs and my bf is on antidepressants so I go for a solid 10 minutes before I get bored and w switch to something else

  288. I definitly view it as traumatic and im always making sure she’s comfortable and i ask of she’s comfortable before during and after

  289. Like maybe if he's not looking but then all he has to do is look. And even then you can do it by feel. Long story short he's doing it on purpose and you have to be very clear to him he has to knock that shit off.

  290. I feel really stupid bro, believe me and to be honest there was barely any sign it was a dude and everything happened so fast. To the point i’m starting to wonder if i got raped…

  291. Thank you, you are so understanding. I feel so ashamed of myself. She does know about my past addictions. I'm afraid of telling her that I find the idea of having sex with her repulsive, I don't want to break her heart.

  292. Omg. My bf always wanted to do this but he couldn’t explain it properly and I was super confused. Now it just all makes a lot more sense!

  293. None of your sexual pasts should matter. As a guy for myself, Don't EVER tell me how many or what crazy shit you have done. That is the past and it needs to stay there.

  294. Hell no, it wouldn't be an issue! I'd be walking around with a little extra swagger for the entire next day. I don't think I'd be over-generalizing by saying that most guys would take it as a stroke to their ego. You've got nothing to be embarrassed or self conscious about.

  295. You are not sexually compatible. It’s ok to break up over this. Find someone who makes you feel wanted

  296. I think you nailed most of this, except the crucial bit: so often it's either difficult to communicate about this before, or people think it's unnecessary, so it's rarer that first time partners really have any sense what each other are thinking. And I'll confess as a young man, I was fine with not knowing because then it wouldn't really be my fault if we were on way different wavelengths, right?? Yeah it's shitty, I don't do that anymore.

  297. I understand. She did initiate this one time maybe its is going to be like that im happy that im not the only one who gets that type of treatment. But also the other night things where getting heated and i started to touch her but she wasnt wanting to do anything and i actually apologized for touching her. I feel like im way to aggressive when i start to kiss then touch her body then down on her after working it up. This has happened countless times before and it makes me want to go to the other room in a shameful manner but i dont. There is almost always no climax. Im willing to stay with her just gets frustrating after a while.

  298. I wouldn't go scorched earth about it yet.. lol Should he have texted, probably…but he is probably in his own head trying to figure out how to recover from it. I think its something you can't recover from for sure…plan a date, go out, whatever and then casually try again without making a big deal…if you have a little more experience why not try taking the lead in the moment for that first time.

  299. Nipple stimulation is very important for me to enjoy sex..it makes me hard and helps me cum. I usually can't do either without it

  300. As far as fantasies go, it's quite common according to this academic book published on the topic. Something like 2/3 of men and half of women have this fantasy. Far fewer act on it. One thing to keep in mind is that fantasies are perfectly find to stay as just that. You can talk about them with your partner, you can role play even. But you don't need to actually do them IRL. Honestly, sometimes the fantasy is better than the experience.

  301. You just set the tone for going forward. Anything between you will only be sexual. He'll contact you the next time he's looking to get laid.

  302. It’s a shame that nipple play is seen as tabu for many straight men. Both men and women’s nipples are equally wired for pleasure. I think it’s a shame not to take advantage of that. Sex is good! Pleasure is good! Google “erogenous zones.” There are so very many parts of the body capable of bringing pleasure. My philosophy is, let’s use the most we can! It’s even more a shame that receiving anal play is tabu for straight men. You guys are sitting on a goldmine. (The prostate.) Why let the opinions of society limit what you do in your private bedrooms for fun? What sense does that make? I think ignoring a pleasurable part of the body is squandering a valuable resource.

  303. It's all in your head! There's no magic bullet for relaxing in sexual situations if you have a history of being anxious. But that's all it is. Your dick is like “BRO. BROOOOOOOOOO CHILL OUT I NEED U MAN” but the brain just won't play ball. Try and figure out what stresses you out about sex and work on that. Do you talk about sex with your partner or partners? I've found that if you talk about what you want to do, what you like and don't like, boundaries and all that before the clothes come off it frees up my mind so much because I'm not worrying about doing something they don't like or them doing something I don't like.

  304. Is just straight nonsense, the only way your s/o gets a share of your income is if you have shared bank accounts and everyone benefits from the shared income.

