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Model from: in
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1999-01-18
Body Type: bodyTypeCurvy
Ethnicity: ethnicityIndian
Hair color: hairColorBlack
Eyes color: eyeColorBlack
Subculture: subcultureGlamour
Date: June 26, 2022
Let´s say: There are people who do things like these, there are people who don´t. IF people do it, they should be very cautious and of course(!!!) clean up their own shit (as in every other situation). You do not need the consent of people who are not involved, if they will not be involved. I FELT this comment to be victim blaming. So I pointed out that in my opinion the problem was not the location and the comment not appropriate. I will not continue commenting on this. We just are different people with different points of view. Have a nice day. 🙂
There's a lot of good comments here and he's seriously not taking you into consideration. It's really gross. That being said, I'd recommend:The State of Affairs by Esther Perel. There's a whole section in the book about explicit monogamy and developing language to talk about what is cheating and what isn't to you personally. It's a good read. Speaking of Sex with the Pleasure Mechanics is a podcast and they have an episode about this too, it's one of their earliest on Spotify.
you pretty much summed up what i said, never said it needed to be a fairytale. but as a woman, it’s different from how men feel losing their virginity.
Well, do you think he shaves his butthole? If not he’s not in the position to complain, or am I wrong? And honestly, when he’s with you it shouldn’t matter to him if you have hair or don’t. From what I know most men don’t care, as long as you clean yourself properly you should be good. And even if he has a problem with it he can keep it for himself, it’s his. Your body, your choice and if he sees it any different, he’s not worth to even see it from miles away.
Be careful with the squeezing thing, I have trouble having normal sex and now even some bladder issues and I'm only 23. But of course, it's amazing in moderation! Just don't want women to go through the same thing 🙂
Well do women like male bodies
Get out
I'm not sure. Ofc the things said and done here are a big issue. However he was never maintained much by other people, so his ideas were very selfish at first. This person really changed for good since then, just needed very big amount of love to feel more secure to stop acting out to hurt people involved. Not all of them come with instructions and I am very very worried, he got confused after beer and missed a point there (that he gets horny after alcohol + became territorial). I can't imagine person that protective and jealous do such strong turn around and out of sudden try to give me another person to play with. This just doesn't add up here.
My wife does this and I love it. The difference is very noticeable. Whatever it's called, keep it up. Your man should appreciate it.
This is not a healthy setup, you need to feel secure for sex to be fun and seems like she ruined it. Dick move and you deserve better. At the same time I would hold off on judging her so harshly and assuming she's a bad, cruel person. After enough experiences with cis men treating you like a blow-up sex doll and not caring about your pleasure despite heartfelt attempts to gently communicate, the trauma can get to you and make you cynical and cold towards those who come next. It's much easier to be positive when you haven't had PILES of experiences like that and I don't think men are in a position to really understand what that's like, unless they're trans and have had sex while being perceived as women. I would say I'm a strong communicator and even I haven't been able to avoid situations where I had no choice but to leave because nothing else worked. And talking about it with a friend was taking back power after being straight up mistreated – I wonder if that wasn't what she actually meant.
I haven't disagreed with a single single thing you said, and I'm still not. It's a delicate situation that could go either way. He replied to my comment earlier, but deleted it while I was typing so I posted my response as a new comment/thread saying to explore and communicate everything. I honestly like this discourse because it shows both sides, I've experienced both sides, but more commonly is been the negative (for me)
Let me say this from a man who is currently dating a curvy girl who feels just like you do. We love you for who you are, if we didn’t we wouldn’t be dating you or asking for those things. I love when my gf rides me, but she thinks I won’t like how she looks, but I always do. If he is asking you, it’s because he not only wants to please you but also enjoys it. The satisfaction of you on top of him just gets him excited and, if it pleases you, excites him even more. It’s hard to define why, even for myself, it’s just a trigger in our brains that just says “hot”
Oh brother Lmao
It means he’s settling which means he’s not that into you which means you can do better
I'd be unhappy every time I wanted a blowjob and knew I couldn't get one, and happy otherwise. But that unhappiness would probably build up over time, and that's where the problem lies. Might be different for other men.
Lol don't you dare touch my head or neck forcefully or tell me what to do in bed bc I'll get you in your sleep. Many dudes have been warned. Don't ever play the victim in the bedroom – they do run into chicks that will dominate them and put their foot down so do not accept that any guy's way of understanding is how things are done.