I was talking to my fiance about this yesterday. I am not a boob guy, they do absolutely nothing for me and I don't really get why we find them so attractive. However, i LOVE a good bum and I think the majority of men are into bums. With bums, you can actually make them bigger/perkier naturally. You can change how they look by making lifestyle choices that are healther for you like going to the gym. So it's a win win if you REALLY want something to focus on. Imo if you have a partner then physical attraction to something like boobs falls by the wayside. They will see you in every possible position. They'll see inside you, so what does it matter what he thinks? If that's all he cares about – drop him. Cause he sounds like a cheater who is only chasing girls for their looks. On a slightly darker note I don't think it's very fair putting so much focus on something you can't change. Boobs are the same size your whole life. Worse, if they are too big it can be really hard to detect possible breast cancer. My mum is flat as a board and she found a lump very early on. As a result; no chemo, no problems, just tamoxifin every day for 10 years.
Blood can also be brown especially at the beginning or end of a period so those stains would definitely look like shit stains. I have panties I only wear during my period so those ones do have stains (I have endometriosis, leaks happen too often to be buying new period panties every month…but if it happens to a pair of my non-period panties, I trash them) But uhhh.. the new wet stuff.. I can't think of anything for that other than the obvious. How's her hygiene generally? Does she have IBS, crohns, or pelvic floor dysfunction? (this can happen even without kids so if she doesn't have any I wouldn't rule it out!) I would think if it was a frequent thing it may be a health issue.. I would hope it's not just a lack of hygiene, but it definitely could be I would brace her, “I want to talk to you about something that may be a little awkward..” and then approach it as a health issue first like, “I was wondering if you have any health issues like IBS or something like that?” And then see what the answer to that is first… if she says yes, you can ask about how she copes with it and if she's been able to see a doctor (if you're American, maybe she can't afford to? Or maybe she's waiting to see a doctor.. or maybe her doctor is refusing to take the issue seriously?) If she denies health issues then I would just be honest and say something like “I've noticed stains in your underwear.. could a health issue be causing this?” And if the answer is still no then you could suggest a bidet or wipes.. If it's not health related and she refuses to improve her hygiene then if you decide it's a relationship ender then so be it. I'd bet you wouldn't be the first or last to leave her or anybody over a lack of hygiene, it's a common deal breaker!
Personally, yes. My husband doesn't really do it, but whenever he pauses thrusting while inside me I find myself involuntarily holding him in and moving my hips in that circular motion to replicate the feel. Sometimes I wish he would just stay like that and let me continue instead of beginning to thrust again. Or when thrusting, not pull out as far. I find that him making subtle and slow movements while still deep inside me cause me a lot more erotic and mental stimulation than him thrusting hard or fast. Even simply pulsing his dick while inside. We've never verbally acknowledged it so I'm not sure what he thinks.
Initiate watching porn WITH him. There might be something that you aren't doing, that he is too embarrassed or insecure to request from you, and the only way he thinks he can get it is from porn. If he still pulls away after you try this, then maybe there is a deeper problem here. Porn isn't always a “problem” on its own. There's a reason why he's watching it in the first place, just figure out why.
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I was talking to my fiance about this yesterday. I am not a boob guy, they do absolutely nothing for me and I don't really get why we find them so attractive. However, i LOVE a good bum and I think the majority of men are into bums. With bums, you can actually make them bigger/perkier naturally. You can change how they look by making lifestyle choices that are healther for you like going to the gym. So it's a win win if you REALLY want something to focus on. Imo if you have a partner then physical attraction to something like boobs falls by the wayside. They will see you in every possible position. They'll see inside you, so what does it matter what he thinks? If that's all he cares about – drop him. Cause he sounds like a cheater who is only chasing girls for their looks. On a slightly darker note I don't think it's very fair putting so much focus on something you can't change. Boobs are the same size your whole life. Worse, if they are too big it can be really hard to detect possible breast cancer. My mum is flat as a board and she found a lump very early on. As a result; no chemo, no problems, just tamoxifin every day for 10 years.
Blood can also be brown especially at the beginning or end of a period so those stains would definitely look like shit stains. I have panties I only wear during my period so those ones do have stains (I have endometriosis, leaks happen too often to be buying new period panties every month…but if it happens to a pair of my non-period panties, I trash them) But uhhh.. the new wet stuff.. I can't think of anything for that other than the obvious. How's her hygiene generally? Does she have IBS, crohns, or pelvic floor dysfunction? (this can happen even without kids so if she doesn't have any I wouldn't rule it out!) I would think if it was a frequent thing it may be a health issue.. I would hope it's not just a lack of hygiene, but it definitely could be I would brace her, “I want to talk to you about something that may be a little awkward..” and then approach it as a health issue first like, “I was wondering if you have any health issues like IBS or something like that?” And then see what the answer to that is first… if she says yes, you can ask about how she copes with it and if she's been able to see a doctor (if you're American, maybe she can't afford to? Or maybe she's waiting to see a doctor.. or maybe her doctor is refusing to take the issue seriously?) If she denies health issues then I would just be honest and say something like “I've noticed stains in your underwear.. could a health issue be causing this?” And if the answer is still no then you could suggest a bidet or wipes.. If it's not health related and she refuses to improve her hygiene then if you decide it's a relationship ender then so be it. I'd bet you wouldn't be the first or last to leave her or anybody over a lack of hygiene, it's a common deal breaker!
Personally, yes. My husband doesn't really do it, but whenever he pauses thrusting while inside me I find myself involuntarily holding him in and moving my hips in that circular motion to replicate the feel. Sometimes I wish he would just stay like that and let me continue instead of beginning to thrust again. Or when thrusting, not pull out as far. I find that him making subtle and slow movements while still deep inside me cause me a lot more erotic and mental stimulation than him thrusting hard or fast. Even simply pulsing his dick while inside. We've never verbally acknowledged it so I'm not sure what he thinks.
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Initiate watching porn WITH him. There might be something that you aren't doing, that he is too embarrassed or insecure to request from you, and the only way he thinks he can get it is from porn. If he still pulls away after you try this, then maybe there is a deeper problem here. Porn isn't always a “problem” on its own. There's a reason why he's watching it in the first place, just figure out why.
Back when I was young and in my 20s I'd shave it all. But now in my 30s I like a small patch of hair it makes me feel more womanly than like a child.
That's the name for me.