  305. it is honestly insane how brainwashed we ladies are into thinking that sex is all about mens pleasure, even if what some men are asking are not logical or realistic. i have been there as well when i was younger. the fact that you feel bad for being aroused during sex just shows how bad the brainwashing is. please go to theraphy or try speaking to your partner, or try getting this out of your head. i am sorry you feel that way. it's all thanks to horrible men who only have cared about their pleasure and made women guilty for being aroused. quit this thinking please. i wish you the best

  306. If the guy really is into you and is serious about you then he will not put sex as a priority and not rush it at all. I think it is very smart for you to hold out as it weeds out all the guys that just want sex and nothing more. Now you can find someone who is really into you and not just want you for sex. I am a 30yo male and i told myself my next relationship i would refrain from sex for a whole month. It upset a few that were just looking for some fun and nothing more and was even accused of being gay for not having sex with a girl i was talking too that got a bit drunk during a night out at the club. I told her she was intoxicated and i didnt want the first time us having sex to go down that way she got very upset accused me of being gay and never spoke to me again.

  307. MayQueen as someone from the region I feel like your libido being linked to the climate is absolutely understandable. I felt similar waves in interest (not poly leaning however) and will say it shifted a lot when I moved to Seattle. The weather/vibe is similar but it's still relatively bustling during the dark months so I don't feel it as often anymore. Just imagining living in Iceland or somewhere where they have 20+ hours of darkness in the winter! Maybe your body/libido just hibernate like a bear.

  308. OP, they premeditated the conversation with you, which means they discussed it separately beforehand. They want to have sex with you and were judging your reaction.

  309. I appreciate your use of (some). It makes your post not look annoying. I could go either way. I just appreciate anything I get.

  310. Fake it. I might get downvoted for this, but if you really like this girl, fake it for now while you figure out what's going on. Fuck her, and while you're inside her, fake an orgasm. I sometimes have that issue where I could go all day but not cum. I also definitely get in my own head and fuck up my own erection with mental nonsense.

  311. Try coconut oil lube. They have it on Amazon. Not too slippery and keeps the friction also real good for the skin and safe internally.

  312. I have a son and I’m raising him to not be a shit bag so someone else’s daughter won’t spend 20 years of her life thinking her labia/vulva is ugly or wrong. Gotta do my part.

  313. Unshaven easily. I want a woman. Not a kid. Funny cause Im usually well groomed myself to the extent that I can be.

  314. True. Your description is of the extreme end for sure. Even addiction has a scale too. Fetish is often labeled on the very light end in this forum as it's pro sex ( understandably) whereas addiction seems to only get the opposite view. In the end there is are no hardline defines of either. Mostly just wanted to make conversation.

  315. This was me when I first started having sex. Thanks to porn I thought my penis was whatever sized but my wife and I kept breaking condoms. I figured I was putting them on wrong but one day I bought some large sized ones and it went way better! I went on to measure and evidently a 5.5in girth was above average.

  316. ideally at least 90 mins, on average 2+hours, and half day or full day sessions several days a year. but this includes all types of sexual activity/foreplay.

  317. It’s even better when it’s done as a Peter Falk impression. “You like that cock, schweet-hart?”

  318. Oh sweetie, he’s a porn head with masterbate on issues. Are you really going to use his skewed idea of womanhood shape your self esteem? He’s a loser most likely and needs a girl like you much more than you need him. Toss the negative and find someone who is not trying to make you feel like his sick problem is about you.

  319. Nah your thoughts are your own. Think away. But if it helps, 90% of us are “average” and not packing magnum cocks.

  320. I was about to say this. It’s about intimacy and connection. Yes, toys are great, but nothing makes you feel as connected to your partner (in a cis/het relationship) than having that closeness of PIV sex.

  321. This an interesting contrarian take on this issue — but for the purposes of discussions in r/sex, when people report difficulty orgasming, their reports must be taken at face value.

  322. No.. my ex used to have this shit & i eventually got fed tf up. I’m 90% sure if you want more than one month, then you buy it in full for a discount. like with Hulu when you pay for the full year, you get a discount. So, you shouldn’t have had to wait longer than a month if it’s a reoccurring charge. A full month (for it to completely cancel) if the subscription had just renewed on its own. But you can 100% cancel at any time and it will stop all future withdrawals. The only other charges that would be happening to your account if he genuinely is just waiting for the “subscription to be over” is tips & extra charges for personalized content. Sooo he’s consuming the content either way.

  323. Tell your man to come smell your slick ovulating pussy. Whips me into a frenzy every time. I’ll tear your panties off with my teeth…

  324. Well you certainly don’t have to do something you don’t want to do. I’d say talk with him and explain what you wrote above. You say you guys don’t really talk about things. Well if that is the case then you still don’t have to do anything. Maybe stop talking about during sex. Maybe flirt over other topics rather than a threesome. As for your issues with SA maybe you still need to work on that. I do not know so don’t feel qualified to comment but blaming yourself is not the way to go.

