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Date: June 28, 2022
Chiropractors are not real doctors. Sure, they’re licensed but they are not given the same training as an actual doctor and tbh cause too much harm to people. If she has an issue with her spine she needs to see an orthopedic or physiatrist (not psychiatrist). Regardless, you should be urging her to get her back checked out because you care about her health, not because wanna fuck easily.
I agree in principle that toys aren't an enemy but an accessory/tool, intimacy is a huge part of arousal, and him being part of the experience is important. But to get this mentality…I'd liken it to imagining if you had a man as a partner that could only ever finish if you were using a fleshlight on him. I imagine a lot of women might have questions of “why does he need that toy? Is being with me not good enough? Is him relying on that toy decreasing his sensitivity or something?” and it'd be difficult if not impossible for them to accept the answer of “it just is what works for him”. Insecurities like that compound with societal messaging/insults that a man who can't make is partner orgasm is a pathetic man. Insults like “you've never made a woman wet, never gotten any woman off, suck in bed” are big insecurities for men. And similar ones exist for women. Just like women who have insecurities around breast size, labia size, not being able to get their partner hard with just looking at them, their partner going soft inside them, and so on. Even if under examination it makes little sense (your body is your own and a loving partner attracted to you would love your body as is) it's still felt by a lot of people. Feeling like YOU can't make your partner orgasm with your own body can feel demoralizing , even if there are factors beyond your control or that's just how they're wired. Basically it's a people thing is what I'm saying
happens tho ┐(´ー｀)┌
Fucking hell yeah what an amazing comment. Look, guys. People do believe that men can be good when they’re shown evidence of men being good!
She just wanted it a certain way. There is nothing here suggesting you aren't satisfying her. Quit overthinking everything.
Best thing.
Ive had this happen. If I lose my arousal ( which alcohol can do), sex suddenly becomes painful. And I can get so turned off that even helping the guy out would just feel bad. In that scenario I always just apologize and offer to kiss/ cuddle while he finishes himself.
This is spot on. Highly avoidant behavior to human connection is what I thought as well
there is no indication that she lied to him while there are many indications that he didn't care that she wasn't having orgasms with him telling her how great he was. He just hurt her and made her bleed during sex and then didn't provide any post sex intimacy just rolled over and went to sleep. Even this interaction should have screamed to a reasonable man that he was being selfish and inconsiderate.
Cause her being with men weirds him out, pretty natural given men can make her pregnant while women can’t. That means a man is a threat even if it’s just casual. And our monkey brains didn’t evolve with birth control in mind so that doesn’t matter here.
Am I being gaslighted? Yes you are. Either ask him to respect you, or leave as simple as that. You should not have to face this with any man, and your boyfriend should be more sensitive towards you given your past experiences. My girlfriend was also sexually assaulted by her uncle when she was 14, she gets panic struck sometimes and respectfully asks if we can stop, sometimes in between and sometimes even before beginning, i stop immediately. It bums both of us out but she takes care of certain things as well. That's how should it work.
That’s rude but people stay stupid rude stuff all the time, her problem not yours, let it go and move on. There’ll always be someone you come across who says something stupid, that’ll never change, just don’t waste your energy worrying about it, because they certainly don’t put that much thought into it.
He would say largely the same things. But for me I can’t conceptualize how the two truths can co-exist: where you window shop for variety, but also that she’s more than enough for you. Like you can’t eat if you’re full, sort of thing. So you eat at home but go grocery shopping all day, I guess? But how does she know you’re even thinking of her? Our connection used to be amazing, but I fear we will never have it again because dimes over dollars I can’t help but believe he probably isn’t thinking of me. Our sex had become so infrequent and he seems to have handled it. It’s like whiplash because I thought fixing this about myself would improve us, but it seems to be digging the trench deeper.