  325. It's called Stealthing and is treated as a sexual offence in a lot of countries. In my country it is considered a form of the R word.

  326. I don’t fantasize about other people, but I often find that during sex I think about other things entirely. Keeps me from cumming too quick.

  327. ACHIEVEMENT POSTS. These include appreciation, humblebrags, “I just had to share,” “I just want to say,” etc. These belong in the Daily Sexual Achievement Thread, not in the main forum. Posts which are JUST sex stories belong somewhere else entirely — like r/sexstories or a similar forum.

  328. As a 34M myself – I find it incredibly, incredibly hard to believe he’s telling the truth at all. That’s his preference, he thinks he can get away with it, and you’ll just be cool about it. I really recommend you cut ties… if he’s willing to do this so early in a relationship – that’s such a huge red flag I can see it from here. What else is he willing to do/lie about? Good luck.

  329. Since he’s coming up with excuses are to why he can’t please you and doesn’t seem interested in fixing the problem , I’d just begin mirroring his actions… it’s your turn to start being lazy too! Don’t initiate sex going forward. If he wants it, he’s going to have to earn it from you. Make him give you some bomb foreplay before allowing him inside. If & when he does initiate , make sure you give your best starfish impression too. Put your satisfaction ahead of his. If you hit a satisfying orgasm , nudge him off you and end the session , even if he didn’t reach his.

  330. I think you replied to the wrong comment. 'Is' is not the topic nor mentioned at any point. Also, you don't need an excuse to stop a conversation. Simply stop.

  331. Just do it, the poor guy probably needs a rest and if you’re refusing to go on top he’s never gonna get it. I personally find it a huge turn off when the girl doesn’t do any of the work, it’s tiring af and I just want to go to sleep before I even finish so having a short time in between where I can relax and be underneath is a life saver. He isn’t gonna be staring at your face and thinking about any flaws, he’s probably just happy to be with you in that moment. Don’t worry about how you look, it’ll only fuck with your head. If he really likes you too, you’ll look amazing to him. Maybe try and watch some cowgirl porn and try doing or copying some of the movements that the girls do on there?

  332. Do you ever try to initiate intimacy? If not, maybe give it a try. If yes and he’s turning you down… find a new guy. You’re young enough you should be able to find someone who is happy to go down on you and fuck you silly every day, if that’s what you want. Or as often as you do want.

  333. I can only speak for myself but be careful with how you ask for “flattering clothes”. my boyfriend used to ask to me to wear specific clothing in bed one too many times and it made me feel like he hates my body.

  334. Are you guys open to opening up the relationship? We’re swingers as well as poly and completely believe that you don’t need to get every single thing fulfilled by only one person. My girl mainly has sex with her other partners but we have an amazing and completely loving relationship. I have some limitations that prevent me from physically being able to have sex as often as she’d like – so this just really works for us.

  335. If it's in the evening we usually both pee before hopping into bed…do our thing and then after cuddling or chilling for a few get up and pee / cleanup…your bladder may not be full but you can usually get atleast some out.

  336. Here’s the thing- I have tried to lose weight SOoooOo many times in my life. I never really thought we needed to sit down and discuss it because – you know the drill probably- what’s gonna happen? I lose 8 pounds and gain 12? Um- not this time. Whoops. And I for reasons I can’t exactly explain- am a lil’ unrecognizable! Sometimes even to me!

  337. I hope he does. I reported it to the cops after the comments here and I have texts confirming it was a camera. I handed it over. However, I don’t think I need to banter with you. You sound like you have personal issues regarding the situation as you placed a lot of time to mock my pain. I don’t think it’s abnormal to hurt when you find out someone violated your privacy and recorded your sexual activities without your knowledge. You mocking that and taunting people online is very strange behavior. I’ll leave it at that and say no more.

  338. I can totally see feeling that way and not to make excuses, but you had both had a few drinks and were doing something kinky/out of the ordinary — sometimes we say dumb shit the heat of the moment.. My SO prefers sex harder vs romantic but doesn't like a lot of dirty talk so I have to catch myself sometimes..

  339. I had an ex do that and that is super hot! I also did that for him as well cause you gotta be involved, keep busy & people wet, hard, and ready LOL

  340. Tons of lube and plenty of time for warmup. I wouldn’t jump straight into pegging. Start with rimming, fingers and small toys, then work up over weeks/months.

  341. My SO and I are tested and he’s snipped so no more condoms but when I’ve used them, I keep passionately kissing him and help put it on. Makes sure it both goes on right and keeps the Hera going.

  342. I think the pettiness is entertaining personally but I think you know the relationship is long past its expiration date

  343. As someone who also was married for ten years and was surprisingly thrust into singledom, I had a related issue where I would get hard but I just couldn't finish. I'm talking hours. I freaked out. I called a sex therapist for a 30 minute consult and she completely calmed me down. You were with the same person forever it takes time to establish comfort and safety. Something that helps me is before any sort of sexy times really get going, I just casually mention hey I may not finish or I may finish quick idk i just tend to have anxiety with new partners at first, but I'm committed to having a good time regardless. Same strategy could be used here. Set the expectations appropriately so that way if something happens it happens no biggie. Have some patience with yourself, I can give you the information of the therapist I called too. She does as little as 30 minute consults so it's very affordable and over the phone. Might just put you at ease. Good luck my friend

  344. I did get a full panel this time. I didn't back then because it simple isn't normal where I live… It never occured to me that's a possibility. I know better now

  345. Count your blessings, I found bestiality porn in my exs search history. Which is as illegal as it is disturbing.

  346. But be careful to watch something with extra large dick, she will realise the difference and you will feel insecure

  347. Not that I remember. It's been a long time since I read the book. This story is told in the first or second chapter.

  348. When I'm with someone I make it known that I love being woken up with sex but that I won't be super enthusiastic or energetic during. I'm not a morning person so they have to initiate. Pornstar me only comes out at night.

  349. Girl, just wait til you move on and see how many guys will eat that thing and fuck it and make you feel so sexy, regardless of the stage of body hair growth.

  350. I could fart & turn my husband on ? But seriously… Every man is different. I dated an older man when I was in my 20’s my experience was similar to yours.

  351. That's cool and all, but that's a really gay thing for a man to say during sex. It would be weirder if she didn't start thinking there was something else to it.

  352. What a tool. Maybe he should be trying harder with you to help you learn what it takes to make you cum instead of complaining about it. Maybe I’m just irritated by this because I had a guy in the past tell me he didn’t want to fuck me because I didn’t cum…when he didn’t even really spend enough time getting to know my body and what it took to make me cum. He just expected me to cum from his dick and that’s not how most of us cum.

  353. Turn the problem on its head. Instead of rushing to the finish, savor the experience as much as possible. The longer you can maintain arousal, the stronger (and more likely) the finish will be for both of you. You may also want to experiment with butt plugs (use lots of lube), because it will massage your prostrate during sex, and can be very intense.

  354. Serious question although it sounds like a joke — can doing one fat trip on mushrooms also help a reset? Have never really been able to experience mushrooms because they don’t work on SSRIs and now I’m off I’d love to have a trip, but don’t want to risk making serotonin receptors worse

  355. When in you can start to curl the fingers already in. If you want to go all the way in, the usually most successful way is to get room from the perineum.

  356. Do your best to make her feel comfortable and safe. She may want to lose her virginity and she may just want a one night stand but women operate differently than men when it comes to sex. Take her out on a date, be nice to her, make her laugh, it may be a good idea to let her set the pace of the encounter. A woman who's in a good headspace who feels safe and comfortable as a woman who's going to give you a really good time that night. Sex for a woman is mainly in her mind as sex or a man is visual and physical. Remember not to neglect her clitoris and her other g spots, there are several. As you probably already know women are multi orgasmic so don't be in such a hurry. Have ?

  357. This is shame, my dude, and shame is a poison. Let it go. I did worse you ger and im ina loving relationship with my spouse, i do community service and environmental work, try to help folks when i can, and avoid cruelty whenever possible. Your sexual history is not a reflection of your ethics unless you were using people intentionally or doing shit with/to folks that cant or didnt consent.

  358. Porn doesn't show sex that feels good it shows sex that looks good to men. Now him telling you to go look at porn is probably a lot easier then him talking about his feelings and what actually feels good to him. Which is probably something you should discuss. You can definitely get ideas from porn but don't look at it as a how to guide.

  359. I was just like you most of my life. My ex cheated on me constantly, spit chewed up food in my face, drove drunk w my kids in the car, did nothing to help around the house, disrespected me in front of my friends…the list goes on but you get the point. I did not want a divorce. She did. After all that, I wanted to keep my family (mostly my kids) together in the same house. All it did was lower my self-esteem. It's been 9 yrs as a single dad. My son hasn't spent the night at his mom's in 5 yrs. My daughter is supposed to be 50/50 but every yr I have her 3-4 mos straight. Mom just disappears. My point is I understand what you might be feeling. I'm telling you from my own experience, you have value but it's up to you to expect it from others. You have to love yourself first. Find a counselor and stick w them. It helped me.

  360. not wrong, as long as he’s into it. and honestly, what man wouldn’t be? if u really want to do it to calm u down tell him this and that it would mean allot to you. if he doesn’t accept he’s throwing a lottery ticket out the window lol

  361. Definitely possible, was just hoping for something a bit more snappy and elegant than “the thing where it's not really in, just sort of across your mouth, but like with your mouth still open,” you know?

  362. We tried it last night and it was not great. We were disappointed in the experience. It took away a lot of the sensation and the fruit roll up kind of hurt. Do not recommend. Also a sticky mess LOL.

  363. Terrible idea. Yin and Yang works a lot better in the long run. You both have to compromise, sometimes you get your way, sometimes she does

  364. I really want to clarify due to all the messages I'm getting. I am in a relationship. I love him . I want to fix this without paying thousands for couples counselling because neither one of us can afford it. We are happy! This is our only issue. I just see how it has slowly started to affect both of us and I don't want to force myself and don't want HIM to ever feel like I'm forcing myself.

  365. I like that, thank you. and that’s exactly right, I have no problem with boundaries it’s just the way he went about it

  366. For future test if you want a clear answer about condom status someone has to soft it like a balloon. If air remains inside condom is ok

  367. Some simple (and reasonably cheap) things to do Buy an under the bed restraint kit Buy a blindfold +/- ear plug Have your partner spank you (using his hand) Roleplay a power dynamic (school teacher and student, police and criminal) Add some ice/candle wax (be sure to test the candle on yourself first, as not to cause a burn) Overall it's really hard to give advice. BDSM encompasses about 1000 things. Consider checking out r/BDSMAdvice or r/bdsmcommunity. Or if you have a question about a specific kink then ask below.

  368. We have tried without lube. Adding lube was something new we started doing after researching this issue and it was one of the suggestions by commenters. We normally do a lot of foreplay and use no lube, but it doesn't seem to make a difference.

  369. If he is happy to help you calm down and your happy sucking his dick you two have fun and don’t fret he’s not going to think less of you because sucking his dick helps you too

  370. HE did it wrong. He was an idiot to let you determine your own weights. It's not rocket science. FOLLOW A SET PROCESS. And gr an instructor who knows the process. This guy sounds like he's just a gym employee

  371. First of all I feel like your urges might be pretty normal and completely okay to feel. They do sound like they are bothering you and you may benifit from talking to a therapist about these urges and their effects on you and your relationships. Personally the way I deal with sexual urges is to well… Have sex, I get that that is not an option for you though, I feel like you may have to sit down with your partner and talk to him about this also as your mismatched sex drives may become a big problem in the future and figuring out if you can find a solution to that now may save you both lots of pain. Good luck!

  372. I thought that was a normal reaction, never really thought of it like maybe it could be an allergy or something? Whenever i get cum in my mouth and lips, it gets super tingly for a couple of minutes, but it never causes real discomfort, just feels a little funny?

  373. oh wow hookups. I love the idea of hookups. I want to know what a hookup feels like one day. Glad for you that you were able to get out of that comfort zone and enjoy yourself. Best of wishes.

  374. Place a couple of pillows under your lower back if your laid on your back. That helps too.

  375. That explains so much…. I've always wondered how the whole “purity” thing worked when the hymen can be broken by medium exercise or masturbation.

  376. That all makes sense. The roughest part of our whole interaction was honestly him digitally penetrating me. We’ve had rougher sex in the past and I was fine. Thanks – that all helps put my mind at ease.

  377. I’m sure you’d like to read that you’re not rotting from the inside out, or that something didn’t crawl up there and die, but so very few of us here on Reddit are doctors that you really should go see yours to get those confirmed. Maybe the dose of the pills you mentioned taking can be and needs to be adjusted one way or the other, or another one might be just the ticket for you.

  378. Yeah, but it's not porn videos or anything that crazy. It's more erotic non nude images.

  379. I thought so, just wanted to double check in case I was wrong as this seemed like a weird coincidence. How long would a small wound take to heal? I stopped spotting in between but it started again after masturbating (w/o penetration)

  380. Almost all of the women I hook up with, sit on my face and I love it. If you and your partner are ready for it, how you sit should come naturally. Don't overthink it. Many of us guys like being smothered, in that way.

  381. It is safe, once you are prepared to become a father. Alternatively, after vasectomy & post-operation check. Otherwise, there is always the chance of pregnancy. The risk is small in the way you describe, but it is still over zero. It is worth noticing that the sperm can live up to several days inside her. Also, are you sure you could stop, or not wanting to repeat when you get the feel of it.

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